My husband is having some sexual performance problems. He said that he just doesn't see me that way anymore. We both love each other very much, but sex is extremely important to him, so this is really affecting our marriage. I'm just wondering if the marriage is over, or if there is some way we can fix this. We have already separated once and he could not seem to stay away from me. Our emotional bond is so strong that he would not leave me alone. I just don't want to give up on our marriage if there is a chance that it could work.
2006-10-04 02:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by bumfuzzled 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say yes. Passion like anything else requires work, but fortunately not at hard of work as some other things. Think of the things that have excited or still excite your husband. Maybe a sexy game of strip poker or a sensual massage. Maybe a make-out session in the backseat of the car while parked in the garage or somewhere outside(personal level of privacy or not in mind). Be creative...show him you have not lost your passion or your ability to be appealing. Oh and do things that make YOU feel sexy....because if you FEEL sexy, you will BE sexy.
Good luck!!!!!
2006-10-04 03:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by Airlantiss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE THERE IS!!! THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP IS COMUNNICATION. TALK TO UR HUSBAND ABOUT THAT! TELL HIM WHAT'S BOTHERING U. AFTER ALL, U R A TEAM AND U SHOULD DEAL WITH THE PROBLEMS TOGETHER! ANOTHER THING U CAN DO IF U DECIDE TO SAVE UR MARRIAGE IS TO KEEP HIS INTEREST ALIVE. TAKE CARE OF URSELF MORE, DON'T LET HIM EVER SEE U WITH UGLY CLOTHES! ALWAYS BE BEAUTIFUL FOR HIM AND FOR URSELF ALSO! START UR DAY WITH POSITIVE EMOTIONS- KISS HIM PASSIONATELY THEN GO IN THE BATHROOM AND MAKE URSELF BEAUTIFUL LIKE UR GOING ON A DATE FOR THE FIRST TIME!! FORGET ABOUT THE BIG COMFORTABLE PANTIES, CHOOSE THONGS OR BIKINI!! SEXY UNDERWEAR ALL THE TIME WILL MAKE U FEEL MORE SELF-CONFIDENT AND SEXY AND SELF-CONFIDENT WOMAN IS THE BIGGEST TURN ON FOR ANY MAN! IF U THINK ABOUT URSELF AS A PRETTY. SEXY, HOT WOMAN, THAT'S HOW OTHER PEOPLE, INCL. UR HUSBAND WILL SEE U! TALK ABOUT UR SEXUAL FANTASIES AND SURPRISE HIM, BY MAKING THEM REAL! KEEP ON EXPLORING EACH OTHER'S BODIES LIKE THE FIRST MONTHS OF UR RELATIONSHIP! GOOD LUCK!
ALSO DON'T FORGET TO REMIND HIM HOW LUCKY UR TO HAVE A GREAT MAN LIKE HIM AND MAKE HIM THINK THE SAME ABOUT U!! I CAN HELP U EVEN MORE, BUT I DON'T WANT TO BORE U, I ALREADY SAID TOO MUCH. ANYWAY, IF U WANT, CHECK MY 360 PAGE!
2006-10-04 03:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer is yes it can be rekindled, but it is like a double edged sword. It takes two to work at it. Both have to work together. When you got married you worked towards a goal and that was to get married. I think today we work hard at the dating that once we get married we slack up somewhat. I suggest that you talk in depth to one another in honesty. Both give your side of what you feel is wrong and both should give a resolution that you think would work and compromise. it takes two to make it work it takes two to break it. I do say this it can't keep going like this cause once it hits this point and if allowed to stay there it won't ever fix itself and will never get better only fester.
2006-10-04 03:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll not have lengthy gone through with a divorce if there wasn't a good reason. in case you've been so "in love" it don't have got here about. you received't have that exact same pastime. seem at Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton. loopy about one yet another the first time (cheated on both their spouses and left them), the 2d time type of fell flat. each and every so often the dream is a lot extra perfect than the reality. So it truly relies upon on why you want to get again at the same time. If that's for pastime, i'd say ignore it.
2016-12-04 06:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by bainter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the spark back in the bedroom. Do something romantic, set up a picnic dinner on your bed. Or watch a sexy movie together. You have to step up the effort if you want things to change.
2006-10-04 03:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would ask him then what is he doing for his sexual pleasure because he is a man and a man cannot go without it and i really think that you should sit down and ask HIM this question
2006-10-04 03:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by penelope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋