Our sex is good but kind of routine most of the time. I would consider our relationship very good and both of us very open to new experiences. Any ideas? No third parties involved!!
2006-10-04 07:58:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
have you tried the handcuff thing? or the good cop/bad guy thing, role playing is fun and only you two need to be involved. Also try on line shopping for a new 'toy' if you are both open to that. try a naughty novel or book and take turns reading to each other.....have fun!
2006-10-04 08:01:58 · answer #1 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try a little role playing or sex toys are a nice way to spice things up I am married for 13 years with 2 children and we keep our sex life fresh by trying new things all the time. As long as you have been married you should be comfortable enough with each other to try some truly amazing things, Here is a thought sit down when the little one is asleep and make a list of 10 things you would like to try sexually and have her do the same and try all the things you have in common on the list.
2006-10-04 08:07:51 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When a child does come into your life then things do tend to get routine and we fall into that and fail to find a way out of it. Sounds like you are on the right track to want to spice things up. Good for you. Toys and toys and more toys and also change of scenery helps as well. Go down a back road somewhere if ya can where it is a very little chance of getting caught in the dark pull the car over let her get on top and ride trust me my hubby loved that one.
2006-10-04 08:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rut roe..............the 7 year itch!! hehehe
Oh, yes, there is a 3rd party involved!! It's your 2 year old!!
You have to have a great imagination to really want to spice things up, and it sounds like your not useing that!!
Try some toys, lotions. Role play. Get a babysitter for the weekend, and try all the wild and crazy things you can think of and try them all out on this alone weekend and then you'll find and have great ideas to carry you through the next 7 years!!
Good Luck!!
2006-10-04 08:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, changing the routine with a kid, is the problem, that's why you HAVE the routine. Hire a sitter! Go away for a weekend! get nasty at naptime! You really have to work at getting out of the routine, especially her. No woman I know can go from diaper changer to sex goddess in an instant.
2006-10-04 08:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by steelypen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of things you can do. From something simple as a naughty game. Like that dice game where it tells you to do or say something to your partner.
The two of you can role play and bring your fantasies to life.
There are so many toys that the two of you can try. I hope this gives you some ideas!
2006-10-04 08:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by CJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what turns her on and then you share with her what turns you on. Based on your answers you should be able to come up with some interesting, fun and safe things to do. Toys are always fun as well as X-rated movies. Playing "dress-up", voyeurism, role playing is all great fun. I'm sure you can arrive at something that will spice it up. Good Luck!
2006-10-04 08:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the video New Sex Now (watch it alone) and then BLOW her mind with a technique that is AMAZING. Trust me......you want spice? This is it!!!
2006-10-04 08:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Send the kid to grandma once a week, turn on the washing machine and sit her a*s on it naked. Wait till the spin cycle.
2006-10-04 08:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
find a babysitter and take the weekend and go somewhere to be alone and try new things with your wife.
2006-10-04 08:13:56 · answer #10 · answered by shepardman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋