Marriage & Divorce - 13 November 2006

Just curious if other people have any sage advice of how to cope with the everyday struggle of dealing with a jerk of an X in a work/social situation.

2006-11-13 14:02:51 · 9 answers · asked by J 2

of alcohol your you? and if so how did it turn out serious and true answers only my marriage depends on this very thing i am about to pop that very question tomorrow.. i know that someone should want help instead of being forced and all that but i dont have time for him to decide that anymore i need to make a move in my life

2006-11-13 13:59:48 · 9 answers · asked by momoftwobestkids 3

Everytime my partner is on night shifts and i sleep alone i have heart breaking dreams of him cheating on me, making out with other girls and telling me he doesn't love me anymore. I wake up crying my eyes out. It must be because it's what i fear the most. I know it won't happen because we are truely deeply in love with each other but it's horrible and depressing. Does anyone else have these experiences? Share them please. Thanx

2006-11-13 13:57:04 · 13 answers · asked by Lady_Crimsyn1986 3

Is getting ridiculous with their Violation notices
Sent without even reading the question, to see
If there is a true violation,
and they go by one persons comment, then delete the question.
Without checking to see if it’s true.
Has this happen to anyone else using yahoo answers?

2006-11-13 13:51:47 · 8 answers · asked by Cobra 5

My boyfriend of 2-1/2 years has been divorced for over 10 years. He takes care of everything for his ex-wife (she has a boyfriend that's 10 years younger than her) and she calls him for advice about everything. They have 3 teenage girls. He let her move in with him when her apartment lease expired and lied to me about it. He then helped her look for a house and scheduled all the arrangements for her to buy it. He took me to the mountains and scheduled for his "family" to go to the mountains the same weekend. At his father's funeral, she sat on the front row with the family. When he had too much to drink one night, he told me he loved her, that all her past boyfriends were stupid and that he had been having relations with her. He then denied that he said it and said he always says stupid stuff while drinking. I told him I thought they had a "have your cake and eat it too" relationship. I'm thinking I should see the handwriting on the wall?

2006-11-13 13:51:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

just found out she`s been doing this since 02/06.also has goes to other womens forums and whats she says is malicious,and bitchin` about me? i work and never home .what do i do? help i wuz w/ her for 12 yrs!

2006-11-13 13:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by maneast64 1

My ex husband is the father of two of my children, we were married and he cheated the whole time. When I found out I made him leave. Now 4 years later, he is a dead beat, he gets visitation 2 days a week but will NOT pay a dime of his child support and lives in a big nice house and eats at restaurants all the time and so forth, he lives it up. For the past several years I had let him claim one of my daughters with his income tax trying to be fair. Now I have said I'm claiming them this year because I and my husband are raising them and he and his wife are mad. He didn't even help me with school stuff or clothes for them or anything, should I allow him to claim one anyway?

2006-11-13 13:33:28 · 24 answers · asked by Phyllis D 2

My sister lives down in Arkansas and has several pet horses. She has recently confided in me that she has been romantically involved with one of the horses and is strongly considering marrying him. She even said that the horse got down on his knees and proposed in a very romantic way. Is it legal in Arkansas to marry your horse or would she have to become pregnant first in order for it to be legal?? Help please I need your advice!!!

2006-11-13 13:32:40 · 20 answers · asked by flushing06 2

divorce than if one of the partys is severly brain damaged where there is no other choice but to live out their life in a "home",,where he can get the medical care...but he doesn't know what is going on???? I have a hard time understanding that...because the brain damage person does not know what is going on and the other spouse was forced to leave FOR A GOOD REASON;...IT IS BETTER THAN THE TWO regular people getting a divorce cuz they just could not get along!!! Do you agree NO ONE SHOULD BE FORCED TO LIVE WITH A SEVERLY BRAIN DAMAGED SPOUSE...that would be hell!!! ( but some people think ..."You should stay"...but notice their husband is NOT brain damaged?........so who are they to judge????Plus it is none of their business anyway...Plus i have gone through this horrific episode with my girlfriend...and i am a girl...she was able to obtain an annulment, because of his condition...

2006-11-13 13:30:17 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4

i JUST RECEIVED MY CHILD SUPPORT COURT DATE. i HAVE TO FILE BECAUSE MY HUSBAND THAT i AM SEPARATED FROM REFUSE TO GET ME ANY MONEY FOR OUR 2 CHIOLDREN AGES 8 & 12. wE HAVE A COURT DAY AND WE HAVEN'T TALKED FOR THE TIME WE HAVE BEEN SEPARATED WHICH IS 6 MONTH. hE ALWAYS TOLD ME THAT HE WILL NEVER GIVE ME ANY MONEY. wILL THE COURT HONOR HIM. i THINK HE WILL THEY WILL.
i HAVE ASKED HIM FOR SOME MONEY FOR THE KIDS BUT HE TOLD ME NO AGAIN.; AM i WRONG FOR FILING ? NEED SOME SERIOUS ANSWERS.

2006-11-13 13:25:13 · 15 answers · asked by babymadison61904 1

We started out looking for a bigger TV for the bedroom. We went to a couple of places and all of a sudden my husband has it in his head that we should get a bigger TV for the living room instead and move the entire TV and stand into the bedroom. It went from spending $300-$400 to practically $2000. We already have a big TV in the living room so my feelings is we don't need one. But he's in there, watching TV and kind of sulking (not bad, he just really wants it) because I am against the new TV for the living room. Should I just give in and let him spend $2000 that we really don't have on a TV that we definitely don't need? Or should I hold my ground and push for just a less expensive, MUCH less expensive, TV for the bedroom?

2006-11-13 13:17:29 · 8 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7

2006-11-13 13:16:48 · 17 answers · asked by dragonsbane82 1

I am looking for a man, who I was married to about 23 years ago, he is a Saudi...He lived in Mecca..and Riyahd...His name is Helal Soweilah Al-Lehaibi...I am sure he is married,but for 23 years I have not forgotten him

2006-11-13 13:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by julie c 1

2006-11-13 13:06:39 · 12 answers · asked by dragonsbane82 1

2006-11-13 13:03:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-13 12:58:01 · 3 answers · asked by manchild192001 1

2006-11-13 12:54:58 · 12 answers · asked by crazy blonde & beautiful 1

All our "property" is his and hers and wedon't want anything from each other, is there any really cheap options for us?

2006-11-13 12:52:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

is there anyway possible to get money out of someone that lied to you to get the money? sob stories lies all the above I bought a breast job and she totally lied to get it paid her daycare (not my kids) at 336 a payperiod and now its Im a jerk? am I out of luck or is there a possibility of getting my money back?

2006-11-13 12:47:06 · 12 answers · asked by b_marmouze 1

Ok--Over the last several months my husband has been asking for a mff threesome..I said no as I believe marriage is between two people. (we have been married for 18 years) He still talks about it often and especially with bedroom talk. He says he really wants to watch me and other female and more than that he wants me to watch him f*** someone else (as he puts it) and that he would love to do it with someone else. So I finally asked him one night - if I let that happen what do I get out of it? - just to see his reaction. He let me know that he couldn't handle me being with another guy - but still thinks it's different and ok for him to want to be with someone else. I can't understand this? He says he loves me very much and he has too much respect for me so he "probably" would never go through with it. Do all men go through this??? If he really loved me, would he want to f*** someone else (whether I was there or not?) Has anyone else gone through this?

2006-11-13 12:44:36 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1

i'll try it to be last one:)

2006-11-13 12:38:52 · 4 answers · asked by crackerjack 1

I am divorced from my 2nd husband, and I do not want to keep his last name. Actually, I don't even want to return to either my maiden name or the last name of my first husband. I'd like to have a whole new last name !! How does one go about doing that? Do I need an attorney? Is it going to be amazingly expensive?

2006-11-13 12:36:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im 20 and hes in the military and deployments are hard. I love him more then anything, and want to spend the rest of my life with him. WHAT TO DO?

2006-11-13 12:34:07 · 24 answers · asked by Aphrodite 2

...at the kitchen table or dinning room table in your home?

2006-11-13 12:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by HazelEyes 5

Am I crazy to want to sell my home in the suburbs and build a simple log cabin in the country.Im just tired of all fancy bulls@#t that we've been buying.There's no end to it!I would like to sell everything and buy only what we need.My wife thinks I've lost my mind.

2006-11-13 12:21:54 · 18 answers · asked by charles 4

I have found out in the past 2 years that he hasnt broken all communication with an ex-girlfriend that caused us trouble, he gave his number to some other girl that didnt know he was married and now he gave some girl his number on saturday while I was there with him. I feel so humiliated that he did that to me, that girl was sitting at the table next to us. I am so upset and I dont know what to do.

2006-11-13 12:20:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently read my wife's journal...not a habit of mine...just messing around one day. Couple month's later, I told her about it in passing. She became extremely upset. She works out of town...before she left this latest time she left her wedding ring on the counter with a note saying that the marriage had to be re-evaluated. I know I screwed up...but this response seems so extreme at first light. Then I put myself in her shoes...I can understand trust was violated. I can understand that a spouse has no right to intrude on the other's private thoughts/dreams. I LOVE MY WIFE. I WANT HER BACK. I have apologized, but those words fall on death ears when trust has been violated. Help!

2006-11-13 12:18:39 · 23 answers · asked by forester 2

I am ok with being friends with benefits, and I have this one guy friend who I hang out with for that. Now this guy seems to say something to me everyday through email whether it's hello or he just wanted to see how my day was going. I asked my girlfriend why does he send me an email every day and she said maybe because he is trying to be my friend because if you don't have the friends part then you end up looking like a hoe because all you will have is just the benefits part. I thought that was the way it was suppose to be since this is a new phase I am going through and really enjoy. I like the no strings attached that's why I never really said anything to him until it was time to hang out again. She said I need to stop taking a guys approach to this, and ask this guy if he would like to catch a movie or go out to eat or something so we can get a better feel for each other even if we pay for ourselves when we do go out. My question is, is that really what friends with benefits do?

2006-11-13 12:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

is more likely to cheat later in life than those who had experienced many relationships before marrying?

2006-11-13 12:14:08 · 8 answers · asked by julvert h 1

2006-11-13 12:04:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous