Big boob? Little boobs?

Question

I am small chested and my husband says they're beautiful and he doesn't want me to get a boob job (which I want) but... when we are out he is constantly checking out womens boobs! Not just a quick glance, it's obvious enough that I notice. This makes me more insecure about my own boobs! I got them pierced to dress them up some, but still I hate the size. He says it doesn't matter he's not a boob man he's an *** man, but still he oogles others boobs! Is this just a man thing? Or does he just not want to hurt my feelings, I mean I am offering to make them bigger but he won't let me! Also should I tell him it bothers me when he's oogling boobs, I don't because it's just looking, but it does bother me!

Answer 1

Yes, it's just a man thing. You should understand that men will look at virtually every woman by whom they walk. It has nothing to do with you all; it's just the way men are. You could be built like Angelina Jolie (or you could be Angelina Jolie) and your husband would STILL check out other women. Some men are just better at disguising it than others. The reasons why we check out other women are too complex (other than to say that we are dogs!) too get into, but we all do it. So when your husband says you're beautiful the way you are, he most likely means it.

It sounds like you may want to do it just for yourself. If that's the case, then do it. You don't need to use your husband's opinion as an excuse. But remember -- your husband is still going to check out other women whether you get implants or not.

Answer 2

Bee happy. When i was 11 i was already almost to a C cup. I'm a DD now! I wish i had your boobs! But, it depends on what the guy is into. They DON'T have boobs, so most likely, if you have big boobs and they show a lot, most likely, some guy would want to get in some boob action with you. Basically, if i was a guy, i would skip the boob sand just continue on to whatever. Hope it helped xoxo ;P

Answer 3

Could you be overly sensative about the breast issue as you believe they are too small no matter how much your husband reassures you they are beautiful???

Maybe you are noticing something that isn't really happening because you are feeling insecure...

Talk to your husband and explain to him you would like to do an experiment , go out and purchase a water bra (it's a bra designed to add a size or two without surgery and looks very natural if you buy a well designed one) Wear it all the time and see if your confidence increases and if you feel comfortable with larger breasts... (give it at least 3 months wearing the water bra)...

If you get breast implants you need to get them for you not so you can live up to an ideal you proceive your husband wanting... He has told you repeatedly he likes your breasts and thinks they are beautiful.... Now it's time for you to get things straight in your head and either be satisfied with what you have or fix it for the correct reaon...

Answer 4

I say that if you want em...get em. Don't do it just to get him to stop looking at other women's boobs or any other parts. You're talking about putting foreign objects in your body to put a stop to something that's probably never gonna stop. Don't do it. God gave ya little boobs for a reason. Actually, I hear little boobs are far more sensitive than big ones. Enjoy them sweetheart and give your man a good swift kick in the pants for what he's doing every once in a while.

Answer 5

yes that is just a man thing. I cant really say that i know where you are coming from cause i have a very large chest. Trust me big boobs are not all they are cracked up to be you dont want men to be with you just cause of your breast size. Big boobs make your back hurt i really hate mine and would really like a reduction and i just cant afford it. This is what i tell people either you got cursed with big boobs that make your back hurt or you got tiny boobs and want them bigger there is no happy medium.

Answer 6

I myself have small boobs and I also have the problem of my husband starring at other women with big boobs. I think you should be honest with him, tell him how you feel when he stares at other women. I myself talked to him and express how it made me feel. He still stairs at them but at least now he doesn't make it so obvious. It's very normal for a man to stair at other attractive women. We also stair at men the difference is we don't make it so obvious like they do. As for you getting bigger boobs, I believe it is all up to you. Remember it's your body not his. Maybe he doesn't want you getting them done because he's afraid guys are gonna be doing the same thing he does to other women and that is stair at you.. I know I've been thinking of getting them done but I want to do it for me,myself and I. Sure my Hubby is going to enjoy them as well but I will too. Just remember getting a surgery done is not a game you have to be sure that's what you want. My two sisters got their boobs done and they are both happily married one thing they did say is. Their sex drive has increased dramatically. What ever you decide to do remember do it for you.. I wish you the best!!!

Answer 7

Sweetie, he's married, not blind. So don't let that bother you. In fact I make a sexy game out of it. When I see my husband checking out a girl, I quietly say something like "Oooh, she's cute isn't she...wow, she has an amazing body, what do you like about it?" It's a way of letting him know that I see what he's doing, without causing some stupid woman-drama thing. Also, looking at girls together takes some of the mystery out of it for him, and helps you understand more about what turns on your husband.

About your own body, take it from me....larger isn't necessarily better. I wish I had smaller prettier breasts. Wear your tight shirts and go bra-less!!! He'll be so turned on by your chest, he'll have a hard time looking elsewhere!

Answer 8

That's what they do. It's no reflection on you. My man says the same thing. Embrace your chest. All us small chested women must stick together! (LOL). If you really have your heart set on have a boob job, don't do it for him, and please don't do it because of insecurity. I thought about it for a minute, but I have great legs, eyes, and a huge butt ( some men, especially mine, love that). That's not an arrogant statement just now. I've just learned to appreciate and accentuate the positives. Do you have great hair?, legs?, curves?, butt?, He's not a bad guy, He's just a guy! Good Luck!

Answer 9

I think that if you want the bigger boobs, get them. I have small boobs, and I feel how you feel when my husband and I are out in public. I have had several men tell me that they prefer small boobs, but I'll probably end up getting bigger boobs despite what anyone thinks and says. They are for me after all. I tell my husband how it feels when I see him looking at bigger boobs. If all else fails start checking out other guys units, and see how much he'll have to say about that. GOOD LUCK!

Answer 10

Wow I just went through this with my husband. I have big boobs but their not lifted enough to me. So I mention getting a lift and he told me no he loves them. He loves Boobs in general. Guys are like that. He is not trying to hurt you. I understand my husband now. So I am gonna leave mine alone and just be happy that he plays with them all the time and just looks at other boobs sometime. You'll be fine.

Answer 11

Don't let that bother you. My GF has small ones and I love them....can't get enough of them. The thing is, just because I like small ones doesn't mean that I don't like big ones. I like them all, but prefer small ones. 90% of the time, if you see big boobs, they are on a gal with a big butt and big everything else. Tell hubby to keep his eyes on the road. If you get the boob job, don't go too big.