2006-10-04 19:00:16 · 28 answers · asked by cateyes9440 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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This was my answer to a question that I answered not long ago.
"If you could make the perfect husband what would he be?"
The perfect husband? Well...
The perfect husband is loving, gentle but firm. Able to spoil and pamper but unable to be pushed around by his wife. He has "that look" that will make your heart feel like it is beating right out of your chest. His strong arms pull you in to him and wrap around you and hold you. His lips carres you and tell you that he loves you. He makes you feel like the most beautiful, most loved, most special person in the world.
His fun side is great. He knows how to laugh and have a good time. He enjoys the time he spends with you. He is your best friend. He is the lover you always dreamed of. He makes you feel like his princess. He makes all of your fantasies come true. He knows just where to touch you and just how to touch you. He still makes your heart beat so fast and still gives you tingles just like he did when you first met him.
He is there for you when you need a shoulder to cry on. He holds you tight to his chest when you are scared or sad. He will fight for you and is willing to lay down his life for you. He holds you up high and protects you. You are his delicate rose, you are his lady.
Most importantly, he is a man of God.
There is so, so much more... but I will stop here for now.
2006-10-04 19:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by C.J. W 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is there such a thing? Really as a Husband myself I feel I could never be a perfect husband to my wife. I try so hard but yet I seem to fall short more often than not. Though there may not be a perfect husband, there is the husband who loves their wife more than life itself and is willing to try no matter what obstacles he is faced with. I love my wife and that's the closest I can get to perfect. And I'm sure much like beauty, perfection is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-10-05 02:05:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First I'd have to say there is no such thing as a perfect husband.
An ideal husband would be loving, supportive, faithful, stable, able to provide for his family, trustworthy, great sense of humor, even able to laugh at himself, able to be boyish when appropriate, considerate of others, compassionate, so many things. You know what is important to you.
If you are not married really get to know each other before getting married. It takes about 6 months to really get to know someone and a year to know them well.
Find out what his religious beliefs are, how would he discipline children, how would holidays be spent.
Have you seen his angry side? When he's frustrated?
How does he treat others, parents, siblings, friends, relatives?
Is he a neat freak or slob or somewhere in the middle?
As you discover his imperfections you have to decide if these are things you can live with.
For example if he smokes and you don't like it, don't expect him to change just because you got married.
Or if he drinks heavily, criticizes others easily, is moody, or short tempered. Changes jobs often. Says one thing but does another. Is he unreliable.
Often in youth we believe love conquers all, but in reality most of us are what we are take it or leave it.
Marriage is a lot of hard work and there will be good times and bad, so you need to think is this the person I want to weather the storm with as well as love.
Romantic love will not always be there, you have to decide to love sometimes and find creative ways to keep your marriage fun and exciting.
2006-10-05 02:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by easinclair 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mine isnt perfect but neither am I or any one eles is.But what makes a good husband.He provides for me.When you can call him your best friend,and mean it.When I feel real down he does his best to help me back up.If I cook something new and he says its okay but try some eles next time,he won't hurt my feelings.He respects me.I know because he ask me questions even though he knows the answer already,but he ask's me anyway just to see what I have to say about it.I make a big mess and he helps me out,or gets me out of it with out a question ask.Its the really small things that makes a good husband as well as a good man.He is far from perfect,but he makes a good husband,and a friend.
2006-10-05 02:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The perfect "wife" MAKES the perfect husband !!
Because the appropriate partners can always be perfect for each others.
2006-10-05 02:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by loody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone is perfect but a great husband is one who provides for you and supports whatever decisions you make. One who doesn't walk in front of your nor behind you but walks beside you in this journey we call life. He always has best intentions and always is there when you feel down and will do anything to bring a smile back to your face. He is honest and will not lie or hold things back and is respectful and doesn't push you into anything that makes you uncomfortable
2006-10-05 02:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by clea_duvall_fan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that loves Christ as his saviour. A man that loves his wife and accepts for who she is. Forgives her when she wrongs him. A bold man, caring, and fun. A man that works and brings home a check every payday. All the characteristics listed would take an eternity to list. :) But there is no such thing as a perfect husband. If you see one, Let me know.
2006-10-05 02:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as a perfect husband, just as there is no such thing as a perfect wife. We are all human, and we all make mistakes.
Be glad, however if you find a man that supports your endeavers in life, is a good father to your children, and doesn't find time for extramarital affairs.
2006-10-05 02:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no-ones perfect. husband or wife. more importantly we could look to perfect within ourselves and doing that would spend so much time and effort we would not have any time left over to address imperfection or perfection in looking at what promotes a 'perfect' husband. one person sees perfection in one area and another doesnt, perhaps its the 'look of love, in perfection'.... that counts..... if love finds you worthy it will direct it own course.....now that is perfection
2006-10-05 02:06:45 · answer #9 · answered by mee cat puuurfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A perfect husband is the guy that is everything you want him to be. That's different things to different women. For me, it wouldn't be a "perfect" man, it'd be a man who made mistakes, too, could laugh at them, a man who loved me no matter what I looked like, how fat I got. He couldn't be too clingy, but definitely into me when we were together. He would have to be stern at times, because I need a lot of help keeping myself out of trouble. He'd have to be comfortable and secure enough in our relationship to tell me no, or tell me when one of my ideas is stupid, plus be ok with me telling him the same.
2006-10-05 02:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by t.larae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋