Just wondering how common this was. Wife and I found some of her I had taken when we first married. She was 23 then now 32. She wants to throw them out, does not want anyone to find them if we both die or something???? Who has them and have they ever been found? FYI, I want to keep them.
2006-11-13 07:19:43 · 25 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband actually took nude video of me while we were dating. You know the pic. of the Before two children when everything was still in place and perfect. I was 19 then and now I'm 23 I say keep em' we like to look at the video and it keeps a little spark there between us I guess you'd say. So try to convince her to keep them. Who cares when your dead your dead! If she doesn't hide them and tell her you got rid of them which is simi true if you did put them in another place.
2006-11-13 08:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by CC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep them. Talk to her and try to have the same spirit that you had at the time you took the photos. There are zillions of photos today I think will be hard that somebody will care about yours. As any photo they will be more and more interesting and fun for you in the next days. My wife and I have - including sexual - and we enjoy. They were never been found.
2006-11-13 07:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Guru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants you to throw them out, then you should probably respect her wishes.
My husband was in Minnesota a couple months back on a trip to deal with his dad's health problems (we live in Tennessee). He was home alone at his dad's house (his dad was in the hospital) and he was feeling a little.. shall we say.. frisky?" I took some pictures and emailed them to him to look at..
His dad got out of the hospital and a few weeks later called my husband to talk about some interesting cookies that were still on his computer...
... I don't think I'll ever be able to look at my father-in-law the same way again.
2006-11-13 07:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their is nothing wrong with that. I actually told my husband that I was going to take some professional semi-nude photos for him once I got to the size I was when I met him. For me it is a great gift, because he will have a piece of me when I was younger, before my boobs sagged to the floor. When ever I am away or he is away he can take a little bit of me with him and remember why he got with me in the first place. I think its sexy and you can fanticise about your wife. How cool is that!!!!!
2006-11-13 07:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Super Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I did the same thing, took nude photos of each other. I know where his are to this day, however; the ones he had of me have been missing for like 4 years. We think we know who has them or had them. Never confronted him though. He never mentioned it either.
2006-11-13 07:22:42 · answer #5 · answered by ~Divine Mrs. P~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's all fun and good. Nothing wrong with that but be careful they don't fall into the wrong hands. Me and my ex took some and I made sure I kept them and burned them when we split. If she's uneasy about them get rid of them. You've got the real thing to look at.
2006-11-13 07:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..... I would never allow that to happen. I can stand in the mirror and get the same effect, except I am the only who would ever possibly see it.... I think it's normal to want to get rid of them. Hide them from her in some unknown location and tell her they are gone. In 10 years tell her you still have them and maybe she will have had a change of heart... Good Luck!!
2006-11-13 07:24:39 · answer #7 · answered by Niecy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were given to you as a gift and they belong to you NOT her. Tell her that if you die she can do what she wants with them,but you are thinking of sending them out as Christmas Cards this year. You want the world to know that you already have your Christmas Present.
2006-11-13 07:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have taken some. THe wife always wants to get rid of them, but I've kept them.
2006-11-13 08:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while i was married, my wife and i took pictures of ourselves naked and playing around. they were special to us and fun to take! :)
i still have them and i really don't care if anyone finds them. taken in context, a loving husband and wife enjoying each other's body, they speak volumes of how much a couple loves each other and how comfortable they are with each other. taken out of context, they COULD be misused.
but if you're both dead...who cares? :)
2006-11-13 07:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Michael JB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋