2006-09-07 06:51:49 · 15 answers · asked by jennifer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on what the issue is.
2006-09-07 06:53:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lordy lordy I am trying to deal with the same thing! It really does depend on the situation.. If there are kids involved basically you are married to her too! Sucks yes I know! I would just try to reason with her and shut your mouth when you think you are being to aggressive about something! If kids are involved call her up and exchange email address so you can keep in contact since more than likely you will be seeing her down the road for the next few years.
Take a deep breathe and just be real open and honest about your feelings with you husband.. and hopefully he will understand you! If you there are kids I have a good book for you so email me if you want!
Best of Luck to you!! and me ;)
2006-09-07 14:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there children involved?
You actually probably do not want to deal with the ex at all. You need to keep yourself out of all of their situations.
2006-09-07 13:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it might be, you just have to ignore her. Jealousy will kill your relationship with your husband and if there is kids involved, put them as your main focus. She will always be there and you just have to show your husband that you are ten times better than her.
2006-09-07 13:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by dalejr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grit your teeth and bare it. that's all you can do if you love your husband. i have been dealing with one for 3 years now and it gets a little better as time goes by.
2006-09-07 13:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by amandy245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If no kids don't deal at all she should not be around ... kids drop them off and that s it my advise if you don't have kids with him yet leave if he can't control even after the divorce get out now !!
2006-09-07 14:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by Florida Dawn 13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to because whatever you do, you will be wrong -- either with her or with him. So just leave it alone, let him deal with his ex.
2006-09-07 13:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am good friends with my husbands ex.....
2006-09-07 14:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Kristie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU don't. Let him deal with her. Unless she is harrassing you or your children. If that is the case I would need more information.
2006-09-07 13:55:00 · answer #9 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need alot more information before I am able to answer this question...
2006-09-07 14:05:21 · answer #10 · answered by Diane (PFLAG) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋