to the girls out there? can there be any other explanation for these stains, like masterbation, as we not slept together for a month or so ,or am ibeing decieved
2006-11-13 15:14:42 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it could be the sand dust falling out of her Virgina because she ain't got none in a long time. get back in the game and knock the dust off son
2006-11-13 15:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Women have a discharge. It is perfectly normal at any time, but the discharge will change depending on the time of the month though. And of course a discharge is more likely if a woman has been masturbating - and if you haven't had sex recently then she probably is doing!
Perhaps you need to think a bit more about why you are so quick to assume that she has had sex with someone else? Most people without worries about their relationship wouldn't think that in this situation. Or maybe there are other problems in your relationship - do you have a real reason to suspect that she might be having an affair? Do you always worry when she goes out with her friends? Have you ever had any justification to worry?
If not, then maybe you need to think about your reaction - if she's never given you any reason to worry and you don't have any other problems together then it seems a bit over the top.
2006-11-14 06:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by pomme_blanche_2004 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
A woman loses secretions at different times during the month.What you describe sounds normal and i am not just sticking up for her(why would i ?).A thickening of the mucus around the time of ovulation produces a white stain on underwear but us women think nothing of it as we live with it.You will probably notice this again but you really should talk to your wife as she will be able to tell you all about these nuisance discharges we put up with.
2006-11-14 06:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Niamh 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women naturally have a discharge almost daily that leave white stains on the panties (thats what panti liners are for) Don't worry and don't jump to the wrong conclusion. There is a simple explanation.
2006-11-13 15:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by cm9779 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It most likely is vaginal discharge. But to be honest, it seems a bit weird for a man to be looking so closely at his wife's dirty underwear. It sounds like you have concerns about your relationship. you need to sit down and talk with her. if there are problems you can try to resolve them. suspicion is only going to tear you apart and send you on a downward spiral when there maybe a simple explanation for the lack of closeness in your relationship at the moment. We all have our off times and sometimes we need space but don't realise how it affects our loved ones. She may not realise she is pushing you away.
Have a heart to heart. Good luck
2006-11-14 01:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope my husband doesn't look in my underwear because he would never sleep with me again. I have never cheated on my husband can't say the same for him .Women do have a discharge and it is white or yellow days before their periods.Does that help ease your mind. And by the way, what the f--k are you doing looking at her undies for.I think maybe you have been a bad boy and if you are doing it she might be doing it to.
2006-11-13 15:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, I only wear black underwear due to common sense issues; however, I am irritated by a very fixable problem (washing) which is white stains intermittantly on my underwear. The prime time is during ovulation because your body secrets hormones to encourage moistness. Actually semen is discharged (by women after sex) very clear and wet feeling, not white. That is why I wear a tampon the morning after sex because I expect that liquidy occourance and don't want to feel/smell it. My husband gets very concerned if he happens to see a tampon wrapper in the trash when he knows I am not on my period. It is because we have just had sex or because yes I may be ovulating and getting a creamy white discharge. Sorry it is graphic, but thought it may help you!
2006-11-13 15:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
In case of Trichomoniasis (a protozoal infection) which is very common to females there are white card like discharge.
In this case probably you are assuming something and then trying to prove it right. Don't do it. Trust is the base of all relationship. Is there anything she had done in the past? There should be enough reason to suspect.
2006-11-13 15:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm guessing that you're male, or at least aspiring to it.
This is a disgusting experiment, but try it to put your mind at rest.
Don't change your underwear for as many days as it takes for you to have a "nocturnal emission". Examine the resultant evidence. The stains ain't white.
2006-11-13 15:35:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could just be a discharge if it's close to that time of the month or it could be masturbation left overs. You two definately need to talk if this is bothering you so much as you have to ask strangers about it. Good luck.
2006-11-13 15:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It is completely normal for a woman to get discharge. It is our body's way of cleaning itself. If it happens all the time hormones can be to blame. Not to be rude but why don't you start concentrating on pleasing your wife in bed rather than checking her underwear? We don't blame you for the hard on's you get throughout the day. You can't help it. Neither can we. It's nature.
2006-11-13 15:24:16 · answer #11 · answered by ~jenjen~ 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋