Well, I just posted a question a little bit ago under this category How do I deal with my husband. You should read the other post to get an idea of the situation.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Au4DNRGyX2NOtmu29TOVDjPzy6IX?qid=20061004203539AAEXuZj
My husbands family all hates me, too. I'm outspoken and supposedly not good wife material, either. They talk to me like i'm 5 yrs old everytime they get the chance and my husband doesn't say BOO about it. He says they don't mean any disrespect...yeah, right.And i'm very easy to get along with, too so i'm not the kind of person who finds fault with everyone. I'm really a likable person.
Well, I just got a call from my parents who are the only thing that keeps me sane around here...They are moving to CANADA! I can't be mad at them for doing what they want but I feel like i'll go mad without them here to support me:(
I don't really have any friends or support network other than them either so basically i'm alone now!
2006-10-04 17:45:08 · 8 answers · asked by patti_jim_reynolds 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
did you even pay attention to the question fyre? it wasn't about APR's, our bills are actually already paid ahead, we are financially stable, not to mention we both agreed where this money would be going and then told our daughter that we were going to Disney with grammy and grampa which was to be our big christmas gift for us all. The issue was that he changed his mind, and spent the money knowing once it's gone, it's gone! He didnt care about hurting our 4 yr old or violating my trust. And he wasn't worried about APR either so whats that got to do with anything?
2006-10-04 18:01:22 · update #1
wishee,,, you obviously haven't read the other post if you think he's wonderful... hence the link??
2006-10-04 18:03:17 · update #2
Patti , slow down sweetie you will have heart failure if you don't .
Did you read the answers we gave you on the last "Q" ?
There doesn't seem to be any hard and fast answers here . It sounds like you have some real serious decisions to make .
If you go off the deep end you will probably screw up , you need
to keep your wits about you . Sleep on it read over the suggestions again tomorrow and start to plan accordingly .
2006-10-04 18:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take offense, but a cash advancement is not free or found money, you will be paying 21% interest on that vacation years after you go on it, your child will probably not even remember much of a trip at 4. Since you do work part time you are the best one with more time to take care of your house doesn't matter what the paychecks are. I do not know your husband or you but I think saving money and paying your bills plus taking care of your household should be a priority not Disney.
2006-10-05 00:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by fyrechick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey...you have a husband..he's your life now..get you ..duck's in a row...It's an old saying,it means to start getting your priorities lined up.You can't change his family.You can't keep your parent's from moving.You need to take care of your own,Married live.I know it's hard..I went through the same thing,until i got my..duck's in a row..you can do it..It's worth the effort.Your husband sounds like a good one...keep him.
2006-10-05 01:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Wishee 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her your hubby to stop being a spineless jellyfish and stand up for you or your moving with your family someone that will stand up for you and support you like he is suppose to
2006-10-05 00:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try pulling them aside and tell them listen im an adult and i dont want to be talked to like im 5! if talking dont work with those people try keeping your distance a bit to help you with your sanity! oh and im sorry i didnt read your other post!
2006-10-05 01:37:19 · answer #5 · answered by dominicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and let him marry a sister or a cousin that's legal where those hill folks are frume
2006-10-05 01:40:22 · answer #6 · answered by chiefof nothing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
isnt the message clear yet
2006-10-05 00:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with your ARGGGG!!!!
2006-10-05 12:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋