before we were married and for the first 2 years, my wife didn't mind me dressing up. Except for Halloween, it is always in private. She even bought me a few things. Now she doesn't like it and/or is having trouble accepting it - her sex drive has diminished too. we have been married 7 years and two kids later . She would like someone to talk to... What are other wives experiences? I personally feel empty without her involved in this activity? Any ideas? I wish I could go back to the way it was 7 years ago...
2006-09-07 13:30:04 · 4 answers · asked by abelincolnshat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As much as u would like for it to go back to the way it used to be, the fact is, people change and this may not appeal to her anymore as it did then. Maybe u can suggest something else to her u can both enjoy together.
2006-09-07 13:33:14 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do realize that your wife in the normal one in this relationship.
You are suffering from an addiction. Crossdressing produces the same neurotransmitter responses in the brain as any other addiction (gambling, drugs, etc.). In fact, the crossdressing addiction is related to sex addictions, but is more like making love to your female counterpart.
It sounds like you have made some consciencous decision to restrict your crossdressing activity in order to have a normal family life. This is good and it shows that you do have some control over your addiction. As you get older this will become more and more easier.
My advise to you is to be open with your wife. Tell her how you feel, but also try to understand how she feels. She is not able to make love to cloth and foam... she needs a man. You have to be able to respond to her needs, and recognize that crossdressing is not something you need. It is an addiction for your sexual gradification which is autosexual.
Find out what you can do to make sex and love making more interesting to her.
2006-09-09 12:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one. One of my best friends is a cross dresser and he is having trouble fitting in here in redneck, nevada. She can email me. I will understand.
2006-09-07 20:33:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude! Grow up like your wife obviously has.
2006-09-07 20:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by pixiechick 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋