Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2006

My bf is really angry because I was out jogging at about 10pm, when he had previously made me promise that I can be out jogging no later than 9pm. I told him at the time that I couldn't promise such a thing, but he put so much pressure on me that I gave in. I try really hard to be safe and NOT jog so late, but other times I have no choice. My energy peak is about 8 or 9 in the evening-- there is no way I can jog with the sun blaring at me, and even worse, waking up at sunrise to jog. I know I promised that I wouldn't do it, but how can I make him understand that I can't keep such a promise, but that I can take care of myself? He says he does it for my own good, and always brings out a couple of incidents that have taken place while I was out jogging at night (a guy grabbing my butt), but that's also happened to me while out in the day. Risk exists anywhere, anytime, but that doesn't mean that we are going to cease leading a normal life b/c of it. I told him this, but he wont budge. =(

2006-10-04 19:42:10 · 21 answers · asked by heya 1

clean house, and get more money if he bounces a check- he may work a new job for a few days before he quites, he screams and sometimes is on the verge of being evil. He screams at our son and he gets so nervous- i want to leave him but i am in so much debt i cant afford a place- we live with his mom- and he had me let my step dad touch me for money and now if i leave him he wants full custody and he will tell my family- I only did it to make him happy and get him money over 4 years ago. what else can i do- i cant get another loan i have 5 i cant get a payday loan i have 3 here and 4 online- i am broke all the time and he gets so mad at me i cry everynight. he leaves the house walking when i make him so mad- if i go to find him he hides and i have to beg him to get in the car, he throughs the keys out and i have to find them, if i dont go get him he calls every 5 minutes- why arent you trying to find me---he can be nice at times- if i make him mad (evryday) i have to give a bj .

2006-10-04 19:36:56 · 20 answers · asked by What Do you Think? 2

2006-10-04 19:34:07 · 5 answers · asked by shortrock 1

Ok I like the tease.. gentle soft kisses...would someone whose an expert kisser give me some tips? Use detail please. I want good answers.

2006-10-04 19:26:34 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Inquisitive 2

My husband is having a serious affair with a married & pregnant collegue for more than 6 mths. They meet each other almost daily, exchange as many as 50 smses daily. When he was not having the affair, he hook up with girls on the intenet and try to be intimate with them n/or go for special massages. We have not been intimate for almost 2 years, ever since we conceive our 1 yr old son. He complaint of work stress and refuses me n says sex is not important.

He says he wants a divorce after I told him I knew. He claims that it is because whenever he look at me it reaminds him of my mother whom he had a serious clash with.

So he should be happy I want to split, right? But he gets angry when I try to discuss going about the divorce/ abt his affairs and give me this pain look when I do things that suggest I am going ahead with it. He continue to tell me elaborate lies to cover up his affair even though I know. I am going ahead to file, but what's up with this guy? Is this normal?

2006-10-04 19:18:05 · 32 answers · asked by peaceful 2

My wife has started doing this and we LOVE it. It feels better for both of us. Just askin' what you guys like/think/do.

2006-10-04 19:16:33 · 15 answers · asked by TrainerMan 5

2006-10-04 19:00:16 · 28 answers · asked by cateyes9440 1

2006-10-04 18:58:30 · 19 answers · asked by cateyes9440 1

IF WE BOTH SIGNED AND GOT IT NOTERIZED IF HE DOESNT SHOW IN COURT WILL I STILL GET THE DEVORCE GRANTED?

2006-10-04 18:54:21 · 4 answers · asked by rosie swartz 1

2006-10-04 18:51:45 · 10 answers · asked by Chanza 1

my husband told me during an argument that im a dead ****! how can he say this when we are doing our thing im the 1 who does everything! he's gotten fat and i'm back to my weight b4 kids what his problem? he dont do ne thing do u think theres something else like he's jealous or somn?

2006-10-04 18:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by dominicana 2

my b.f says he loves me,he also calls me up almost everyday.But sometimes he also tells me he is very busy at office and will not speak to me.We havent met for almost 2 yrs.He is in a different country.We will be getting married this november.But Icant go abroad as my passport has got stuck.he knows it and is comfortable with it,he tells me that he will fix up the passport issue ones he comes here for the marriage.He will stay then for 1 mnth and go back,not quite sure when he will return.as per my understanding Passport cant be fixed as I am in India where the government is extremely inefficient and go by their own whims.Does he really love me,I am also very afraid to get married as I am unable to understand if he really loves me.It also seems he is quite cool with his life,never ever expressed that he missed me all this time
Iam confused and afraid.Please help me.

2006-10-04 18:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by fun 1

Well my boyfriend has been very accusing of me every time i do something he thinks i am cheating him and just gets really jeleous

2006-10-04 18:39:29 · 8 answers · asked by Brittany Chavez Perez 1

Im 45 year old man, i have been married for 20 years now, and i have a son of 16, the last 5 years i didnt see my family more than 5 days in a month due to my work.

The last 6 months i have been with someone else of my work, she is 25 and i feel that for the first time in my life i fall in love, i have been thinking get the divorce and be with this girl. . but i dont know if take the risk and leave my family, because all the time that i have share with my wife, despite that she has now have her own life.
I dont know if this is a crisis of my age, i dont know if this girl will be ok with me when i look my age, what will happen with the difference then, she say that she dont care and isn ot a problem but i dotn know.

What do you think.. shall i have to take the risk ??

2006-10-04 18:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my husband and I met, he was nice and always smiling. Now my husband is verbally abusive. One day he "loves" me and the next day he wishes we never got married. I guess you could say I was his mid-life crisis. We are 14 years apart and he is set in his ways. We have a 1yr old and he gets upset when the baby has his toys all over the room. This marriage has been rocky from the first day we got married. He used to try to make me go to bed when he went to bed. He would walk through the house and turn out the lights and the tv that I was watching and say lets go. I have prayed and things got a little better. He tells me jokingly yet seriously that he would rather pay child support than stay married. My main problem is I go to school, and work full time, (he doesn't help with our child) and I can't manage to keep the house clean. So he's pissed about that. That's the root of it. I've tried and I can't juggle it all.

2006-10-04 18:27:56 · 8 answers · asked by Mrs.BBA 1

Many moments of my life are haunting me, i relive them in detail and then proceed to talk through them the way I wish I had because of what the truth of those moments are now revealling to me. There are a few scenios however the most painful are the ones involving my husband and his insults and lies when he was having an affair. I know this pain will be there wheather I allow him to stay or demand he leaves for good this time - even if he were to die. This emotional/heartache pain and reliving won't stop, I need to find away and soon. Even during the dead of sleep I'm woken up in full emotional pain and reliving a moment. How do you stop emotional/heartache pain?

2006-10-04 18:23:34 · 11 answers · asked by carenffb 2

Should especially stop changing rules around everytime you speak with them .

2006-10-04 18:23:06 · 8 answers · asked by bikerdollbaby72 1

2006-10-04 18:21:16 · 17 answers · asked by bharti g 1

It's slightly an emotionally abusive relationship. Husband is insecure and sometimes thinks I'm unfaithful--even though I never have been. We constantly argue and I find myself growing very intolerant of him. Tonight we had another one of our disagreements---I talked to the neighbor for a few minutes and my husband thought my speaking to him was inappropriate. Ironically the conversation was about the neighbor's dogs escaping their backyard. I came inside, and my husband packed up his gym bag and when I asked him where he was going, he responded, "somewhere that you won't be going". I don't think I should apologize for talking to the neighbor!

2006-10-04 18:13:21 · 21 answers · asked by justwondering 1

If you don't tell me, I will figure it out. Spellcheck is still spinning.?/

2006-10-04 18:11:28 · 9 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

a man married in mexico, ten years ago, broght his wife to this country and had 3 kids at this time she is ilegal alien. he wants to divorce her and take her kids and have her deported! can he actually do this? o the kids were born here..

2006-10-04 18:03:41 · 8 answers · asked by mr39buick 1

your husband or wife? Was it love at first sight?

2006-10-04 18:03:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married 4 years. When we were dating she wasn't shy about anything. Now she sees sex as an arduous task. I'm getting hornier and kinkier by the minute. She's 24 and I'm 27 and we have two kids. She acts like she is doing it to keep me around and if I want to try something new, she thinks I'm cheating on her.What can I do to make her want to sex me every minute of the day? Unbenounced to her, I'm even fantising her enjoying other men and thinking I would like watching; I also want to video tape us and do everything that we could possibally think of, and the some. My wife is very self concious about the LITTLE weight she put on after our last child and said that,(even though it's the same old sex we've always had!), when we have sex it makes her feel dirty.WHY? ****, Let's get Dirty!What should I do????????We might have sex twice a month!!!

2006-10-04 18:03:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with my first love because he was immature and married someone else. It has been two years and I am still thinking, dreaming, and wishing to see my first love again. What is my problem? He literally haunts my dreams (he is still alive though). The dreams are always negative but I still feel this extreme love toward him. Someone diagnose me!

2006-10-04 17:53:52 · 21 answers · asked by Mrs.BBA 1

2006-10-04 17:46:18 · 5 answers · asked by allipaki 1

My husband believes so, he calls the woman a "zonah". He says that men shouldn't have sex with their wives when they are menstruating which I agree with. However, sometimes when I'm on my period he will go to his zonah and have relations. I guess it isn't my place to say what he is doing is wrong but it does hurt me some that he does this. He tells me not to worry about it and that he loves me the most which makes me feel better, but I still feel like I am not good enough for him. Am I wrong for being upset?

2006-10-04 17:45:34 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 17:45:28 · 26 answers · asked by Robert k 1

Well, I just posted a question a little bit ago under this category How do I deal with my husband. You should read the other post to get an idea of the situation.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Au4DNRGyX2NOtmu29TOVDjPzy6IX?qid=20061004203539AAEXuZj


My husbands family all hates me, too. I'm outspoken and supposedly not good wife material, either. They talk to me like i'm 5 yrs old everytime they get the chance and my husband doesn't say BOO about it. He says they don't mean any disrespect...yeah, right.And i'm very easy to get along with, too so i'm not the kind of person who finds fault with everyone. I'm really a likable person.
Well, I just got a call from my parents who are the only thing that keeps me sane around here...They are moving to CANADA! I can't be mad at them for doing what they want but I feel like i'll go mad without them here to support me:(
I don't really have any friends or support network other than them either so basically i'm alone now!

2006-10-04 17:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by patti_jim_reynolds 3

My husband leaves the freaking toilet seat up i could kill him when he does that what about yall

2006-10-04 17:43:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

We were married ten years and were high school sweethearts. During the mariage I found out that he was unfaithful 2x. He is still with that person. During our separation but b4 the divorce I met someone that I thought I loved too. This made the divorce much easier on me. I have recently learned that my ex still loves me too. We have 4 kids together, a lot of the same friends and we still talk w/each others families. We are both dating the other people that entered into our lives before/during the divorce. I do not want to hurt my current boyfriend but I am starting to think that I am only with him out of hurt and/or convienience. I would hate to get back with my ex just to find out that he is still a cheat. My kids miss the time with their dad, it would make them happy. Any advice???

2006-10-04 17:41:30 · 8 answers · asked by freedom4ni 1