she was spoiled by her dad when she was young, now she has started acting childish trying to get what she wants , and i can't takeit any more, what am i to do?
2006-10-04 02:05:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You and her need to sit down and talk about this and you need to let her know hwo you feel. A marriage is all about compromision not just her gettign her own way and whatever she wants. As a matter of fact you shoudl have nip that in the but when you guys were dating now she's soo used to it that when you try to change things she might hate you for it. Anyway it still might not be too late just talk to her and if she loves you i'm sure she'll understand how you feel.
2006-10-04 02:07:45 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Thang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married now, the best thing to do is sit her down and talk it out, tell her how you are feeling, let her know you just can't take this behavior. If she is young, this will straighten out. I have been married 9 years and I was horrible with mood swings and childish games when we were first married, then one day about 5 years ago, when i was 26, I just noticed things didn't bother me so much and I just stopped playing all the games. Part of what woke me up, is my husband telling me that he was not happy and just could not take this anymore.
I hope it all works out, but keep in mind, marriage is hard, very hard! Especially the first 5 years, so work it out, keep communication open. If you love you wife, you two will be fine, Good Luck!
2006-10-04 02:12:33 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
1. Don't Complain.
2. Take her responsibilty as she is your baby, she is your baby now, forget what her dad did or whoever.
3. You got to see that she is happy, coz, she is your better half.
4. Her parents trusted in you and gave you there daughter, take care of her.
5. Talk, communicate, every one has a child inside, it is good to be brat, childish lot better than being bitchy and selfish.
6. You did this till now, she knows that you care for her, don't complain now and spoill all that you did till now.
7. It is your duty to make sure that she is happy.
8. Be slow, dont get angry, dont shout, talk as if you are talking to a kid, not every one is raised the same way, she will realise what is important if you explain.
Good Luck and you are a good husband, :-)
Bye.
2006-10-04 02:12:40 · answer #3 · answered by aryavadh@yahoo.co.in 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats kids for ya they will try to play eachother off get them both in same room and tell him the way child act s and if he dont do anything about it there is such thing as a divorce good luck
2006-10-04 02:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by lady_luck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her. Did you not know any of this before you said' "I do" ? Tell her that her childish antics are not working. Let her know that she is an adult and needs to act like one. And let her know these things before you decide to give up.
2006-10-04 02:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you feel. So many marriages fail everyday because of communication barriers. Don't let your marriage be another statistic.
2006-10-04 02:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by ajd1bmf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her seriously. Tell her what you said here. Tell her if she doesn't change, you may have to divorce her. See if she wakes up.
2006-10-04 06:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a baby- she will change herself for the sake of another baby
2006-10-04 02:08:33 · answer #8 · answered by vrmk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her! communication is a huge part of marraige.
2006-10-04 02:07:50 · answer #9 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her this...if she gets mad she gets mad. Nothing will get better unless you guys talk!
2006-10-04 02:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by LeeLynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋