I have found out in the past 2 years that he hasnt broken all communication with an ex-girlfriend that caused us trouble, he gave his number to some other girl that didnt know he was married and now he gave some girl his number on saturday while I was there with him. I feel so humiliated that he did that to me, that girl was sitting at the table next to us. I am so upset and I dont know what to do.
2006-11-13 12:20:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Let me see... lying for two years... not telling the truth.....holding on to a negative relationship.....3 strikes you need to be out of there.
2006-11-13 12:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what to do, and life will be much easier once you've done it. There is no apology in the world that can make up for a lack of respect. Besides, the way he's been acting, he left the relationship a long time ago.
2006-11-13 20:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey your husband dont have the least bit of respect for you if he does this when you are around just imagine what he will do if you arent around god forbid. if hell give your number to the girl at the next table wow what did he give the next door neighbor girl give him a taste of his own medicine but just dont degrade yourself cause he wants to be a whore.you are a better woman than myself because he would have worn what we needed to eat ad stuck the check on the potatoes. good luck get yourself a hero and f@uck that zero..
2006-11-13 20:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If cared about you or your feelings he wouldn't have done that. Next time turn it around when you go out and give your number to some guy see how he likes it!!!!
2006-11-13 23:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by don b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a louse. His behavior is disrespectful to you and really foul.
If he is doing that in front of you, imagine what he could be doing behind your back. I just don't see any way to salvage your relationship as long as he is pursuing other women---in your presence. If you don't have respect and trust, what have you got?
You deserve better than that. Don't you think?
2006-11-13 21:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him all this? It sounds like you are keeping this inside, hurting and fuming...he needs to know that if he does not get right he will get left..that is so wrong what he is doing and it also sounds like he will never change. You have to decide if you can live with this behavior or not.
2006-11-13 20:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has always been my policy to never date anyone who is married. It only leads to true misery. There is someone out there for everyone, and you need to protect your own dignity and stop seeing a married man.
2006-11-13 20:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by marchwindhamm 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time to clean house Miss. Honey!! He thinks nothing of you, Doesn't respect you. Doesn't care about your feelings,etc.
Is this your husband? If it's not I suggest you move on with your life!
2006-11-13 20:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh, that would p*ss me off so bad! WHy do you put up with that????? Men only do what you allow them to do, he has no respect for you what so ever, that would of been the last time he gave out his phone number infront of me!
2006-11-14 01:49:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, you let him. There's no reason for him to stop when you do nothing about it. You can either put your foot down, or continue to live like that. If he can do it, so you can you. it's a two way street.
2006-11-13 20:27:46 · answer #10 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋