my husband told me during an argument that im a dead ****! how can he say this when we are doing our thing im the 1 who does everything! he's gotten fat and i'm back to my weight b4 kids what his problem? he dont do ne thing do u think theres something else like he's jealous or somn?
2006-10-04 18:46:12 · 14 answers · asked by dominicana 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nah. I think that when people argue, they say things that they KNOW will hurt the other one. Not to mention the fact that he may be feeling guilty because he knows that he has let himself go so the best way to battle that is to turn it around on you. I really wouldn't take it personal considering you already know what the truth REALLY is. After things cool down a bit, I would say something to him to the effect of "When you made that comment about me and our sex life, it really hurt". Pointing out that it hurt your feelings sometimes will make a person think about what they have said and will make them more aware. Good luck! Fighting is never any fun. Any time anyone argues in my house, we practice "time out". Sometimes it is just best to walk away before it gets too hurtful!
2006-10-04 18:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband gets his rock off by saying such stupid words to offend you then either speak back in that manner or don't do anything in bed just lie there look-up at the ceiling and wander -off to a better place or time with someone else that is what fantazing is for.If it's just jelousy he'll get over it with your attention towards him, stop working so hard , relax.
2006-10-05 01:54:26 · answer #2 · answered by lytesdelite 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he most likely does feel a little insecure, but let him know in a relationship there is a line you dont cross no matter how mad you get. tell him not to personally attack you even though he is mad. set some rules down, if he wants to tell you whats going on tell him to cool down and cool out with the name calling.
2006-10-05 02:09:25 · answer #3 · answered by hamhead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, if anyone would know it would be him. I'm gonna take his word for it. being good at sex has nothing to do with weight as you seem to think. maybe you're jealous of him for some reason?? i can't think of any other explanation for you to be posting a question about him like this. how would he feel about this question?? hmmm, if you're gonna be that f'ed up to him maybe you should do him a big favor and file for divorce.
2006-10-05 01:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by drtyfckr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he is justifing himself for having an affair......just guessing but most men blame their partner when they are doing something themselves.....easy way to take the perssure off themself
2006-10-05 02:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Fiji_bound2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your have turned him into a fat blob by feeding him to much , this will keep him at home , Now he is jealous that your hot , leave him and come visit me
2006-10-05 01:54:34 · answer #6 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can not answer without finding out if you are a dead ****!
He probably is just mad and made an *** of himself!
2006-10-05 01:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by throatp0ker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's insecure..he's fat and you're the one working and your slimmer compared to him..why don't u assure him that no matter what he looks like, you still love him..but if his actions are uncontrollable, better settle in court
2006-10-05 01:49:49 · answer #8 · answered by harukashin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should devorce him! he is worthless im devorcen my soon to be ex husband! cause he was the same way ur husband is!
2006-10-05 01:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by rosie swartz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just passing on the entire blame on u.
perhaps out of frustration.
2006-10-05 01:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋