While in a bubble bath my husband seemed distant from me..I notced he was paying more attnetion to the cat who was laying nearby than me, he sprayed me with shaving cream, and massaged my shoulders, but when I laid back on him to relax he just left his arms and hands down to the side in the water, he did not hold me close or put his arms around me....i asked him what was wrong and he said nonthing he was fine. He said he was flirting with me by spraying me but seemed to ingore my notice of his arms to the side......does it seem like something is wrong or is he being distant and just doesn't want to admitt it, or am I over reacting and over anaylsing? Doesn't this seem strange?
2006-10-04 06:01:29 · 6 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You might be trying to find an answer that isn't there. You leaned back and relax against him and he relaxed by putting his arms to his side.
Seems you might have had other intentions and he thought you just wanted to relax so he did the same.
Next time take his arms and hand and put them where you wanted them to be. That way he will not need to think what you really wanted.
2006-10-05 01:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were over reacting. He probably was tired. The world can't always revolve around you. Did you try massaging his shoulders?
2006-10-04 13:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously didnt try to rub him. You saw the signs that something was up, and wallowed in self pity. Its your turn to talk to him and massage him now. Just try your best.
2006-10-04 13:08:26 · answer #3 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being distant. The question is why. Maybe something is on his mind, maybe he was tired, maybe this, maybe that. Don't overreact to a one time thing, assuming it is a one time thing.
2006-10-04 13:09:25 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say being distant? Especially if he is not normally like this. Talk to him, see if he has something on his mind.
2006-10-04 13:52:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO CLUE. IF I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH MY MAN I JUST COMMUNICATE AND TALK TO HIM ABOUT IT.
2006-10-04 13:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋