How do you react when your significant other is speaking to another female (a friend of his) and makes a sexual joke? The joke actually involves both him and her?
2006-11-13 14:58:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK, that's hardcore flirting and a prelude most likely to them exploring more. It's totally disrespectful to your relationship and if any more of it occurs I'd inform him to hit the road and not come back. Keep your eyes open on that one.
2006-11-13 15:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way l see it they are both being disrespectful to you and if it was me l would tell them so. Both of them not just your husband, his female friend should have more respect also. I wonder how he would react if the shoe was on the other foot. l think l would watch them closely if the sexual jokes were too regular l would start to wonder what else was going on between the two of them. He must feel very comfortable with her to be making such jokes. Just be weary. Talk to him about her and if you don't feel good about the answers you get, l would get out. Don't be a doormat for anyone, speak up it is your right. Good luck
2006-11-13 23:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ah now your last question makes sense.
You should definately make some sort of comment - not screaming at him but SOMETHING to let him (and HER!!) know that you did NOT appreciate that comment.
Depends also on how vulgar or how serious the joke was. If he is a player and has a history of being a cheater than I'd be really upset. If we'd been together 5 years and I knew he was just joking - I'd be pissed off but I would get over it
2006-11-13 23:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is really low. If he doesn`t care anymore about your feelings than that, then why would you want to stay with him? You evidently care more for him than he does you, as you do not disrespect him that way. The majority of the guys will not act like this to their significant other if they really care about her. He will not go out of his way to do this with another female. My ex-husband started doing this to me, and I knew it was the end.
2006-11-13 23:05:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's just the beginning of a certin kind of behavior where they show lack of respect, no consideration, and in general makes u feel so unspecial. i would be very upset, and i would confront him. and let him know in a non sarcastic way how upset i was. often times when men begin to disrespect, and are rude to their wives, they don't care as much about them as they use to. starts out with the smaller things like respect, and ends up sometimes with betrayal, atleast it did for me.
2006-11-13 23:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him it hurt your feelings, and I would dump him, he will cheat on you or already is. No one should make sexual comments to other people except their partner, move on. I would blow up on his a s s and kick him out
2006-11-13 23:03:10 · answer #6 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you don't appreciate it. It's rude to her, disrespectful to you, and hurtful if the two of them were actually enjoying it.
He needs to grow up and be a real man to his woman (but don't tell him that).
2006-11-13 23:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with him so you can better understand their history and if this was appropriate.Let him know you feel uncomfortable,and what if you did the same to him-how would he feel?Hopefully he can respect that
2006-11-13 23:01:49 · answer #8 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its a joke so be it but let him know that you found it disturbing and disrespectful.
2006-11-13 23:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront them! Good luck!
2006-11-13 23:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by PinkHighHeels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋