I want to move with my dad and divorce my mom because she is a total ***** she is always beating me and doesn't even care about me for example when I was 8 my sister tried to drown me and what dose my mom do nothing absloutley nothing and just last week this guy was following my friend to school & the same guy tried to run me over with a bike or something but my mom didn't care because it wasn't about her so my question to you is can I divorce her .
DON'T REPLY WITH A LECTUR!!
2006-11-13 10:00:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How old are you? You should be able to live with your dad no problem. Can't say anything from lecture just experience. My sister was able to move in with my dad and now my mom has to live with what she did the rest of her life. I wont tell you you should not but not talking to her is easy enough. Your father if he is understanding will understand why you do not want to see her. But she is your mother, whether you like it or not she will always be that. She will probably beat herself up later. I know my mom did. I will not tell you everything but you are not alone. If anything, learn from what she did. I am a better wife and mother because of it. This isn't a lecture just a word of advice.
2006-11-13 10:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly i don't know your situation. Legally you can "divorce" your parents but it would have to be both of them i think. In order to divorce her you would have to be declared an independent minor, meaning independent from both parents. Each state has different laws regarding that. Instead what u might think of doing is asking your dad, and the court to give him sole custody of u and your sister. Tell the judge what your mother has done, (if she is really being that awful). And don't hate your mom, she is probably having a rough time right now. But if she is cruel or doesn't pay enough attention to you, then you shouldn't live with her. Give her time maybe you will understand each other when you are older. Good luck
2006-11-13 10:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by TR 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to your dad and tell him whats going on at moms home. Tell him you want to live with him. Maybe he can go to court with you and try and get custody of you if the court agrees you are being treated badly from mom. But the only way thats going to happen is if your dad agrees to wanting you to live with him and that you are telling the gods honest truth. I hope things work out for you,,and i hope you talk to your dad soon. Make sure you are doing the right thing here and you are not just doing it because you are mad at your mom for no reason.
2006-11-13 10:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by michelle 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey you need a lecture because the relationship between you and your mother is not a marriage. So no you cannot divorce her. You mother brought you into this world. Granted my mom might get crazy at times but I've never till this thought of calling her a b***h. So it sound like you may really need to check yourself.
2006-11-13 10:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Janea 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No need to go thru that kind of hassle. Merely let your dad know that you want to live with him. If you're really having such horrid experiences, you need to speak to an adult that you trust. Perhaps a school counselor....to meet together with you and both your parents, so that your situation can be resolved amicably.
2006-11-13 10:07:59 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You’re thinking of emancipation. You can’t ‘divorce’ or become emancipated from just one parent. And the situation as you described it is not an emancipation issue, it’s a custody issue. Dad needs to petition for custody.
2006-11-13 13:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by kp 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
since she doesnt really care about you, just go and leave her. Go live with your dad. If you're under ur mom's custody, tel your dad u wish to be under his custody. Tell him about what your mum did when you had your unfortunates. I'm sure he'll pull some strings.
Btw, do tell me that's not a lecture. hehehe...:D
2006-11-13 10:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by IcyBlue2412 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but you need to talk to your dad. If he is willing to have you move in with him then have him talk to your mother. From there they can go to court and change the custody between them. And you will be able to speak to the judge and tell her whom you prefer to live with.
2006-11-13 10:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes you can legally "divorce" you mom tell your father that you need help in doing so good luck. If something like that happens again call 911 on her and youll go straight to your father
2006-11-13 17:23:33 · answer #9 · answered by hotlips1082 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can not divorce a parent. You can, however, go to court and ask that your father get custody of you. Talk with your father and see if he is willing to take full custody of you. When you go to court state how your mother treats you.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 10:04:00 · answer #10 · answered by Shalvia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋