my b.f says he loves me,he also calls me up almost everyday.But sometimes he also tells me he is very busy at office and will not speak to me.We havent met for almost 2 yrs.He is in a different country.We will be getting married this november.But Icant go abroad as my passport has got stuck.he knows it and is comfortable with it,he tells me that he will fix up the passport issue ones he comes here for the marriage.He will stay then for 1 mnth and go back,not quite sure when he will return.as per my understanding Passport cant be fixed as I am in India where the government is extremely inefficient and go by their own whims.Does he really love me,I am also very afraid to get married as I am unable to understand if he really loves me.It also seems he is quite cool with his life,never ever expressed that he missed me all this time
Iam confused and afraid.Please help me.
2006-10-04 18:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by fun 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
do not marry him
2006-10-04 18:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may have another girlfriend or wife. The two of you haven't met up in 2 years. He has to be having relations with somebody. If he wasn't he would be doing everything that he could do to help you with your passport and he would have visited you by now. You already have a gut feeling, all women do. It's hard to follow it sometimes, but I think you already know what to do.
2006-10-04 18:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs.BBA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on!!! distance relationships are not good and even worse that he hardly communicates....you have all the answers and you still want to analize things...tell me something if you are not sure about getting married ....what is the pressure? is he pushing you ..becareful ...I had a very bad experience I married a guy that was in Cuba and he only used me....becareful do not trust him completely...a bad decition can spoil your life forever
2006-10-04 18:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound like a real relationship. I mean you talk on the phone, and you won't even get to be with him. who's to say he isn't already married and living another life. Why can't you find someone close to home to love.
your bound to get hurt. something is not right here.
2006-10-04 18:50:33 · answer #4 · answered by joy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you havent seen each other in 2 years and your getting married in november??
wow, maybe you should wait just a little longer.
if he wont be with you now, what makes you think he'll spend all his time with you when your married?
just be careful-with relationships like this it wouldnt be very hard for some cheating to be going on
2006-10-04 18:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by lo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wory when he come to india everything will be clear
2006-10-04 22:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by firu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which country ?
how come its possible? heve you ever meet with him?
2006-10-04 18:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find somebody else !
2006-10-04 18:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by ken88dorset 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋