Marriage & Divorce - 7 September 2006

MY ex-husband owes me a great deal of back spousal support..he lives in or around salem, oregon..all the attys. want $$$ up front, I am 64yrs. , I have no money ,I have the court judgements, I am in calif...he hides all his stuff through his ''wifes''..help I think I know area, but s.s...will not help..no one wants to help me with this issue..i need really good info...thank you..

2006-09-07 11:06:52 · 8 answers · asked by 65MPH-HA 2

one day I was sitting on the porch watering the grass and my wife pulled up in the driveway and got out of the car and came up to me and was like what was this pen doing in my car? And I was like I don't know. she was mad like she found a phone number or something and was mad as hell foreal and did'nt talk to me the rest of the day. then later on that night she packed all of stuff and left me. and while she was leaving I tried to ask her why and she could not give me a reason. so I let her leave but she came back 30 minutes later. what's up with that? somebody please let me know

2006-09-07 11:04:41 · 8 answers · asked by sicwidit 2

Is it like your husband is from Mars? Does he say one thing and mean another? Wouldn't it be great if someone could tell us what men are really saying?

2006-09-07 10:53:36 · 21 answers · asked by castingguru 1

I have spent most of my life single as I'm pretty picky about who I will date. I only had two relationships that lasted a significant amount of time. The first guy, we were both in trouble and needed someone. But I don't think I ever loved him and I'm glad I left. The second guy, I wasn't really interested at first, but then I started falling for him. He said he *wasn't* falling for me and we broke up. Now I am dating a new guy after a couple years of being alone. I don't understand my feelings for this guy. I think about him all the time but I don't know if this is love. I thought somehow I would know and it would feel right and mostly I just feel really confused. He has most of the things that I'm looking for in a guy. He's very nice and I trust him completely. He treats me well. I wish he was smarter, but he still understands most of the things that I talk about. He's a good listener. Are you a person who questions everything? How did you know when you found the one?

2006-09-07 10:52:55 · 6 answers · asked by pamgissa 3

I'm constantly being accused of making blocked or private number calls to someone and it causes a real problem. I've never dialed this number before. I would love to be able to prove that this indeed was not me so I can shut this ex-spouse up...

2006-09-07 10:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by Mechelle 3

when my husband is being nice i love him so much but when he's not i really hate him is it normal to have these extreme feeling for one person? oh and when he's not being nice he's awful and getting worse

2006-09-07 10:39:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

What does it mean. I had a dream I was leaving my bf and I don't want to but it is making me think that subconciously I do want to, and it is making me feel weird cause I can't quit thinking about it.

2006-09-07 10:33:52 · 10 answers · asked by ~Ronyea Q♪ 3

ok so we have been married for three years and about a year ago she caught me texting another woman that i met on myspace, nothing physical just talking, not even about sex just random ****. but since that incident she thinks i am cheating which i am not, i cant even go out with my boys anywhere without her calling my cell under a blocked id just to see if there are girls around, and when i get home she gives me the third degree and even makes me feel bad for going out. how do i get her to trust me again?

2006-09-07 10:32:32 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

My wife and I have been together for 5 years and are in our mid 20's.

Were we going to wait another 3 years, but decided a month ago to start in a few months because we are both getting the baby bug.

My wife has been baby crazy for about a year, she has cried a few times when she came home after spending the day with her friends' babies. She said she felt sad because she wasn't a mother and it "hurt her heart."

Now that we plan to try for a baby she doesn't even want to look at baby stuff or talk about babies, she said she doesn't want to get her hopes up and make things worse for her.

Is this a normal thing for a woman?

2006-09-07 10:30:14 · 31 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1

When I was in high school I had the opportunity to pursue a religious calling to the priesthood; however I chose a different route. I chose to ignore the religious calling and continue with a "regular life" and ended up getting married. I have been happy in my marriage, for the most part, for over two years, but I am now suffering from depression and constantly think of whether or not I made the right choice. I guess there is nothing I can do about it since I don't agree with the thought or act of divorce and I have made the commitment so I intend to stay with it. I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for me?

2006-09-07 10:23:59 · 17 answers · asked by checkmate 1

What's wrong when you feel so sad and lonely that the only person you have for hugging is the person who's probably making you feel so sad and lonely in the first place?

2006-09-07 10:16:19 · 15 answers · asked by Alyssa 5

I was married 4 months to my wife who treated me very cold. There was no romance or affection in our relationship. She acts like she hated to be around me. The only time I hear from her is when she needs something. This has me thinking something is going on. So I can across her journal, and yes I read it. She was straight dogging me out. Saying things like she wishes she could have sex with her ex again and just alot of bad things about me. i do eveything I can to make her happy. (she doesn't work) I'm thinking this marriage is to new for her to already feel the way she does. I may have been wrong for reading it, but I had to know something. She would have never told me the truth and she was draining me dry. What would you do in a situation like this. I mean she was saying some very hateful things about me and when I confronted her about it she said even more hurtful things.

2006-09-07 10:10:54 · 18 answers · asked by f119pw100turbofan 1

2006-09-07 10:09:50 · 13 answers · asked by ???///??? 3

i met him online and we have been talking for months now almost 8months i live in isreal he lives in new york. when i met him i told him that i was in allen town pa he was like i want to meet you then i had to tell him the truth i really am from there my parents live there now but i left a in january of this year cause i had probleams with my family.i told him my story and i really love gim he tells me all the time he loves me and he like when are you comeing back . i told him this year but then i changed my mind iam leveing next summer. he calls me every weekend and i send him my pictures in the mail.what do u guys think ?he loves me or what .

2006-09-07 10:09:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm more than 10 yrs older than my wife... she's in her early 20s. We love each other. We've been married for over three yrs and she said I'm her best friend. She's fine, I mean she has her beauty, but she doesn't have any friend. She only wants to be with me and I can't go out with my friends anymore. We fight if I come home late, or if I drink... come on I want to live a little, what's wrong with me? She doesn't drink smoke or go to the club (which is good other wise too many guys will be all over her) but is that stopping her from having friends? She said, if she goes out and get to know people, I will be mad because people her age are most likely just want to get hook up and she doesn't want to be around them. She only likes to read and no she's not a nerd, but what's wrong with her. I mean she's pretty, funny, she loves to cook, she takes good care of my daughter and the house. Sex is great, she's demanding, who knows... people said what more do I want, but can't I have a life?

2006-09-07 10:04:56 · 12 answers · asked by S_M 1

Husband buys appartment in London.Has not told you a thing.You overheard he did not buy it for investment purposes just for himself.Does this sound fishy to you?This sounds like a brothel in the making to me .What do you think?

2006-09-07 09:56:40 · 32 answers · asked by JUSEve 2

My husband just bought me a Harley, boots to ride the harley, cool new handle bars, foot pegs ect..I want him to know how much I appreciate all he does for me! He makes way more money than I do and he can buy me stuff that I like. How can I show him how much I love and appreciate all that he does (without spending money)

2006-09-07 09:49:43 · 34 answers · asked by faith 5

7 MONTHS SO FAR Is that long? Normal? ( problem is settlement )

2006-09-07 09:46:36 · 9 answers · asked by sonny 2

lingual. She speaks fluent Russian. She's never once used any of it in front of me. Do you think she's hiding other secrets?

2006-09-07 09:44:35 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband is a good guy,but I can't help How I feel about this other person.I was questioning my marriage a long time before I meet this person I love. I just don't think its fair to be with someone when you don't love them like you should.I have changed alot of my views about marriage.I have no intention of geting married to anyone else at this time.The person I am in love with also loves me and he would be glad if I got a divorce. If I was to ever be with him he says he might want a child some day.I told him that I do not want anymore children.He says he does not know what he wants.If I did not have kids it would be over.I've heard that its not good to stay for the children if things are good.I have told my husband that I want to leave, He wants to try,and I just don't feel that I want to try. I don't think I ever loved him like I am supposed to.Maybe I got married a little to young before I knew what I wanted.email me if need more info. K.

2006-09-07 09:42:59 · 60 answers · asked by Missy 2

just decided to ask blantly and whatever the majority of the answers - that would be it. Sometimes you just need to trust your intuition =)

2006-09-07 09:40:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anna 2

i love a woman a fillipino an over seas worker well i,m egyption so we are not the same nationality or even the same religion also i,m 22 and she is 27 i love her more than anything in this world and she love me too we been togther may be for a year and half now we dont see eachother much cause of the conditions of her work here i,m still studying at colleg and she is working for her family in phillipins i promised her that i will never leave her side and that i will marry her no matter what happen but i,m still a student i tried many times during this year to make a life for us in order to get married i tried so hard but it seems it didn,t work out always there is something blocking my way but my love holding on with me i told her everything about my conditions that i dont know now when i could marry her may be i need even 4 years in order to be ready she will be 31 by this time and i will be 26 u think its selfish of me to ask her to wait for me to be ready even i will marry her

2006-09-07 09:38:45 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has depression. He has suffered from depression for the 9 years we have been married. He isn't able to stay with a job. When his dad passed away, he went into a depression; he ended up in the hospital after a suicide attempt. After that we had a good 4 years, he was with the same job for that time. Now he has started this cycle of job hopping again. I have timed them and for the past 2 years it seems that every 4-6 months he decides he can't stay at his job, because it is beneath him. The last time was in May, I told him if he ever did it again I would leave. Since then he has been a wonderful husband. We have connected again. Then it came out of the blue, he couldn’t go to work, couldn’t handle the fact he was complacent in his job. He stopped himself from running away from it all, and went to a therapist. His mom thinks it’s all about attention. My friends and family are frustrated with me and are telling me not to talk to them about it anymore. They think I should leave.

2006-09-07 09:37:08 · 27 answers · asked by cyunos 2

my husband has feelings for some one else but I think it is just lust because we have been married for 8 years and we where always happy until this happened he told her in front of me that he doesnt want to be with her. but now it has put a big space between us I forgave him but he wont forgive his self how do I fix the space. we have a new baby to think about and I love him

2006-09-07 09:33:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-07 09:32:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend has been involved with a married man for over a year and a half. The man has gone back and forth between her and his wife, playing games with both of them. He stops talking to her for about a month at a time, but she still hangs on. He has talked about getting a divorce but won't even sign the separation agreement.

Her lease is up next month and she is planning on moving to his town which is 6 hours away. He has promised that he will sign the papers and she can live with him. In the meantime, he is still staying at home with his wife and daughter. He acts as though she is not important to him. He's not always available when she wants to talk to him, and feels pressured when she talks abou the papers.

I am fearful that my friend is going to make the biggest mistake of her life by moving up there. What should I say to her to stop her? She always wants what she can't have, so I don't know if she really loves him. But I don't believe he loves her. What to do?

2006-09-07 09:22:36 · 20 answers · asked by torn 3

Could this be early signs of cheating? And would this be considered mentally cheating on me?

2006-09-07 09:17:40 · 19 answers · asked by Geltrude 4

I need this information for a research paper.

2006-09-07 09:16:43 · 26 answers · asked by ladylove32312 2

My husbands birthday. He is an apache helicopter pilot in the army, and we are stationed in Germany. He doesn't like soccer (football), so I can't really do the whole sport's ticket things. He also has all the video games he wants and we just bought a new computer... Other than me and a nice meal, any ideas what he would like. Would especially love past experience for some military men or veterans or what they would like.

2006-09-07 09:14:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-07 09:11:47 · 1 answers · asked by Michelle 1