Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2006

i know my husband as cheated on me,more than once,he dos`nt know i have found out.it hurts but i want him to think he is so clever.i have had enough now,i want him to hurt as much as he has hurt me,then i can walk away and leave him with the opened mouth

2006-10-04 06:13:28 · 52 answers · asked by tali_kia 1

2006-10-04 06:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by harin 2

2006-10-04 06:09:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 14 years now. We are like roomates more than husband and wife though. We have kids and will stay together. She has simply lost her drive and I miss the closeness that is lost. This is as good as it gets and I want more. Beyond counciling that we have both tried. What would you do?

If there are others that just would like to share corrrespondance with me an informal married but lonely group you are welcome to.
I am male and in california.

2006-10-04 06:09:44 · 16 answers · asked by onlineseeker 4

If you don't have a lot of sex in your marriage and then you notice that your partner doesn't really try to iniate phsical intimcay with you anymore what does this mean? (And NO he is not getting it somehere else......i know him better than that)....could it mean that he knows that even if he tried to iniate something its not going anywhere so why start anyway? Is he loving me less or falling out of love with me? Serious answers only please....

2006-10-04 06:08:56 · 27 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

My husband has a myspace account and a yahoo account. I know his myspace password and I went to check out his profile today and he had a new message from a girl. He had deleted from his outbox what he had sent, but she replied to what he sent so I saw what he wrote. He siad he was going to meet her and got directions to her house and got her phone number. All this went on last night when I was sick in bed. I called him and he said he was just playing around and he never had plans to really meet her. He has done the same things with yahoo messanger. He has had girls call him and text message him. He even bought calling cards to call girls in other countries. What should I do? Beleive my husband and trust him that it is just playing around or leave him. i love him, but it is getting to be too much. He has promised to change before. I have made changes for him, but he just keeps doing this stuff.

2006-10-04 06:06:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm new at being a wife. I had no real life role model of a wife growing up, and I feel like I'm struggling.

So, what would the ideal wife be like in your eyes. Men and women, married or single... I'd like your opinions.

My husband and I have talked about this, and will continue to talk about it, I'm sure. I'm just interested in other people's ideas.

Many thanks.

2006-10-04 06:03:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

While in a bubble bath my husband seemed distant from me..I notced he was paying more attnetion to the cat who was laying nearby than me, he sprayed me with shaving cream, and massaged my shoulders, but when I laid back on him to relax he just left his arms and hands down to the side in the water, he did not hold me close or put his arms around me....i asked him what was wrong and he said nonthing he was fine. He said he was flirting with me by spraying me but seemed to ingore my notice of his arms to the side......does it seem like something is wrong or is he being distant and just doesn't want to admitt it, or am I over reacting and over anaylsing? Doesn't this seem strange?

2006-10-04 06:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by ilih2006 1

2006-10-04 05:59:40 · 13 answers · asked by crumbleyphillip 1

how early is to early to get married? how long should you wait. me and my fiance have been dating for almost 4 years

2006-10-04 05:56:32 · 32 answers · asked by miraclebaby_2006 5

Is it common for a man to not want to ever marry a woman that he says he wants to be with forever? (despite the fact that they have been dating for a considerable amount of time and he isn't interested in pursuing another relationship) Do all men hate the thought of marriage and will only do so grudgingly, or if pressured?

2006-10-04 05:51:55 · 17 answers · asked by Janelle 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for like almost two years. Recently, we've been to several altercations. It's due to the conflicting obligations. He's working to support his family while I have to sacrifice my personal needs and my family in order to help him. I came to realiase just lately that I'm a moron for allowing him to manipulate me. I've sacrified so much in this shitty relationship to the point of compromising my reputation and my family.

Right now, I would like to put an end to everything and try my best to start anew. I want to leave him after October. There are however things that make me doubt my decision. I want to make sure that I'm doing the right decision. I want to make sure that I really don't love him anymore. Pls help me clear my hesitations with your comments, questions and suggestions.

Thank you and I look forward to your reply.

2006-10-04 05:50:17 · 6 answers · asked by Dilemma 1

How to divorce a woman which is married illegally or not as an official wife. Is it okay just by saying "Talaq" or should it be with the wife's permission??
How about if the woman doesnt want a divorce?

PLEASE HELP! THANKS

2006-10-04 05:49:55 · 4 answers · asked by dayBYday 2

My boyfriend went to a club last night and then kept being relly nice to me afterwards. Should i be suspicious?

2006-10-04 05:49:09 · 12 answers · asked by Lil L 1

2006-10-04 05:46:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

For the ladies.

I want my wife to have oral sex but she refuses.

What do you think? Do you? Is it normal?

2006-10-04 05:34:14 · 23 answers · asked by Mr Business 3

My husband and I have been together for 13 years, married for 7 1/2. We have 3 kids and he has one child from a previous. He is 8 yrs older than I am. He has been quite the *** for the past few months. He's verbally abusive towards me and then appologizes later. A couple of days go by and everything is fine, then it all hits again. I'm wondering whether he wants out of the relationship and just can't tell me cuz of guilt so he's making it difficult to live with him. I have asked him if that's what he's doing, but he denys it. Then he's off to being a jerk again. Does that make sense? And should I leave? Yes, I do love him, but his behavior is not acceptable for me or the kids.

2006-10-04 05:31:51 · 28 answers · asked by teacherladytina 1

Before you go screaming that there should be no spuse rearing, we all know deep in our hearts this is not true. Why is there the belief (Supported by numerous books by expertes) that there are a ton of ways to correct children's behavior but everyone feels you can't change your spouse's behavior?
Some of the same techniques we use on our children (removal of privileges, giving choices, rewards) must work on our spouses. Which ones work the best?

2006-10-04 05:20:09 · 9 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

This is HORRIBLY emotional for me. I am considering separation frommy husband of 8 years. we have 2 children and he has a 9 year old. I've been in my step-daughers life her ENTIRE life as my husband was my best friend before we were married. I love her as if she were my own flesh and blood.

However, if we separated I would have no legal right to request visitation. He has joint custody with her mother.

Neither party would keep me from seeing her, I know, but I feel as though I'm staying in this relationship soley for her sake. How unfair it is for her to already to have a split home, and I am making it even more difficult.

2006-10-04 05:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm very much in love with my boyfriend and he says that he loves me "when I ask him".He didnt work for a whole year and I took care of him.Now the table has turned and I am not working but he is.Ever since he got his job he has been talking to me like I'm a dog and not showing me respect.By respect I mean I will be talking to him and he will get up and walk out of the room as though I have not said a word.It makes me want to cry,and I tell him that it hurts me.It goes allot deeper.When I tell him to leave me he says he is in love with me and that he needs me in his life.He will be good for one day and then it's right back to being treated like a dog.If he loves me I'm not seeing it.If he dont love me I dont understand why he dont go when I tell him to.He usually kisses me when he goes to work,but today he didnt kiss me and I didnt even do anything.I just want some outside opinions on the situation please?

2006-10-04 05:13:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

With the exception of being cheated on,, have you ever felt betrayed by your spouse? What happened? how did you get over it?
And please we have been to marriage theraphy and it helped some but my old feelings of anger and hurt are coming back. It is about his job and some trouble he got into,, I wasn't really lied too but I was mis lead.

2006-10-04 05:11:24 · 13 answers · asked by B V 5

How much does it cost for a lawyer?
I need a lawyer to help me get a better deal on my visitation rights. I recently recieved an offer from her lawyer and i'm not really feeling it. Was wondering if anyone know about how much it cost for a descent lawyer. I live in Houston but i may need one in Dallas being she lives close to it. Any suggestions? Offer is 42 days in the summer, every spring break, every other thanksgiving, 1 week in christmas and one weekend a month, plus i have to drive 5-6 hours to pick them up AND drop them off, making that about 20 hours in the car! Now how does that sound?

2006-10-04 05:09:54 · 9 answers · asked by mr. clean 1

2006-10-04 05:09:34 · 23 answers · asked by Amy R 1

my boyfriend was abused alot as a child he was hit till he bled and his mothers husband would lock him in the closet...what kind of affect does this have on his relationships he has with a woman (dating,engagement, marriage) and has anyone dealt with this sort of situation. I am wondering that because he was abused that he may be capable of abusing myself or our child when i become ready to have one.

2006-10-04 05:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer 1

I dont know if what im feeling is love or more like a brotherly love? Im confused..I feel is the latter but i really need to be sure?? Please help..

2006-10-04 05:08:16 · 17 answers · asked by ddko 2

how many years are necesary for a couple to get bored of doing things together like going to movies and all those things that was interesting when they where just newly weds...

please enter your age cause this is a radio talkshow survey and we are interested on it

thanks

2006-10-04 05:07:35 · 13 answers · asked by Jaque Mate 2

lets say some guy who is like 21 years old, wants to get with a chick who is really hot. are hot chicks more into guys that have never been married or married once and then divorced? i want to increase my chance of getting a hot chick. another similar question is: when a guy marries at a young age then divorce, will he be able to remarry again to a hot attractive woman? or will his chances be lowered? what about for women? do guys like women who have never been married or ones who have been divorced? what role does having children play in these questions?

2006-10-04 05:07:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband struggles with his weight. ALOT of it has to do with his genes, but alot is also due to lifestyle. We have joind the gym and I try to keep healthy food in the house.

Bottom line, right now he does not look attractive to me and my sex drive is almost nonexisitent because of it. what else can i do without crushing his feelings>

2006-10-04 05:00:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been recieving alot of different mailfrom "singles webpages,Like Dusk to Dawn, Singles over thirty, Looking for love,Asian women,etc. He has gotten alot of them from different(over 20) places. I don't know alot about computers, but it is disturbing me. He has lied about things to me in the past . Do i trust all of this is just spam.

2006-10-04 04:59:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

about the world today? This is just a time to let yourself go about any thing on your mind. Enjoy!

2006-10-04 04:58:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous