I will not divorce her, I refuse to give her have of everything I've made Yes I made, The lazy whore has never worked a day in her life and tells me she'll get half and laughs about it. what should I do ?
2006-11-13 04:17:31 · 32 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Rejoice in your misery and ignorance.
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2006-11-13 04:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just like you cannot put a price tag on love, you cannot put one on happiness either. If you genuinely "hate" your wife as you proclaim, then your existence within the marriage cannot be a pleasant or fulfilling one. Get a lawyer, file for divorce, and go on with your life. Cut your losses now instead of continuing to sink funds and assets into a failed relationship, not to mention all the time and energy you must be exerting being so miserable within this relationship. If the courts say give her half, smile and hand it to her on a silver platter, but be sure and remind her that the next slice of pie she gets to enjoy will have to be baked by her own hands from now on...in other words, without you, she will be forced to work for what luxuries she gets in the future. That has to give you some satisfaction, right? Let this anchor of a woman go and watch her sink to the bottom while you sail off to find the happiness you deserve. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 04:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Decadent Musings06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the point in staying together as you are obviously not happy ? ? Whether she worked or not she will still be entitled to half of everything or even more if there are kids involved. I can understand you being upset especially if she has been making jokes about the whole situation but unfortunately whether you like it or not it is the law. Why do you hate her so much ? That sounds so bad to hear that you hate your wife that much. Please just get a divorce and be done with it. You are only making yourself more miserable and she will end up getting one eventually anyway. Look for happiness elsewhere. Come on just divorce her and be happy again. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 04:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can empathise. I have been married for 43 years to this woman and have hated her for the last 30 years; I stuck it out for the kids sake. She worked as an executive, but kept and spent every cent she made on herself. She let me pay for everything.
She has threatened suicide when I talk about divorce. She is an alcoholic and blames me for everything in her life that she feels has gone wrong....of course everything has gone wrong, you will never meet a more negative person. The glass is always half empty, except for her wine glass that is!
She sits on her butt, does nothing while I do all the house work and cooking. Good thing we are retired otherwise I would starve if I had to wait for her to prepare a meal. I don't know what to do. Our two sons hate her since they cannot stand her negativity. I recently found my high school sweet heart on line and the spark is still there. If I leave her for my old flame she gets the house, cars and bank accounts plus half my pensions.
I feel so screwed! (Which in fact she hasn't done that for the last 17 years either.)
She has damaged her liver and my greatest hope is that she will kick off soon. In fact pray for it every day.
it!
2014-03-13 13:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Gord R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are serious and it sounds like you are... Take all of your bank account and financial information and turn it over to a close relative or friend... (someone who won't stiff you, and who won't let your wife know what you are doing...) Take her name off of your stuff and sell your house to that same person... You do not need her permission to sell your house... If you are the owner, you can do it all yourself... Once you do that, file for a divorce, and since you have nothing in your name, then you don't owe her a dime... Ohh,,,, and take a LOA from your job or business and tell them that you don't know when you will be back... After it is all said and done, then you don't have to pay no alimony, or anything... Hey, you won't have nothing to give... And then get all of your stuff returned into your name... She won't know a thing... Or just get withdraw all of your money out and keep it in a safe with you, so that when they pull up your bank accounts and stuff, then they won't have nothing to get...Also, once you sell your house, go buy a shack on a hill, a trashy one, and have that as your only asset... And make sure that it's on a lot of land so her property taxes will be sky high and she has to pay them... Worked for me...
2006-11-13 04:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by Dani_n_keem 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hey dude.....you need to relax or she really will have the last laugh ! You can kick her butt out...the next time she goes out, put her stuff on the lawn,change the locks on her sorry lazy butt! yup that's right it's that simple, then lock the doors,when she comes home,open the window and tell her you want a divorce !
She'll have no choice but to pick her own s h i t up off the lawn and head to her mother's or a girlfriend.
Then start looking for all your receipt's to prove all that stuff in that house is infact yours !
2006-11-13 04:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by vanislandwitch 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont want to divorce her then the only thing to do is live a very unhappy life until she divorces you.
On the other hand all you have to is get a moving truck and load everything in it and take it to a storage bin and she wont get half of anything!
2006-11-13 04:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't work...does that mean she does no housework, laundry, cooking, raising children, shopping for bargains at the grocery store, running errands, balancing the check book, paying the bills on time, volunteering at the kids school or church, no yard work? If this is the case, then get a lawyer and see what your rights are. If she DOES do the above things...then she works, but for free...so you owe her half, then both of you can move on with happier lives in opposite directions. You have no respect for her...which could be why she has none for you
2006-11-13 04:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Move to Atlanta GA area and set up house for 6 months or so.
Then sneak off to a lawyer and swear that everything was inherited or pre-marital property yadda yadda.
Walk away free of charge. Married women have no real property rights here.
And be thankful you don't have a conscience....you low down snake of a human being.
2006-11-13 04:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by upside down 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Negotiate a divorce settlement on your terms.
I would find it very difficult to live in your environment.
Life is too short to be trapped in a Loosing situation.
You may be able to strike a deal with her on your terms. Negotiate the Best terms that you can and Move on.
Good Luck.
2006-11-13 04:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mav 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer and get out. If you hate fer that much, half of everything is a small price to pay to be happy again.
2006-11-13 04:20:57 · answer #11 · answered by RBOE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋