what does it mean when my husband dont want to have sex much and but looks at nude and porn site frequently in the internet. Is this normal to any relationship or is our marraige over. male only pease
2006-10-04 01:31:39 · 12 answers · asked by mary a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oh my gosh i caught my husband doing the same thing it is ****** up if you ask me
2006-10-04 01:55:47 · answer #1 · answered by liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
education is the key here, no matter the age if your child is showing a strong interest in sex it's time to talk about it. If you just put up barriers about sex and don't ever discuss the truth about the risks and pleasures of sex your child could end up becoming sexually active at a young age like I was. Because my mother just thought to punish and say no about sex, instead of discussing it I made some poor decisions that luckily did not haunt me. Let them know you care and want to take an interest in their HEALTH and well being. since she is in puberty hormones will swing wildly and it is natural to have urges and curiosity it is important to make sure your child knows that those are natural and not wrong, but as a parent it is also your job to prepare and protect her from disease, abuse, and a whole slue of other issues. This might mean having the safe sex talk too, sooner rather than later... just a suggestion though, you do what you feel is best...
2016-03-27 04:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMO- It means for some reason or another you guys have lost physical and emotional intimacy. He sees the porn as a substitute for this intimacy, not necessarily for you ( i would assume he is unaware of this,most of us react and are unconcious of ourselves). They maybe emotional hurts, pains or other things that are blocking the path for you two to share this intimacy together. Porn is very addictive and triggers the same recpetor's in the brain that cocaine does. The image of a seductive , available woman is very inviting...and at the sametime with out dealing with the mess of a relationship.
2006-10-04 06:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by ~MB~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question here should be is where do you come into his life, if he is looking at porn for his jollies then he is definately either not getting or not accepting what he needs from you or he is just a down right pig. i would have to put a hurting on my husband if i caught him doing that
2006-10-04 02:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect this is not the only reason why you are asking if your marriage is over. There seem to be hard feelings between you two, and anger and discontent in marriage is a big turn-off for any guy. Strengthen the relationship, the communication, and the emotional intimacy between you, and your husband will want to have sex with you more.
2006-10-04 02:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-04 21:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal, sounds like he just is into other woman and not interested in you,talk to him about it before you do anything drastic,nothing wrong with looking at porn or other nude woman but should get it on with you
2006-10-04 02:00:07 · answer #7 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not male.. and to tell u the truth most males would tell u it is normal because why????? they use it as their own excuse..
sick of the excuses "All men do it" .. "Its inate in a man to do it" ..blah blah blah..
NOT ALL MEN DO IT..
im not a bible thumper but even in the BIBLE it says its wrong.. so if u believe in the Bible then that should be the only PROOF u need to know that it is wrong
In ur vows it said to "FORSAKE ALL OTHERS" i didnt say except for women in porn mags, or on the net.. it meant EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING..
and a man that is SUBSTITUTING HIS WIFE.. for this , is So WRONG.. and guess what thats what he's doing, he's SUBSTITUTING THESE WOMEN FOR YOU.. he's lusting over them, he's showing them attention, he's fantasizing about them and probably getting off to them.. all the things he should be doing with u.. uve been replaced sexually.. ur now the maid.. welcome to the world of allowing Porn into ur household..and your marriage.. now let me ask u.. IS THAT NORMAL?????? IS THAT A HEALTHY MARRIAGE?????? IS THIS WHAT U DREAMED OF??????? ... better fix it before its not just women in mags or on porn sites and it becomes "REAL" WOMEN that he's actually having affairs with because thats the next step..
2006-10-04 02:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Someone once said, 95% of men watch porn and the remaining 5% are liars...
But if he has gone of sex with you in favour of internet porn, then definetly speak to him about it...
2006-10-04 02:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by gio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To paraphrase Robert Palmer "Might as well face it he's addicted to porn." Your hubby needs help just like an alchy needs help. Try to convince him to seek help from his doctor or a local mental health clinic and when he won't you need to decide if you can live with his addiction or not.
2006-10-04 02:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - sounds like he is living in a fantasy world. Look for a lover to take care of you (pick me!)
2006-10-04 02:39:55 · answer #11 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋