I need this information for a research paper.
2006-09-07 09:16:43 · 26 answers · asked by ladylove32312 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YEA RIGHT NEWSPAPER....ITS OK FOR A GIRL..BUT NOT A GUY...THEY CHEAT TOO MUCH
2006-09-07 09:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Kitty c 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends entirely on the arrangement between spouses. to go without the spouses knowledge would be sneaking around behind their back, which usually causes problems in the long run - sometimes even in the short run. but if the spouse says, "Go on, honey, have a good time," then there shouldn't be any problem. Unless, of course, the spouse lied, and was just testing you to see if you'd really do it. But lying is not such a good thing either, so if you went, then the spouse shouldn't have any complaints, but depending on the spouse, they might try to make it into a big thing. spousal, and interpersonal relationships are difficult, and it often takes being with a person for quite a while to be able to understand their reaction in a given situation. Generally, the relationship suffers if there is lying and/or sneaking around going on.
2006-09-07 16:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by hasherbob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went to a strip club once with my spouse and was thoroughly disgusted with the whole scene! I would never go again and although I wouldn't "forbid" my husband to go he certainly knows how I feel about them and respects me enough not to go either. To your question: I guess it depends on whether or not your spouse is okay with it. If they are then go but remember to allow them the same courtesy should they want to go too!
2006-09-07 19:08:45 · answer #3 · answered by tess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Research paper. Uh huh.
The only thing that matters is whether your spouse thinks it's okay. And keeping it a secret is the worst thing you can do.
2006-09-07 16:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by smurfette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its right to go to a strip club with your spouse or by yourself. The reason why you marry is that your 100% devoted to your spouse and no one else. and when you begin to look at other naked men or women, it brings things in your relationship that dont need to be there. Temptation to cheat, look, lust, Not good for a relationship
2006-09-07 16:19:30 · answer #5 · answered by justwaitingtoleave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some clubs secretly prostitute the gilrs- so I would worry that my guy would pay a little xtra for some real action if we had had infedelity issues. For that reason, I would be a little worried but would have to decide whether or not to put my trust in him. I personally would not go with my guy... seems trashy.
2006-09-07 16:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be incredibly awkward to be at a strip club with one's spouse.
2006-09-07 16:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by kimilou2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, its fine, if you have a good idea of how his friends are.
not for nothing, men are like little kids; if you make a big deal outta something, they will obsess about doing it, if you play the whole thing aloof, he will lose the curiosity in it.
personally i love going to strip bars WITH my bf. He think its hot
to watch me get a lap dance, and i think the whole thing is pretty
funny. he also thinks im the coolest gf ever b/c none of his other
gf's did that.
2006-09-07 16:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think strip clubs are completely trashy. If a man wants to see a stripper then he should ask his wife to be his stripper. Why waste the money?
2006-09-07 16:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by Lov'n IT! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is ok to go without your spouse..... my wife isnt into chicks so why would she want to go? I damn sure dont want to go with her to a male strip club
2006-09-07 16:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fun research paper! I figure, no touching, no problem!
2006-09-07 16:19:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋