I dont know if what im feeling is love or more like a brotherly love? Im confused..I feel is the latter but i really need to be sure?? Please help..
2006-10-04 05:08:16 · 17 answers · asked by ddko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I dont mind being around him but once he comes near me..i would cringe..as if im disgusted.I feel like he's more of a friend.:(
2006-10-05 05:24:49 · update #1
Hmmm....some signs. You can't even look at them and smile anymore. You fall asleep on the couch, so you don't have to be in the same bed together. You hardly talk. You'd rather go out with your friends. You feel more like roomates than lovers.
You're not alone.....I'm in the same boat!
2006-10-04 05:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by 2Good4U 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In time the love does change, you can't expect to keep that passionate, exciting love like when you first met. So the fact that you are feeling any kind of love implies that that honeymoon period is over. The question is whether you feel it is enough or not. If you are unhappy with it and feel like there is no way forward within the relationship then you need to decide whether a seperation is needed. OR perhaps with some work and compromise you and your spouse could carry on a loving relationship.
2006-10-04 05:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by boudicea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it starts when you don't communicate anymore. By this I mean all you say is " Hi how was your day"..."Fine". And then it leads to not being able to be silent with each other anymore..like you're terrified of being in the room alone because you have a billion thoughts racing through your head. Next could be every single that he/she does really irritates you and drives you crazy and you just hate being around them cause being around them makes you miserable....it's like that song that three days grace song " I Hate Everything About You..."
2006-10-04 05:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's irritating
whatever he says, does and moves are pure iritation
can wait to get away from him, even his presence is irritating
dont miss him a tiny bit, even when he's sick
going on a short holiday, not missing him and dont feel like coming home
feels more comfortable with guy friends than him
being easily submissive to guys intimate advances.
not feeling cheap, loose and a **** going to bed with others
last but not least, fresh air without him.
2006-10-04 13:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi well i do know that people fall out of love eventually it doesn't mean u need a divorce it justrmeans that u guys need to do something to spark it up again. do something romantic. it is normal in marriage it goes up and down all the time but u will always do love that person.
2006-10-04 05:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by sweetiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you start making a big deal over the tiniest thing and just gets frustrated looking at that person..i guess you are definitely falling out.
2006-10-04 20:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your are a person who always playing with your mind. STOP playing with mind game, it'll make your life worsen and always creating confusion in you life.
Start avoiding all this kind of thoughts, it'll really destroy your life..
I belief, it is a firm thing of what you want;
If you want him to be your brotherly love, then it'll be a brotherly love..
If you want him to be your true love, then it'll be a true love..
Decide want you want and that's it....
2006-10-04 12:14:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you pictured your spouse moving on to another person, would it bother you or would you feel maybe its best? If the answer is yes, then trust me........you are out of love
2006-10-04 05:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Blk Angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get bother but not jealouse any more. not really interested in sex. don't feel like his opinion matters before making any decision big or small. feeling like you don't have to look prety for him at the end of the day. etc...
2006-10-04 05:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a matter of love. You will always love someone once you have loved them... it may just be a matter of boredom and taking each other for granted.
2006-10-04 05:10:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋