Horrible dreams of the person you love more than anything in the world?

Question

Everytime my partner is on night shifts and i sleep alone i have heart breaking dreams of him cheating on me, making out with other girls and telling me he doesn't love me anymore. I wake up crying my eyes out. It must be because it's what i fear the most. I know it won't happen because we are truely deeply in love with each other but it's horrible and depressing. Does anyone else have these experiences? Share them please. Thanx

Answer 1

http://www.dreammoods.com/dreamdictionary/c2.htm
Cheating

To dream that you are cheating on your spouse, mate, fiancé, or significant other, suggests feelings of self-guilt and self-betrayal. You may have compromised your beliefs or integrity and/or wasting your energy and time on fruitless endeavors. Alternatively, it reflects the intensity of your sexual passion and exploring areas of your sexuality. It is actually a reaffirmation of your commitment. Furthermore, it is not uncommon for people approaching a wedding to have dreams about erotic experiences with partners other than their intended spouses. Most likely, such dreams represent the newness of your sexual passion. It may also signify anxieties of changing your identity - that of a spouse.

To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem. The dream could also indicate that you are unconsciously picking up hints and cues that your significant other is not being completely truth or is not fully committed in the relationship.

To dream that you are cheating at a game, suggests that you are not being honest with yourself.

Answer 2

Yes i have had so many dreams like the one you shared, i cant count them. When i was small i always had these dreams about my mother favoring my sister and telling me that i wasn't important and that i didnt matter to her. And me being young woke up and would cling the next day. I've also had dreams that my best friend went on a flight to Italy, which she had really done, and her plane crashed within a few min. I woke up almost screaming. I cried for a long time and in the morning i ensured myself that there were no accidents and that she was ok, and she was fine. Sometimes our imaginations run wild and what isnt likely to happen, happens. Its good you know he loves you and that your trust is there. The most important thing is that you trust what you know. Not that you can help those dreams, your not alone.

Answer 3

Oh I do!!! I am so glad to hear of someone else going through exactly what I'm going through!
It's so discouraging and hard to go through that.

I have dreams all the time that are just horrible just like those about my husband. What frustrates me the most, though, is that I am always trying to talk to him in my dreams but he just walks away or puts himself in a place that I can't get to him. It feels like I'm getting suffocated trying to communicate with him! I even cry in my dreams to him and it's like he doesn't care about me at all! It's so painful.
I have severe Insomnia because of it.
Between the horrible dreams about him and the horrible dreams about my most recent ex boyfriend and my parents, I just won't sleep. Not worth all the pain. I'd wrather be tired and have black circles under my eyes than dream those dreams!
I have no idea why I dream them, either.
It has to be my insecurity, and lack of trust for these people, really.

If you get an answer to why this happens, let me know, too, k?
good luck!!

Answer 4

To tell u the truth is not about telling or shearing them, but the answer is that you have a problem, you are not mental but you r too much in love as you said yourself.
again the other problem is the spirit of the cursed angels who live under the big waters which is tormenting you. Those angels are ruming the earth to disturbe the weak spirits of humens. but also the end of you marriage is near if you don't take care.
there is nothing of unfaithfulness with you partner.
MARI DE NUIT

Answer 5

First off when yuo have dreams of other people it just indicates that you have deep feelings for the person. Feeling a close friendship with the other. Perhaps your just worried that he may cheat on you with another girl ? Dreams are a way to release energy and stress. Just tell him how you feel. :]

Answer 6

Never had any like those but why do you have dreams like these? Why do you major on the negatives? I must congratulate you that you are in love and I wish you will continue to be that way.

Answer 7

My husband and i are very much in love i know that he would never even think of cheating on me but i have the same problem. I have no clue why i guess because that is one of my biggest fears is him cheating or him leaving me and telling me that he doesn't love me but he as never even done anything like that to me it is just me and my stupid thoughts and when i tell him about it it just makes us fight because i know that he wouldn't do that to me the only reason we get like that is because it is one of our biggest fears.

Answer 8

I have dreams like that all the time. After having them repeatedly I finally found the courage to tell my hisband about them and He is very comforting and reassuring. Wish you feel better

Answer 9

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Answer 10

I have th same kind of dreams whenever i'm away from my bf but i know he wouldn't cheat. i even have dreams that he's flaunting it in front of me that he's with someone else. It's horrible isn't it. i'm glad i'm not the only one. If there is a cure that you find please let me know