,(she wanted out!) and Share a child. My buddy has always loved her, never stopped..but she didn't want anything to do with him! and was just totally nasty towards him. But now her 2 times divorced floating from man to man, bringing different guys in and out of their sons life,she now shows interest back in him and has invited him to stay the weekend with her and thier son! She says it's to celebrate their sons 5th birthday,but everyone but him thinks and pretty much knows that she has alternate intension! Does anyone think this is a good idea for him to go down the same path that was obviously a wrong turn to begin with? And who will get hurt more them or their BOY!!!
2006-09-07 14:04:30 · 7 answers · asked by pepper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the son will hurt in the long run especially if she kicks him to the curb again he needs not to go backwards in life move forwards but she may be his one true love and the mom of his son so it maybe hard for him to say no to her but one day he will wake up and see her for what she really is and having alot of men around the kid is bad boys think moms a ho and hate women when they see sh** like that
2006-09-07 14:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt seem like such a good idea to me, but the problem is, this is your buddy. All you can really do is remind him of how she has behaved in the past, and hope that he wont let his feelings cloud his better judgement.
2006-09-07 14:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-05 04:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by anteby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he should do it,,,if she has hurt him before. and as for the little boy,,his mom is not thinking of him only herself. bringing different men in and out of his life like that,,is not right. tell your friend not to do it...at least for the kids sake, hes going to be all screwed up in the head.
2006-09-07 14:09:37 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can do about that situation,if you friend thinks and act like he knows it only because of there son do not believe him,maybe he still want to be with her did you ever think about that,he probably was just waiting for her to called him back.some men like women that treat them like sh.. sorry but that's the true
2006-09-07 14:15:05 · answer #5 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a grown man and can make his own decisions.If he feel that moving back with her will work then that's on him.Let him be he knows how she is and if he's willing to give it another go then don't stop him.
2006-09-07 14:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop him bfor he repeats his mistake again
2006-09-07 14:28:01 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋