Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2006

reason, right? Or no? He says he's stopped watching porn. But I dunno.

2006-09-07 15:09:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband of 3 years has told me on several occasions that he does not love me? what should i do?

Is this normal to feel like that at times or is this a sign that I should run? He says that he would not leave. "'I’m stuck in a miserable marriage" is what he says. The hard part for me is that when we are not fighting things are cool. He tells me he loves me and we have good sex. Could he be faking this, or is it just his ego talking when we fight? The hurtful thing is that he seems very convincing when he says he loves me and when he says he does not.

Eric understands. He wrote, " Ask yourself if things are likely to change in the relationship, and if they are not, you have but only two choices; stay where you are, and try to find the good about it, or move on with your life, and find someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated. But keep in mind; no relationship is perfect, and maybe the faults he has are not as bad as they could be in another relationship.

2006-09-07 15:04:46 · 14 answers · asked by peace1274 1

I am 5'4", 121 lbs., fit and muscular, honey blonde, well proportioned...I am hurt by my husband's porn surfing activities. I have consistent offers to hook up with men, but I am madly in love. Why does he feel the need to look at porno pics of other women? help me understand and not take this personally

2006-09-07 15:03:53 · 34 answers · asked by s h 1

2006-09-07 14:58:18 · 11 answers · asked by imyourangel0 1

My husband doesn't pay me much attention anymore. We've ben together almost 4 years and been married a year and a half. He comes in from work and he's so tired, he watches tv all day. I try to do sweet things for him and sexy things to get his attention. But it seems that he just doesn't ever want to do anything. I'm not just talking about sex, but just holding me like he use to or showing a lil affection here and there. I'm beginning to feel lonely and unhappy. I've tried talkin to him, but he pays so much attention to the tv that I have to repeat myself several times. So I end up just walkin away cause he won't talk about it, or anything. We've lost comunication somewhere and I don't know what to do. I've tried everything to get his attention, but nothing seems to work. His given me a bad complex about myself. Sometimes I think of someone else. Is this my que to leave or is this just a rough spot?

2006-09-07 14:53:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is 25-30 a number to be considered to be a promiscous person? How sexual is normal for a man? Should I be worried in being with a person with that history?

Thanks very much:-)

2006-09-07 14:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1

I receive child support from my ex, but I'm going back to work now and I have to put my baby in childcare and wondered if I need to be asking him to pay half???

2006-09-07 14:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by mingshu05 2

2006-09-07 14:45:19 · 9 answers · asked by 30+ oh yeah! 1

I have been in a relationship with my live in boyfriend for years now. We have 3 kids together also. He has not asked me to marry him and everytime I try to talk to him about it he does not answer me and just ignores me. I really want to be married since we are in love and have children together but will not force him. Any suggestions on how to push him to ask?

2006-09-07 14:43:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-07 14:41:51 · 39 answers · asked by LARCO 4

I am a house wife with three kids.I never get a break at all.I'm always home with the kids and never gets to go any where or have free time.I love my kids and I'm in love with my husband who can't seem to stop cheating and lying.My world and my life revolves around only them.I cook,clean,take care of the kids,all of the business,and do any and everything I can to keep him happy.It seems like everything I do and say is not good enough for him.It's like he only have time for me when he wants to have sex.He is always gone,always complaining,and treats me like I'm his maid.He never spend time with the kids at all.I want to work but he don't want me to work.Everytime I get a job I get accused of messing with other men on the job or when ever I leave the house to take care of business.When he gets mad at me,he always tell me he pays all of the bills and that he feel that I have to respect what ever he say or do in so many words.But when he didn,t have any $ I took care of him and worked hard

2006-09-07 14:33:56 · 32 answers · asked by mrs.pierre3 2

We have been married 15 years, have two kids, ages 14 (sophomore) and 11 (6 grade). I feel she should at least take some classes to get some skills that would pay better than what she could do now. I also feel it is important for her to work enough to qualify for social security. I feel like she will look to me for all her support for the rest of her life. I do not believe this is right. We have some decent savings, which she thinks is a lot but I do not. I also feel she knows I stand to inherit a good amount and she has concluded she does not have to go back to work. This really upsets me, because that money, if it ever arrives, is not hers. I just feel she has spare time and should use it to make some money, or acquire skills, which would help us. She does not even know how to use e-mail. So there's a lot she could and needs to learn. She insists all her time be there for the kids. But the kids are in school. I feel its time to start a transition. What can I do?

2006-09-07 14:31:03 · 11 answers · asked by Montreal 2

If there was one thing a married couple could do to stay happily married, what would it be? What is your formula for keeping a successful and happy marriage?

2006-09-07 14:28:49 · 10 answers · asked by Lita 2

mind this other man is fine as hell???

I will tell you what I would do in about 10 mins. after some of you have answered. .... thanks

2006-09-07 14:22:16 · 21 answers · asked by T agent 3

i need won soon becase i am hungary!

2006-09-07 14:19:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is this normal to feel like that at times or is this a sign that I should run? He says that he would not leave. "'I’m stuck in a miserable marriage" is what he says. The hard part for me is that when we are not fighting things are cool. He tells me he loves me and we have good sex. Could he be faking this, or is it just his ego talking when we fight? The hurtful thing is that he seems very convincing when he says he loves me and when he says he does not.

2006-09-07 14:17:31 · 57 answers · asked by peace1274 1

2006-09-07 14:14:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jennifer Y 1

My brother was dating a girl and they had a daughter together. The baby took her dad's last name. now the parents are broken up. neither of them have enough money to go to court, the mom just keeps holding the baby from her dad. She doesn't have any reason to do this. actually the mom had been on drugs in the past and may still be. the dad is a great parent to his other daughter (with a different mother) which he has custudy of. My brother is paying alot of money for child support of this baby because suposidly the mom did not have a job. but today she called him and said that she has a job making $12 an hour and she has a boyfriend. She said that she is gonna change the baby's last name to her boyfriend's last name. Can she do this?

2006-09-07 14:11:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my mom and dad are never happy when they are together they always fight...they say they wanna stay together for the kids but them being together are hurting us more...should they split?? why wont they listen to me?what can i do?

2006-09-07 14:09:39 · 18 answers · asked by Confused Lover 1

,(she wanted out!) and Share a child. My buddy has always loved her, never stopped..but she didn't want anything to do with him! and was just totally nasty towards him. But now her 2 times divorced floating from man to man, bringing different guys in and out of their sons life,she now shows interest back in him and has invited him to stay the weekend with her and thier son! She says it's to celebrate their sons 5th birthday,but everyone but him thinks and pretty much knows that she has alternate intension! Does anyone think this is a good idea for him to go down the same path that was obviously a wrong turn to begin with? And who will get hurt more them or their BOY!!!

2006-09-07 14:04:30 · 7 answers · asked by pepper 2

when at the beach getting a tan I fell a sleep and when I woke up. A man was jacking off about 15 feet from me and his penis was the largest thing I ever saw I did not know what to do I was shocked and scared he might do something. He finshed and then walked right buy me and said hi. What should I do he had glasses on should I tell my husband or the police my husband has a small penis this guy must of been 10 or 12 inches it kinda made me hot.

2006-09-07 14:03:01 · 18 answers · asked by 1 2

I know that i`m entitled to half of his retirement money..am i gonna get some Alimony as well? He's been the sole provider for me the last 20 years and i have been a Housewife and Mother...our Kids are all Adults now and moved out... We bought a House 2 years ago and a new Mustang this year...He's been emotionally abusive the entire Marriage and we had no sex for almost 7 Years... i need real Advice not some BS...FACTS only

2006-09-07 13:59:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not just the porn that upsets me it is the lies. I like looking at porn. I just dont know why he has tolie about it. He also has a personals ad placed that he is looking for a date. I mean it is a alot of lies not just the one.

2006-09-07 13:57:41 · 17 answers · asked by stephanie_30101 1

My husband tells me so much stuff that is not true and even when he gets caught in the lie, he tries to continue with the lie and it is really upsetting after 12 years of marragie. I found the fact that porn had been on are computer and it was hidden in different files that he said was games and when i clicked on the games it took me to a porn site and again he denied it. I know he is lying and i am very un happy and not sure what to do. I am worried what else he is lying about?????

2006-09-07 13:48:35 · 28 answers · asked by stephanie_30101 1

When I was at the beach with my wife I went in the water when I came back she had 4 youg men with big ***** laying next to her. She has never seen any penis but mine before. She was talking to them and when I came back the guys laughed at me and said my penis was tiny on the way back to the car every man we saw was larger than me . We left after that now all she talks about is how big there ***** are and is shocked by there size. I am only 4 inches hard they where all soft and looked twice my size. she wants me to go with her back to the beach and look at all the big ***** .what should I do I love her.

2006-09-07 13:31:08 · 34 answers · asked by 1 2

before we were married and for the first 2 years, my wife didn't mind me dressing up. Except for Halloween, it is always in private. She even bought me a few things. Now she doesn't like it and/or is having trouble accepting it - her sex drive has diminished too. we have been married 7 years and two kids later . She would like someone to talk to... What are other wives experiences? I personally feel empty without her involved in this activity? Any ideas? I wish I could go back to the way it was 7 years ago...

2006-09-07 13:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by abelincolnshat 1

2006-09-07 13:23:06 · 2 answers · asked by mpkar0 v 1

or are they too darn bitter?

2006-09-07 13:17:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well im separated and just found out husband want to get back together for the kids sake so I really don't know what to say. Were separated because he was unfaithful.

2006-09-07 13:15:53 · 14 answers · asked by Hawaiianlady 1

2006-09-07 13:09:13 · 15 answers · asked by justmeadude43 2