2006-11-13 10:11:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont worry about the "pre-masturbation" thing, after the first "round", tell him how great it was and ask if he's up for it again? After a couple of sessions like this you can maybe try for three or more "rounds in the future. After a while he will be able to last longer during the first and subsequent rounds. Just remember to keep reminding him how good it is for you, especially the second and third rounds (without letting on the shortness of the first is a problem) !
2006-11-13 11:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mark Antony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 04:49:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid the things that are part of his "combination" and sets him off until you are ready. Also, he could work on thinking of other things until he can regain control.
Ejaculating too soon/too late is one of the top 9 mistakes a man should avoid in bed. He needs to have good penile control to ensure that he can ejaculate at an appropriate time. Too soon and you may be unsatisfied; too late and you start feeling like sandpaper. If he can't control himself and ends up letting go too soon, spend a lot more time on foreplay. If he lasts too long and can only spill via manual stimulation, he should try to give you an orgasm , and then get you to to satisfy him manually.
2006-11-13 10:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by AVA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the pressure off of him. Instead of focusing on the end result---the orgasm---focus on the wonderful feelings that flow through during your romantic times. Tell him not to worry about the destination. The "getting there" can be just as satisfying!!
And you do the same thing for him!! ~wink~
Believe me, it's a wonderful way to go!!
2006-11-13 10:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
..... get him off the drug's if yuh can, corz they're basically just a rip off.... Just take plenty of time with your love making, and include plenty of fore-play, hug's and kiss'es... Make like your happy with what-ever he can manage, and try and not to make an issue of it, if sometime's it does'nt go the distance...Once he begin's to notice you dont seem to be as dissapointed with him (even though you are) that he thought you'd be, this will help heap's in cutting back his anxiety, and his dissapointment in himself.... Use this method for some 3 to 4 week's or so, and when he still notice's, that you still seem to be heap's happy with what he's trying to give you, it should begin to click with him, that geeezz, i must be doing alright.... You can even finish your love making, holding him tightly and mastubating, ( complete with an orgasm chucked in ) while leering at his body and co*k.. This should shock the daylight's out of him, leaving him thinking,.... hot dam!.. i must be a bit of a hott'y.... Once he realise's how easily he can make his woman lust for him, you'll have him feeling like he's a walking, talking, prized stud bull.... And, when a male has gotten that into his mind-set, it should only be a matter of time, before he try's to corner you somewhere, to give you a jolly big pounding!...
2006-11-13 11:41:13 · answer #5 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex shops and certain chemists sell gels and sprays to help a man last longer.
I know this is not practical for the mood of the moment but get him to have cold bath or shower and build up a slow pace concentrate on and tease all areas bar the obvious until you both can't stand it any longer.Good luck x
2006-11-13 10:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few routes to go. one is the adult toy store, one is the asian inspired drinks, Mainily the best option would be honesty so he can completely relax, condoms cause it takes longer for them to feel as much pleasure and then their is the pump advertised all over the web and in the playboy catalog. The only one approved by the FDA is the Dr Kaplan Pump. Good luck
2006-11-13 10:24:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dy$e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that the only way to last longer is when there is pure honesty in the relationship. I would imagine he feels as if there is some deception in your relationship and he is not confident in his ability to please you. Once a man is comfortable, much like a woman, things go better.
2006-11-13 10:14:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a "toy" store. they sell gels and creams that have a slight numbing effect for that purpose specifically and they're usually pretty good priced.
2006-11-13 10:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by Gingersnap 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to learn to control his orgasms. You can help him. Read the article below and give him "a hand."
2006-11-13 10:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋