mind this other man is fine as hell???
I will tell you what I would do in about 10 mins. after some of you have answered. .... thanks
2006-09-07 14:22:16 · 21 answers · asked by T agent 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would never do this I did once when I was in high school and it was the worst mistake I have ever made in a relationship its is worse that cheating because there is so many mixed emotions and even though it was his idea he would freak out on me and pick fights about it .
2006-09-07 15:03:30 · update #1
I wouldn't do it. And I would lose all respect for my boyfriend and end the relationship. Because he obviously doesn't have any respect for me by asking me to do that.
2006-09-07 14:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't do it. Just like females (friends or not) men talk too. I've done things in my past that I never told a soul and my boyfriend knows about it. I also think it could ruin your relationship with him. Regardless of looks, what kind of boyfriend would want to run a train on his girlfriend?? I also think it's a matter of respect. Even if you want to do it, just say no and see what your boyfriends response is. If he's ok with your disapproval then that means he has some sort of respect for you. On the other hand if he gets mad and wants to break up or tries to pressure you into it then you know that he has no respect for you at all. Oh, and let's not forget about respect for yourself. If you don't respect you then no one else will. It sounds like you're on the young side too. You sound a little naive. Just because someone is cute dosen't mean that they are worthy of getting the P@*#! you know. And you should think about what if you get pregnant too. Who's will it be? I know you don't want to be another episode on the Maury show!! (lol) Also think about STD's. Condoms won't protect you from everything...you can still get herpes, genital warts, and others. So think before you act!!! Think Hard!!! Good Luck
2006-09-07 21:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by qtpie3782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The wild card here is why in the hell would he want to see another mans unit? I think hes got some unanswered questions about his own sexuality. Now the big question is what was there to be gained except satisfying his own curiousity about being with a man?
2006-09-08 09:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're thinking about doing this neither you or your "man" has any respect for you or your relationship.
It doesn't matter if he won the "fine as hell" world championship.
I don't really care what you did so I won't be around to find out in 10 min.
2006-09-07 21:27:34 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T!!!!!!! IF YOU ARE MARRIED, THIS IS A TRAP!!!!!!!
IT'S JUST A PLOY TO SET YOU UP TO HOLD THE ADULTRY AGAINST YOU IN A DIVORCE......OR IT IS A TEST TO SEE IF YOU WOULD ACTUALALY DO ANOTHER MAN, AND IF YOU SAY NO THEN YOU WILL REASSURE YOUR HUSBAND'S INSECURITIES. IF YOU GO THROUGH WITH IT, YOU WILL NEVER HEAR THE END OF IT. HE WILL CONSTANTLY HOLD IT AGAINST YOU. HE WILL FORM RESENTMENTS EVEN THOUGH IT'S HIS FAULT. IT WILL DRIVE A WEDGE BETWEEN YOU TWO.
IF YOU ARE NOT MARRIED, BUT EXCLUSIVELY WITH THIS GUY, SEE THE ABOVE REASON.
IF YOU ARE IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP, AND YOU ARE NOT TOO EMOTIONALLY INVESTED, THIS COULD BE QUITE HOT, ESPECIALLY IF THE OTHER GUY IS INTERESTED IN HIM, ALSO. IF THERE IS NOT MUCH OS A RELATIONSHIP THERE TO BEGIN WITH, THEN THERE IS LITTLE RISK OF RESENTMENT OR REPRECUSSIONS LATER ON.
2006-09-07 22:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be appalled that my husband didn't have enough respect for me and our relationship than to suggest I have sex with another man. This is not the type of man I would ever want to be married to. I also believe a husband who does this is terrible in bed and can't keep yourself or him happy and is trying the threesome as a move to try and excite things in bed because he can't do it himself. Fortunately, I have been married 16 years and absolutely do not have that problem.
2006-09-07 21:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by frr_ls 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds perverted. Do it if you want to, but I wouldn't. You might get pregnant or catch a sexually transmitted disease from this "fine" man. And don't you have a problem with your man wanting to share you with someone else?
2006-09-07 21:25:45 · answer #7 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, enjoy it to the fullest. Things like this happen only once in a lifetime
2006-09-07 22:04:11 · answer #8 · answered by ernie3232 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What concenting adults do is theri own business, but it is something that should be discussed in advance. I think it would be a risky and stupid thing to do with a stranger.
2006-09-07 21:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by dreaming_again2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all up to you but remember your man might get jealous, and that isn't a good thing
2006-09-07 21:42:40 · answer #10 · answered by mj 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋