I have been seperated from my husband since may of this year. He has a new love and is already talking about getting married again. I still love him so how do I get over it?
2006-11-13 08:38:53 · 31 answers · asked by lysa t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah that is hard. I'm very sorry that you haven't gotten over him yet and moved on with your life.
At least you realize that he doesn't want you anymore. I know it even hurts to read it and I'm sorry I'm not trying to be mean. You need to recognize how short life is and that you deserve to be happy. You deserve to be with a person that will feel the same way you feel about them. Do you know what you are worth? Well then, move on with your life you are not promised tomorrow right? the sooner you realize this you will have peace in your mind body and soul. Cause i know how it is to crave for a man that you can't have I've been there.
Good Luck to you Hun.
2006-11-13 08:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Thebronx 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out looking for booty or a relationship. I suggest you make yourself very busy. As busy as you can. Take up that hobby you never got around to. Take a course. Volunteer. The amazing thing is that putting yourself out there not only passes the time, helps others and takes your mind off things you have no control over, it makes you feel good about yourself, which in turn may attract someone to you. Although, I would avoid starting a new relationship right away. Your emotions are working overtime and you're probably not really you right now. Take it one day at a time and before you know it, you'll have a good life again. Good luck, sweetie!
2006-11-13 08:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by vinny_the_hack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everytime you start seeing the green eyed monster just remember why he is your ex. What caused the divorce. Was it because of cheating? IF that was the case then remember once a cheat always a cheat.
Yes there will always be a part of your heart that belongs to him however it's not your complete heart.
2006-11-13 08:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by wondermom 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt It will explain why not to waste your time on a guy who is no longer interested in you. It is quick and easy reason and explains exactly what we girls need to know about guys. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 08:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, but when you find out let me know. Am going through the same thing except we've been seperated since December of last year.
2006-11-13 08:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by T C 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He has moved on - its time for you to do the same. Get out and meet some new people and have some fun. Once you start enjoying yourself, you'll find yourself thinking less and less of him. Good luck!
2006-11-13 08:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel better if you feel a little sorry for the new g/f. She'll probably be going thru the same thing you are somewhere down the road.
2006-11-13 08:46:58 · answer #7 · answered by Angel L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
File for divorce, take him for everything you can get from him..
He has the new love, so it is now in your favor..
After the divorce is final, get yourself out there and find someone you can fall in love with that will love you back...
Time and friends will get you over him, and a new love will always help too...
2006-11-13 08:42:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell him he by no potential extremely satisfied you from the starting up, yet you've been too form before then to ruin his emotions. tell him you deserve an Oscar for the great performing interest you've done those variety of yrs.! tell him you really experience sorry for the subsequent woman who receives him, they could not be as thoughtful as you've been. yet you stuck with him those variety of yrs. regardless & purely grimaced & bore it. which could get him...solid success...:)
2016-11-29 02:47:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wasn't unfaithful, you shouldn't have divorced him. A marriage is meant to be forever.
If at all possible, you need to remedy this situation as fast as you can. Even if he was unfaithful, it could be right to get back together, if your intuition tells you.
I have to tell you that most people, such as the ones above don't have a clue when it comes to answering questions such as this, and they're very shallow. You need to save your marriage if at all possible, and it could include busting the other woman in the mouth.
2006-11-13 08:42:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋