im going thru a rough pregnancy im very depressed and my b-f hits me!?

Answer 1

The leading cause of death in pregnant women is murder by their partner. If you're boyfriend is abusive and his abuse has esculated since you became pregnant then you are putting your life at risk by staying with him.

But you are not alone, you have options. Talk to your local domestic violence agency. They can provide you with free counseling, shelter, a safety plan and can assist you in filing for custody and an order of protection once your baby is born. Their services are free and confidential.

You owe it to yourself and your baby to get out of this situation.

Answer 2

Do you feel like you have no place to go? Do you feel scared that he won't let you go?

Your fear will not go away by staying. Once the baby is born he will have the baby to hold over your head. I am a single mother from birth and it is so possible....there are churches and organizations that will help you get a job and a car and a home...do not be afraid. You are not the only woman that is in your shoes. There are many and they want to help you.

Answer 3

You are carrying a baby now and you have got to protect it. So get out of there cause he's no man hitting a woman anyways much less one that's pregnant.

Answer 4

Get the heck away from him. The farther and the sooner the better. Hitting in my book is worse than cheating. he's a lowly coward and should try and pick on someone his own size.

Answer 5

if he is HITTING you then you need to take this stand.... Do Not Let The Door Hit You In The *** On Your Way Out!!!!!!!!!!!! if anything and you do not want to stand for yourself at least stand up for the unborn child the your are carrying that child is innocent and does not deserve to be abused and if you stay there and let him continue to abuse you which in turn he is abusing the unborn child then you are just as guilty as he is MY FRIEND "GET OUT"

Answer 6

Clearly, you go to court, turn him in and get a restraining order. You must put the safety of yourself and your child before this L-O-S-E-R who you "love."
And here's hoping the Judge puts L-O-S-E-R in a nice, dark cell where he can bet hit and "loved" by Big Earl.
No excuses. No delays. Do it. Otherwise, you will regret it until the day you die.

Answer 7

let him go if he hits you now it wont stop just hang in when your baby comes you will see life in a new way LET HIM GO he may hurt the baby i know its hard but you have to think of your new baby you will see the baby will make you happy its part of you good luck to you and the baby

Answer 8

reach out to people for help. there is plenty of things the state can do to help you out. from getting away from him to a place for you to stay and even with your baby. thats one reason we pay taxes is so when we need to use these places we can. so call around and find a place that can help you.

Answer 9

If you are being truthful, then you need to go immediately to a women's shelter. Do not stay there and let him hit you. Don't make excuses either, because it won't end there. I've been there and its not pretty! Please, go get into a safer place.

Answer 10

TIME TO SEEK HELP...SERIOUSLY..THIS IS NOT A GOOD SITUATION..DONT LET THE FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN FUTURE KEEP YOU IN THE ONE YOU ARE IN RIGHT NOW...THERE ARE SHELTER OUT THERE..DEPENDING ON WHERE YOU LIVE..GO TO YOUR LIBRARY AND LOOK FOR FLYERS OR CHECK YOUR LOCAL YELLOW PAGES. OPEN UP TO SOMEONE....PREGNANCY IS NOT EASY WITHOUT SUPPORT...DEPRESSION IS VERY SERIOUS...AND LIVING WITH SOMEBODY WHO IS ABUSING YOU...no - GET OUT!!! PLEASE IF NOT FOR YOU THEN FOR THE BABY...