Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2006

weekends too. We went from having a very loving and passionate relationship to him coming home and not even talking. I appreciate him working but it is causeing problems for us. I moan that I cant see him and not too mention we are having issues with my son (his step son). He says Im always complaining and he things my parenting is not good dealing with this rut but I am trying! Is there anyhting I can do? I have tried writing him little love notes, sending him sweet emails. I know I need to stop giving him grief, I just miss him and our relationship we had. I just dont understand how he has changed so much so drastically. I know working will do that but he seems to have no intrest in me right now. Makes me sad. Do I sound selfish? THnaks. I really want to work this out.

2006-10-04 03:10:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 03:09:49 · 31 answers · asked by smileeverlasting 1

2006-10-04 03:08:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband's b-day was yesterday & I didn't know what to get him so I did something I thought he would love. I'm quite reserved in bed so this was out there for me. I bought him a pair of sexy boxers and a skimpy nightie for me. I put the boxers in a gift bag along with a can of whipped cream along with a beautiful card and a naughty note and left it on the bed. Then I went to shower and shave down south (something he has told me he really likes) and slipped on the nightie. (This was all the night before his b-day). Found him in bed and he said that he liked the gift but he was extremly tired and asked that we wait until the next night (his b-day) I was disappointed but agreed because I knew he had, had a rough day at work. So his b-day I had to go to the store around 9pm and when I got back he had the kids in bed already and asked if I was ready to go to bed which is usually the signal for 'I wanna play'. So I quickly get the house locked up and get ready for bed.

2006-10-04 03:07:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has been caught in 5 major lies by me in the last year. At the end of each fight I ask her " is there anything else I should know about?" each time she answered no . She knows I ALWAYS find out later , but she still insist on lieing to me . Should I continue to try and trust her or just give up?

2006-10-04 03:03:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 03:02:44 · 2 answers · asked by chocolate-drop 5

family and i am still here with him and i keep asking my self why but when it comes time to walk out the door i cant i just freeze and think about my kids some serious an decent advice would be greatly appreciated

2006-10-04 02:59:58 · 37 answers · asked by penelope 2

Okay, my fiance' has been telling one of her closest friends all about our sex life. She has been telling her friend how well I eat her, the size of my package, how long our sessions last, how many times a day we do it and everything. Her friend has now asked me if I would have sex with her just one time, because she wants to see what it is like. She has even told my fiance that she would like to do it with me just once before we get married and my fiance is okay with it and is actually encouraging it. She seems very firm that it can only be once and that her friend knows it will not ever be repeated.
I do not even know if I could do it, but the question is, should I or is this a test to see if I pass or fail. I am wondering if they are just trying to see if I will cheat... Opinions?

2006-10-04 02:58:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is having some sexual performance problems. He said that he just doesn't see me that way anymore. We both love each other very much, but sex is extremely important to him, so this is really affecting our marriage. I'm just wondering if the marriage is over, or if there is some way we can fix this. We have already separated once and he could not seem to stay away from me. Our emotional bond is so strong that he would not leave me alone. I just don't want to give up on our marriage if there is a chance that it could work.

2006-10-04 02:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by bumfuzzled 1

me and my husbands family dont talk to each others we hate each others and it is mutual 6 months a go we had a big fight together because they told people that their son is divorcing me because I dont let him talk to them and my husband did not take no action the only thing he did he told me that he is not talking to them and he have no contact with them untill I found out that they still call him on his work cellphone and he still go to their house how can i trust him or deal with him or even stay with him please give me your honest opinion and if you ask me who started the problems they did it was from their side and my husband did not stand for them and he knows it is their fault and he told me that he gave them his work cell phone that they can stay in touch with them.

2006-10-04 02:45:26 · 10 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1

2006-10-04 02:38:25 · 50 answers · asked by Andrew D 1

2006-10-04 02:36:18 · 16 answers · asked by yassaman 1

I've offered all kinds of advice but he rejects them. I feel like im living alone, what should i do? we've been married for 15 years but im so emotionally needy all the time. Help!!

2006-10-04 02:35:51 · 11 answers · asked by curleyQ 2

i may have a baby with my affair. pls help me?

2006-10-04 02:26:51 · 37 answers · asked by Natalie G 1

She does not call but just shows up and has been asked over and over but this does not work. She is not welcome but ignores her boundaries. We are not allowed on her property but she comes up and even in when the opportunity has happened ( I didn't get to the door fast enough and the kids opened). Can't leave teens in house alone because of her invasion. What's a new wife to do?

2006-10-04 02:18:07 · 31 answers · asked by MotherNature 4

My husband and I separated a year ago. We were both miserable for the last two years of our 8 years of marriage, not getting along. We have two small kids. He moved out. We spent the the holidays together this month and now he wants to start counseling to work on getting back together. I am seeking the reponses of people who have had similar experiences and would like to know what happened. Does this have any chance or is it a waste of time and heartache?

2006-10-04 02:13:34 · 14 answers · asked by jeri l 1

My husband claims to do so.
I don't think that is possible. What do you think?
I have never cheated on him.

2006-10-04 02:11:49 · 22 answers · asked by Mujer Bonita 6

2006-10-04 02:11:35 · 5 answers · asked by yassaman 1

My hubby did this to me 2x. He asked me if I wanted to go somewhere and I said yes. Then he tried to steer me in a different direction so I wouldn't go. The first time I was totally hurt by the situation. I told him that and after a couple of days we made up. Then that day he did it again. I am a stay at home mother of 4. He works 70 hours a week. I just wanted some alone time. We had a sitter and all. I think his friends are just more important to me. We have been together for 5 years. Married for almost 1. He said he was sorry and didn't mean to hurt my feelings. But then did it again. Am I just feeling sorry for myself??

2006-10-04 02:10:06 · 12 answers · asked by Need Help! 2

she was spoiled by her dad when she was young, now she has started acting childish trying to get what she wants , and i can't takeit any more, what am i to do?

2006-10-04 02:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 02:00:33 · 7 answers · asked by Lucy 1

2006-10-04 01:49:20 · 5 answers · asked by surfer_angel2102 1

My now in-laws paid for our honeymoon back in Feb. Well something came up and I canceled the honeymoon due to relationship problems. When I canceled, the company only gave half of their money back. Now, my husband's mom expects me to pay her back $1,000. I didn't even ask for them to pay for the honeymoon and I could'nt help that they didn't get all thier money back. Should I just give it up and pay or is this unfair?

2006-10-04 01:42:09 · 37 answers · asked by limeallure 3

2006-10-04 01:40:24 · 8 answers · asked by jimjo16 1

what does it mean when my husband dont want to have sex much and but looks at nude and porn site frequently in the internet. Is this normal to any relationship or is our marraige over. male only pease

2006-10-04 01:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by mary a 1

2006-10-04 01:25:36 · 20 answers · asked by laurie5869 1

Do you believe the greater the age difference the better it ALWAYS is?

2006-10-04 01:21:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is a law question

2006-10-04 01:18:45 · 18 answers · asked by jimjo16 1

iv been married for six years it was the biggest mistake of my life we have nothing in common. i wont to move out but cant afford a place on my own. sex is non existant an i miss it we dont even talk to each other. should i have an affair ?

2006-10-04 01:18:06 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the quickest way,im tired of this life and trying to make it work,tired of the constant up hill battle,at least this way i will be free.

2006-10-04 01:17:35 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous