Marriage & Divorce - 13 November 2006

My partner and I are 22, both have a degree. My boyfriend is doing a post grad and working part time and I'm working full time as a lecturer. Just found out I'm six weeks pregnant. Wasn't on purpose, but we are both happy. My family are highly negative and ruining this exciting time for us with the whole 'you're too young, you've ruined your life and you should have waited until you married' I admit, it isn't ideal to have kids out of wedlock, but surely there are many similar success stories out there?

2006-11-13 15:45:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex dumped me a month ago through email. She dumped me right after she started going through therapy. Her father passed away 4 months ago and she has very low self esteem. She siad she was really sorry and she thought we had good potential, but the timing of everything sucked because of her. She asked me not to hate her and said she hoped we could still talk and be friends cuz thats all she could handle at the time. I apologized and said I needed time to get over her and get to a friend level. I really cared about her when she dumped me. Last week she sent me an email basically asking me how I was doing, saying there was no need to apologize, saying she hoped i was doing well, and told me to drop her a line whenever. So tonight I get in a car accident. at 7pm. I had no idea what to do or who to call. I txt her and tell her that I was just in an accident and don't know what to do. She never replies. So should I be mad and does she want to be friends?

2006-11-13 15:44:36 · 11 answers · asked by cds1666 1

I am the primary care taker of my two kids. Daughter age 10 is diabetic type 1 insuline dependente. and boy age 1.5. Since I work from home, I take care of them daily. My wife just drop the daughter to school. Everything else I do until she comes home around 7:00 pm. If we divorce will that be taken into consideration to get custody of the kids?

2006-11-13 15:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by CesarMCSE 3

I gave my wife 3 orgasms, and i was wondering, if it is true that after so many orgasms she can lose sensitivity, at least while we are still doing it, because she said that she didnt feel me inside her anymore, there is no need to report this question, its just an honest question from a conserned husband. So only serious answers please.

2006-11-13 15:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by Alex 1

Can any one give me an advice? I have a brother, and he is very close to me. He got married last June this year, has a baby girl, and he is still studying. My parents are still supporting him, and he and his family's still living with them. But this brother of mine, is still asking for money from me, and I always give him money everytime he asked.
My Aunt, where I am staying right now, is always telling me that I should not give him money everytime he asked coz he is a family man now, and he should start to stand on his own. That he can't just rely/turn to me everytime my mother gets pissed off with him.
What I just wanted is that, for him to finish his studies, that's why I'm giving him money. Is it wrong? Do I need to refuse sometime for him to learn something?

2006-11-13 15:33:02 · 12 answers · asked by Diane 2

your weenie???

2006-11-13 15:31:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

How does one make out which type of love the partner is giving ?
Does unconditional love still exist in this day and age ?
What are the percentages of both ?
Can anyone share their experiences ?

2006-11-13 15:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by Bachelor boy 2

I am still thinking of returning to my ex-husband whom I divorced three years ago because my teenage daughter who is 14 lives with him.

I am so confused about whether I should focus on my own life or just give up myself for her. She is suffering because my ex does not help her with schoolwork or afterschool activities and she lives 3000 miles away from me.

I can not concentrate on my life here. I started a new job here, yet I am constantly thinking about the fact that I should not be here but be with my child.

I am looking into working a seasonal job for Christmas to keep busy and earn some money, but is that the right thing to do?

I have made several promises to my ex that I would return but do not because I see his abusive controlling ways continuing. I read my notes of when I was in the house and how bad it was and feel horrible also.

How do I get over this guilt feeling and do the "right" thing?

2006-11-13 15:19:54 · 20 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

to the girls out there? can there be any other explanation for these stains, like masterbation, as we not slept together for a month or so ,or am ibeing decieved

2006-11-13 15:14:42 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous

the best, most creative, most romanitc one gets best answer

2006-11-13 15:00:07 · 9 answers · asked by woah 2

How do you react when your significant other is speaking to another female (a friend of his) and makes a sexual joke? The joke actually involves both him and her?

2006-11-13 14:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been in a serious relationship with him for 3.5 years. We are planning to get engaged next year, when we're 21. I've been trying countless times to convince my mom that I want to get engaged now but she just wouldn't budge. What do you suggest I do?

2006-11-13 14:58:35 · 20 answers · asked by vic y 2

I just found out a couple of days later that my ex-fiancee is going to be a father. I don't understand why, but that is really upsetting me. We broke up 8 years ago, and I thought that I had moved on a long time ago, but when I got those news, all the insecurities I felt when we broke up all came rushing back. About two years prior to our break-up, we had gotten pregnant, which due to my age, we terminated. This was a very difficult time for me.

Now, I am ready to have children, but unfortunately, I do have have someone in my life to have children with. And I see that he's moved on, found somebody, and they are having a baby. I'm not wishing harm, and think that he could be a good father (if he's grown up a bit), but in my own selfish way, I always wanted to be the first to have a child. Now.....feeling so guilty for feeling so jealous (which is completely not my style), I want to know an easy and quick way to deal with it....considering it's been 8 yrs since the break up.

2006-11-13 14:50:32 · 5 answers · asked by MEMyselfI 1

2006-11-13 14:38:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why would a man stop holding hands, stop showing affection by sitting on the couch w his arm around you= and act like you are not there- unless he wants something? ANd tell his sister he had picked up where he left off- his previous wife died- and his sister told him that he has got to be kidding- I have mentioned the change and does not seem to care- I feel very neglected- he golfs a lot and works very part time- any suggestions-?? I am starved for affection-he is always off doing something to help someone else= D

2006-11-13 14:38:11 · 11 answers · asked by Debby B 6

In a public situation, either with a group of friends or in a public place, is it appropriate to confront your significant other when they have done something to hurt you? Or is it best to wait when the two of you are in private?

2006-11-13 14:33:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

are better in bed. someone told me this is the case because nerds do nothing but think about sex all day.

2006-11-13 14:30:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

my brother's wife hates sex. she does not like if he touches her and does not even sleep next to him. she does not want to get councelling she says nothing is wrong with her.

2006-11-13 14:28:07 · 35 answers · asked by rennygyal 1

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:24:07 · 39 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2

I am seeking advise on this because I have spent so much money on this useless marriage already and i dont want to waste another penny on it. How can i get divorced without an attorney, or spending to much?

2006-11-13 14:23:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just happened across information on herbal supplements that are supposed to give larger erections for males and more desire and sensitivity for females if taken 10 minutes before sex. Has anyone used these? Do they work? Are they a waste of money?

2006-11-13 14:23:26 · 12 answers · asked by sugarbud 3

make fun of fat people while they are not around???

2006-11-13 14:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:22:48 · 8 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2

he says he is only going there to get the money should i trust him or not because we almost got a devorice because of this women

2006-11-13 14:22:42 · 7 answers · asked by bigmom6979 1

My ex had a problem with being faithful in our marriage we have a son together My ex got involved with man for 6 months He was the reason for me to finally loose my love for her. I wasn't expecting to meet another girl nor be involve again However my girlfriend is like my soul-mate she is awesome inside and out! obvious out of respect I divorce my wife which now broke-up with her b/f
she keeps to herself on her emotions but states on still having feelings for me and at this point she isn't ready on meeting my g/f. I now live with my g/f and i have my son 3 days a week, My g/f has a major problem as to why she can't be around with me when i get my son at the ex's house
I feel that i divorce my wife and i live with my g/f should be enough reason to trust me! On the other hand i have compassion
towards my ex's feelings on not yet ready to meet my g/f
Am i wrong? or is my g/f wrong for not having patience?
What is the solution to this problem?

2006-11-13 14:22:24 · 5 answers · asked by FLEXizme 2

how do you get over your first love when you feel like you just want to die because they are with someone else and it's like they hate you? for no apparent reason they just don't know you anymore and you didn't see it coming it just happened and you are so used to them being in your life! good advice please!

2006-11-13 14:19:47 · 16 answers · asked by tweety 1

fall over????

2006-11-13 14:17:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

he is on the computer constantly since he retired

2006-11-13 14:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has never cheated on me to my knowledge. I love her dearly. Currently, due to a job promotion, she's in a city 300 miles away. I will join her when our house is sold.

So she calls me and says after work, people (guys and girls) from her office are gong to a bar for drinks. Should I be concerned? What would you do?

I know how I feel, but I'd like perspectives from both guys and girls.

2006-11-13 14:07:19 · 15 answers · asked by txguy8800 6

She was not impressed. Did I do something wrong?

2006-11-13 14:03:32 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous