I get hit on a lot by my husbands "friends". My husband and I rarely are intiment, and although I have not cheated, the urge is definatly there. WIth so many opportunities available, how do I resist?
2006-10-04 07:42:41 · 13 answers · asked by tear streaked angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A filthy whore?? Yeah, I have never cheated...I get no sex, and I still say no.. Send me to hell!
2006-10-04 07:46:38 · update #1
You sound like a filthy whore.. (not joking)
2006-10-04 07:45:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Remember your vows. You are not a dirty whore ignore the idiot. If you want to be with another man and your husband is not down with that then you need to leave him. I would have a nice chat with the husband and see whats going on between you two before you move on.
2006-10-04 15:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, when this happened to me, my husband encouraged me to get friendly back, but we have an understanding, and a healthy sex life between us.
I would be willing to bet your hubby already knows its going on, unless he is a blind idiot... so sit down and have a chat. Never know how it will turn out.
And you are NOT a dirty whore, that first loser has issues!!
2006-10-04 14:49:36 · answer #3 · answered by Christine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By simply saying "No". Think of it this way. The men want you not for the "intimacy", which you'll agree involves love and affection. Naw...they want some place to ejaculate. Preferably inside of you.
As long as you keep that thought in your head you'll be okay.
Remember...men are filthy, dirty minded, over-sexed jerks. I know. I was one before I got married.
2006-10-04 14:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
propably you and your husband give off the vibe that you two are not intimate. that's why his friends even think about hitting on you. i even think that you husband is cheating on you as well. if a guy truly cares for his woman, his friends wouldn't even dream of hitting you. talk to your husband about his friends' behavior and see how he responds. if he doesn't seem to be bothered or even encourages you to do so, walk away and file for a divorce.
2006-10-04 14:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should brag to your husband every time it happens, but don't make it sound like bragging. Bring it up in other conversation "innocently" but giggle like it pleases you. Jealousy can be such an aphrodisiac! Soon, your husband will be giving you more than you can handle trying to prove those guys have nothing on him!
2006-10-04 15:03:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem, i have been married for three years now and am approached by many attractive women but what i do is i keep a pic of my wife and daughter in my wallet and just think to myself that one night of passion is not worth losing my family, i reccomend that it has worked lots for me. i also think that if you love your husband enough you wouldnt do it. hope i helped. good luck!
2006-10-04 15:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by justin c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the holier then thou losers.
If your man isn't doing it for you, find someone that will. just be safe and discreet. I have serviced many unhapp wives and I was always there when they needed me and left them alone when they didn't
And to the disappointment of the the other whiners, I never caught anything ever.
2006-10-04 14:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would only make your situation more complicated & unhappy. Do not do it, you are better than that. Besides what type of "friend" would sleep with his buddy's wife? Do not associate with that caliber of person. Get counseling, either both of you or just you.
2006-10-04 14:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by waitingtoexhale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your husband know what his "friends" are doing? If not snitch on them. That will take care of your "urge."
2006-10-04 14:45:50 · answer #10 · answered by jenlovely01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You honor your wedding vows you made with your husband. End of story.
2006-10-04 14:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋