Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2006

In the process of dealing with a divorce - the one comment that keeps coming up on message boards, from friends and even counselors is that husbands/wives who have affairs and leave their spouses end up regretting their decisions. Just curious - does this actually happen? If you are a person who did that why??

2006-09-07 07:41:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have sex at least 8 times a week, but now I'm finding he is masturbating and watching porn as well. He is also into virtual porn which means he is in control of what he wants the girl to do. I can't help thinking he's going to cheat one day 'cause I'll never be enough, although he says I am and really loves and lusts me and would never cheat on me. Should I get out of this relationship?

2006-09-07 07:32:42 · 13 answers · asked by V 1

Any ideas for a present?
Ten years is Tin or aluminium, i think.

2006-09-07 07:28:49 · 16 answers · asked by badbadger6969 2

won't let himself get intimate with me anymore. 14 yrs of marriage. He talks about it all the time, but no action. Also I feel him withdraw from me when I try to hug and kiss him. Hes been acting like this for almost 2 yrs now. I am so tired of being rejected by him. Because of it I feel ugly and unwanted. I have been a good wife, I cook, clean and would do anything for him. What have I done other than just love em. Why is he doing this to me. Does he not love me anymore?

2006-09-07 07:22:22 · 31 answers · asked by Sunflower 3

My wife and I have been married for over 6 years and have 1 child. We have both admitted that we're feeling that 7-year itch. Any advice on how to get the sparks flying again?

2006-09-07 07:18:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-07 07:16:15 · 14 answers · asked by paco 1

Have you made an unforgivable mistake. What mistake in your life have you made that is unforgivable ? Not looking for a theoloical answer here. I want to know a mistake you consider unforgivable. And if you are so moved share that mistake.

2006-09-07 07:12:12 · 18 answers · asked by mark 1

I have been married for almost 3 years and its been a very rocky road ~ my husband stopped drinking in Nov of last year we joined a church things were going good for us ~ yesterday I went to get my daughter from school and when I returned home my husband was gone! I mean gone... he had packed things of importance paper items bathroom items most of his clothes and some of his shoes~~ He has not called me or contacted me in anyway ~ no note~~ I dont know what went wrong ~~ any advice?

2006-09-07 07:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by Mellissa M 2

I am small chested and my husband says they're beautiful and he doesn't want me to get a boob job (which I want) but... when we are out he is constantly checking out womens boobs! Not just a quick glance, it's obvious enough that I notice. This makes me more insecure about my own boobs! I got them pierced to dress them up some, but still I hate the size. He says it doesn't matter he's not a boob man he's an *** man, but still he oogles others boobs! Is this just a man thing? Or does he just not want to hurt my feelings, I mean I am offering to make them bigger but he won't let me! Also should I tell him it bothers me when he's oogling boobs, I don't because it's just looking, but it does bother me!

2006-09-07 07:07:08 · 56 answers · asked by faith 5

2006-09-07 07:06:54 · 33 answers · asked by shabu 1

2006-09-07 06:58:16 · 61 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-09-07 06:57:22 · 17 answers · asked by shabu 1

2006-09-07 06:51:49 · 15 answers · asked by jennifer 2

During my Bachelor Party (11 years ago and the one and ONLY time I ever went to a strip club), every stripper that gave me a lap dance said I was going to make a good husband. I thought this was the biggest compliment because who would know sleazy men better than strippers! I used this once during a humorous argument with my wife and she said she didn't think much of it.

2006-09-07 06:50:04 · 29 answers · asked by parkdad73 1

2006-09-07 06:48:09 · 37 answers · asked by dostnumberone 1

You stopped making a connnection on any level with your intimate. The conversations either ended in argument or dissmissed because they didn't agree with or conform to the mind set of your partner. The harder you try to get along with them the more disasterous the situation gets. They demand your undevided attention and have expectations of you that your role of spouse is now a role of servitude with verbal assault, alienation of affection or selfish gratification leaving your heart, mind and spirit more hollow and empty than before. Courage seems to have left your body leaving you afraid to do what needs to be done. The degradation of the relationship is also deminished you as a person and somehow you have lost your identity as well as autonomy which is continually erroded away by the flood of reckless indifference to any emotion, need, want or desire. You have had your character assasinated over and over again with lies and disassociation from friend and family. Hope for help......

2006-09-07 06:41:38 · 7 answers · asked by want2flybye 5

Whats a MILF?

2006-09-07 06:38:19 · 19 answers · asked by sasha 4

have decided I can no longer live with my wife. After 9 years of hell I need to end our marriage. The problem is we have a daughter that I love dearly and enjoy spending time with. My wife wants to take her and move to another state (where she has more family and she thinks a better potential life). The law in my state allows me to make her stay here, but she threatens that if I do that she will kill herself because she does not want to live here. Her threats are real as she has attempted suicide before and hates her life (goes back to childhood issues). I want to live close to my daughter, but I don't want to end up having her hate me because her mom is dead. I could still have a good relationship with her if she is far away and could visit often as I make good money. I can't move there because i'm in the heart of my industry. But it will hurt me not to be at her every event as I always have been. Someone please help me with a serious answer. I've been going nuts over this.

2006-09-07 06:36:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Good I got you're attention

Ever notice Yahoo! answers seems to be a forum where people openly insult each other

I posted this question to see what responces I'd receive.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Atf5NnPtAvUnGHDF5LeGHWnsy6IX?qid=20060907085215AAvmc1a

Strong comment, but not insulting. Did you read the responces. I was called gay, gal, sicko...blah,blah.

People are free to criticize no complaints - but apperently attacking others on-line with insults is fun?!?

You have to admit hidding behind a computer, or the wheel of an Truck - makes it a little easier to tell someone off...

2006-09-07 06:32:52 · 11 answers · asked by Don T 2

Your wife wants to have sex. Which do you choose?

2006-09-07 06:30:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I left my husband. When I returned to get my things and child, the locks were changed and he physically wouldnt let me have her.
I met someone else. So my husband put a restraining order on me so that my daughter cannot be around me IF this man is around. I can only see my daughter freely if I am alone or without a male visitor. What is the deal? I have been a great mother. I just married the wrong man and it took me 23 years to get the nerve to leave. My other two kids are l8 and 20. Their Dad has brainwashed them into not coming around me either if this new man is around. He even had my parents involved. My whole family is siding with my husband. I feel so alone and mad and stupid. I miss my little girl. She is eleven. So in order to be with her---I have to give up a relationship with this man I met that makes me smile. What do I do?

2006-09-07 06:19:45 · 11 answers · asked by chattykatty 1

Yesterday I saw a program on TV that got me thinking. Its a couple who are very comfortable and not jealous that the man and the women see other people. They are still in love.

Given that in some countries divorce is very high and higher than 50% of marriages, and that divorce is so painful for the people and the children involved. Would we not be a happier people if we accepted infidelity (which seems to be quite natural for humans, given the amount of divorces because of it) rather than fight it?

I am sure this would need training on our part, but we train for a lot of things. I mean, even walking down a New York street needs training. Think about what would happen if you had to take a New York street and put it in the middle of IRAN or some other fanatically muslim country. The cultural clash would be horrific.

Is being so touchy about infidelity cultural as well?

Does it make sense to be so hurt with infidelity if it seems so natural?

2006-09-07 06:19:16 · 15 answers · asked by jimbomediterraneo 2

2006-09-07 05:54:07 · 1 answers · asked by hotfire06 1

unhappy life sex is bored!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-07 05:52:31 · 15 answers · asked by confusegirl 1

2006-09-07 05:48:26 · 10 answers · asked by HeartsBreaker 2

my husband says because his daughter is suicidal I shouldn't report this and I haven't. She is just an attention seeker....I dont really think she wants to die....she has tried it 5 times but always around people....its all crap....shall I report her?

2006-09-07 05:42:56 · 23 answers · asked by ♥♥♥GODDESS♥♥♥ 5

pages out of it to put on the garage wall. It was a Harley magazine, I thought they would look cool. She says I'm like a moronic child, do you agree?

2006-09-07 05:42:14 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

When I ask him " why" he simply says" cuz I'm not into it right now"....

2006-09-07 05:38:03 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

MY DATE OF BIRTH IS 22/10/1983. AND SHE WAS BORN ON 13/12/1983. WE ARE NOT BELONGS TO SAME RELIGION.

2006-09-07 05:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by amrit_grewal01 1

my husband and i have been married 13yrs and have split up 3 other times the last time there was a woman involved. every time he said that he did not love me and never did but we would always get back together the last time it was him coming to me telling me he had made a mistake and he loved me. now 3 1/2yrs later he says he doesn't love me again but that he does have feelings for me, but he doesn't love me. we have 2kids daughter12 son 9. i told himthis time i wasn't going to cry and beg to work things out cuz when we do get back together all i do is wonder if he really cares or if it is just convinient for him to stay with me. he has cheated several times in the last cpl yrs and i always forgive him but i just think that if i go back this time then it'll be the same crap all over again and i will at some point start questioning myself and his motives again. he admitted to staying with me cuz he didn't want to pay child support but says he doesn't think he could've lasted that long.

2006-09-07 05:32:52 · 13 answers · asked by pandorasbx007 1