Marriage & Divorce - 4 October 2006

Our sex is good but kind of routine most of the time. I would consider our relationship very good and both of us very open to new experiences. Any ideas? No third parties involved!!

2006-10-04 07:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 07:53:36 · 15 answers · asked by AuntFlo 1

ok...i flirt with everyone but for me it's not serious dude i even flirt with woman...it's fun and it doesnt go any further! well my friend's husband came up to me and was like "i tihnk ur hot in that dress" and i said "why thank you! u dont look as bad" and i winked at him...but i do that to even his wife, and he does that also in front of his wife...we're all friends! but the other night, we were all clubbing but my friend couldnt come...hubby got drunk, grabbed my *** and tried to kiss me. i pushed him away! but someone saw it and thought something was actually happening and told her...now she's saying that i want to take her man! and what's worse is he told her that he has feelings for me and wants me! i have no feelings for him! and now i'm scared of loosing my friend over this...what can i do to calm her down???

2006-10-04 07:48:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

While im not thin as a rail I am by no means huge. I have a pretty average weight for my height and my only problem is I am not toned. I am trying to get in the habit of going to the gym but sometimes time gets away from me. My problem is my bf. When we have sex or afterwards he will point out the little extra roll I have on the side or my "love handles". He also points out my stretch marks and I told him that even skinny women have those and when I say that he will tell me that the skinny women he has dated don't have those. Then he is always saying you need to work on your body baby. He is slender and well built and sometimes I just feel like I am not good enough for him. Its like why would someone like that even be with me? I try to laugh it off¬ be bothered by it but I cant help it. Sex is supposed to be an intimate time not a time when you point out your partners body flaws. I cant believe I was considering babies with him. What do I do? Work out more???? I'm trying

2006-10-04 07:46:02 · 25 answers · asked by Shannon83 1

My wife and I haven't had intercourse in 2 and a half weeks. She was having trouble with her birth control pills and the doctor said not to have sex until she can get checked out. (She is going to her appt. today).

Last week she pleased me orally and thats all I got for over 2 weeks, I have asked her a few times in the past 4 days for her to give me some oral again and she got mad last night at me.

She told me that she was not interested in doing anything sexual at all until she finds out what is wrong with her and doesn't want to be pressured anymore. She said she wasn't in the mood and I need to take care of myself.

I didn't think I was being that big of a jerk. Was I being unfair for her to help me out?

2006-10-04 07:45:27 · 19 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1

Husband feels he is entitled to be supported while he pursues his music career. Is controlling and sometimes verbally abusive. I hate confrontation but have 2 daughters to think of besides myself. My "DreamMan" has turned out to be a nightmare.

2006-10-04 07:44:39 · 15 answers · asked by waitingtoexhale 1

He is 50 and i am 41.he doesnt have children he isnt seeing any one or talking to anyone about any of his feelings, he does have a secret....he is in debt does that help anyone and hid the letters cos they are coming in now. Does he hate himself and not me? he also emails me every day.

2006-10-04 07:43:06 · 8 answers · asked by Angelica 1

I get hit on a lot by my husbands "friends". My husband and I rarely are intiment, and although I have not cheated, the urge is definatly there. WIth so many opportunities available, how do I resist?

2006-10-04 07:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2

married a prostitute?
If so, what was it like? Did they charge a fee to attend the wedding,
like they do for the other, various services that they perform?

2006-10-04 07:39:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing him for 15 months, I have been married, and have a 6 yr old daughter. I really like him, but I want to get serious, I kn ow he likes my child, and he says he really loves me, and enjoys being with me. When he gets home from work he comes over to our house and will stay and eat dinner with us, watch movies, tv, wahtever else were doing at the time. Go to my parent's house, everything that says he really likes me and my daughter. He will even spend the n ight with me, or we will spend the night with him, but when will it go past this. I feel like I am somewhat spinning my tires, and not going anywhere. I want to get serious, and don't know how. I feel that if he isn't in it for me and him, then he needs to let me find someone that is wanting to be serious and let me move on with my life. i need someone to help me raise my daughter, and be there for me. i really like h im, but how much is too much time, and what should I do? Serious answers please.

2006-10-04 07:39:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you are married, is it ok for your wife/husband to give out their number to old girl/boy friends (of the opposite sex), tell them you will text them or call them the next day, when they are not really friends since high school?

2006-10-04 07:36:37 · 9 answers · asked by tara l 1

In most cases, the guy has to pay alimony...
as long as she remains unmarried?

Oh mann.. if it IS true.. then why on earth do the men get married
in the first place??

Oh yeah that's right. We're idiots.

Anyway... your thoughts?

2006-10-04 07:36:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

He lies a lot!

2006-10-04 07:36:17 · 6 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3

hate me just because i beat my wife every weekend i dont want to but she nags me because i spend all my check on beer women and gambling..sometimes i buy expensive things for my car and the kids dont have lunch money at school but what the shi-- welfare will pay for that i get 250.00 a month already and all the money i get mowing lawns is tax free and welfare dont know i pour cement and do painting and get paid cash why they this way

2006-10-04 07:34:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

my partner of two years and i went on holiday to canada and when we came back.. he would not speak to me at all for 3 days and we split up, he has chosen to live with his mother who he does not get on with and step father who he DOES NOT SPEAK TO??anyway he has given me ten different reasons for leaving and the latest one is he wants to live alone.ha. yet he still comes round and helps me with things, I think I went to the toilet on the plane and someone else was in his place...seriously, i dont know the man anymore, how can i possibly get back what we had? what do people think out there of this one???he also bought me a beautiful ring before we went and told me how much he loved me.

2006-10-04 07:24:47 · 35 answers · asked by Angelica 1

well now I'm screwed I just did a home prego test and it came up that I'm preggo's how do I find out which Homie got me knocked up behind the7-11 and what do i tell my wife ?

2006-10-04 07:22:32 · 9 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1

Why do people get married and then cheat!!!!!!!!!!

2006-10-04 07:18:02 · 24 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. Recently I have brought up the topic of having kids, and marriage, because it is really something that we have ever talked about seriously. I was not implying that I want this to happen now, or soon, but I was just wanting to know if this is a possibility somewhere in our future. So he says that he DOES NOT KNOW if he ever wants to get married, or have kids. This puts me in a bad position because he is undecided, which is not a no. I definitely want to get married and have kids. I don't know if I should stay with him, and risk living a live without marriage and kids, or try to find someone else. Besides this issue, everything is perfect, so it seems un-imaginable to walk away from an almost perfect relationship. But at the same time, marriage and kids is a HUGE thing. I don't know what to do??

2006-10-04 07:17:52 · 13 answers · asked by victoriamill002 1

around their home like a mouse and get a life she didn't respond what would you suggest.

2006-10-04 07:10:24 · 12 answers · asked by Journey 1

Omg.
Im getting married in lyk 14 months.
Where should I get married at?

2006-10-04 07:08:42 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley Stieb 1

2006-10-04 07:07:22 · 28 answers · asked by Me 3

How long married? How old are you and hubby?

2006-10-04 07:06:41 · 14 answers · asked by Me 3

and/or the best earliest age you think is the best to get married?

2006-10-04 07:04:20 · 12 answers · asked by colonelfan88 2

This in response to an earier question on being in love with a first cousin. It is NOT WRONG. I am married to my first cousin going on twenty-five years now. We have three very healthy and normal children. Don't believe all the myths about "your child will be mentally retarded", or "they will have webbed hands and feet". We love each other more because we already know who we were and grew up together.Very much in love with my cousin for a wife!

2006-10-04 06:53:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister would like to have my son do some modeling work and some acting work. She would act as his agent so I know he would be very well taken care of. My question is two fold

1. Would this be too much for a 7 year. I mean would it be robbing him of his childhood.

2. do you think he's got the looks. I know all parents think their kids are the best looking but I would like an honest answer.

I should mention the kid's a real ham. He's always acting something out for us. He often has my wife and me in stitches.

My wife and I are thinking long and hard. Odds are that we won't have him do it but I'm curious what others think about this. Although I use to do some acting and found it very rewarding, although not finacially.

You can see pictures of the kid on my 360. Click my user name then 360 and voila!

2006-10-04 06:51:12 · 3 answers · asked by St.Anger 4

2006-10-04 06:38:19 · 24 answers · asked by answergurl 1

Ok, my wife and I have been together for about 5 yrs, and she has always done stuff to just pick fights. Recently (last 8 months), I have taken extreme measures to night fight with her because of our daughter in the house. Well, when I don't fight with her now, she completely loses it. She will grab me really hard and get right in my face and say "oww, your hurting me, let go of me" real loud and in front of the kids. She will make a scene when others are around and say stuff like "You really shouldn't call me those names" -- when I don't say anything at all. She will say some of the meanest things to me to get a response in regards to things she knows I hold dear. She has taken it to the extreme of threatening bodily harm to my daughter if I leave the house to avoid the arguement. Again, I don't want to blow things out of proportion, but I am really concerned and wanted to get someone elses thoughts. Thanks

2006-10-04 06:31:30 · 49 answers · asked by Brian D 3

My Ex-wife had my daughter christened without my knowledge. I have good contact with my daughter and have never had any legal problems regarding consent before. Where do I stand? I am not religious at all and have always said that if my daughter decided to follow any religeon, as long as it was her choice, I would respect it. I feel it is wrong for anyone to decide someone elses religion.

2006-10-04 06:25:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i mean when we men go shoping for you all, and we think we found something nice to bye you, and come home with it to give you , you might say thats nice, thank you, your you might wear it on time and we never see it again.whats the deal?

2006-10-04 06:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by jolleyfarmer2003 2

i am getting a devorce from my spouse because of hurtful things that he says to me he say something like i will never have full trust in you and he thinks i should give him another chance what do you think cause as far as i kno wif he don't have trust in me then we should not be married

2006-10-04 06:23:54 · 14 answers · asked by poporjay 2