2006-11-13 13:16:48 · 17 answers · asked by dragonsbane82 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its a sad world that produces such consistently narrow minded responses as the ones above.
Every single one of the above repondents equates Marriage with Sex, not Love.
Sex plays an often small if not non existent part in many marriages. It is inevitable that in some marriages one partner may have a strong sexual urge where the other doesn't.
The nature of an individual's sexual urge or even orientation may change over time whilst not necessarily affecting the love one has for a partner.
In such circumstances an otherwise healthy loving relationship may be put under strain if there is not an outlet for those urges.
Infidelity is commited by the heart not the loins.
There are many avenues one can explore to find a sexual release that is emotionally limited. These avenues, USED SENSIBLY, can fill a gap in your life and relieve an itch before it consumes both yourself and your marriage.
2006-11-13 13:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince the "old lady" to:
1) dye her hair (to some foreign women's colour);
2) learn a foreign language, and then speak to you in that particular language;
2) you will bring her to visit that "foreign" country of choice every year for summer holidays.
For you, budget more spending for her for the above 3 points. I am sure that you will your life-long fetish(es).
2006-11-13 21:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by dreamofyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a sorry excuse for a man. What kind of stupid question is that? If you had this fetish...then why didn't you marry a foreign woman to start with. I really feel sorry for your wife.....not old lady.
2006-11-13 21:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"get rid of the old lady"??? What is wrong with your thinking?
Stop thinking about yourself for a change and do some nice, sweet things for your "old lady".
Perhaps you like the foreign women cuz it gives you some strange excitement. Figure out why this idea brings such excitement to you. It's not your wife's fault, so why make her pay for your strange desires?
Refocus yourself, mister, to things more worth your time and stop having these "the grass is greener on the other side" fantasies.
2006-11-13 21:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am your Old Lady and I'll tell you right now that I like foreign women as well. I don't really care as long as you don't go be with another women unless you share If you can't share than don't even think about it......
I love you
2006-11-13 22:36:18 · answer #5 · answered by crazy blonde & beautiful 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she should get rid of you ever think that. for now by a blow up doll and make her a foreign looking woman im sure your wife has some make up around the house.
2006-11-14 05:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so selfish. you married your wife for a reason. if you had fetish for foreign women, why did you marry your wife in the first place?
2006-11-13 21:18:54 · answer #7 · answered by superboredom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep! ASAP~ Because you probably don't deserve her and you'd most likely be doing her a favor.
lol. No, really though... I hope you're not really as selfish as you come across.
Let me ask you a question:
Do you live your life and make choices according to your desires & emotions? Or do you do what is right because it is the right thing to do?
P.S. Emotions and desires change on a regular basis, but right remains right and wrong remains wrong.
2006-11-13 21:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by emmie_keeferton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have no respect for your wife or marriage, give her a change to find a man that will love her and treat her the way a wife should be treated.
2006-11-13 21:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if that's the way you feel you should have married a foreign woman,
I would get rid of you!!!!!
2006-11-13 21:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by msalb 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋