my mom and dad are never happy when they are together they always fight...they say they wanna stay together for the kids but them being together are hurting us more...should they split?? why wont they listen to me?what can i do?
2006-09-07 14:09:39 · 18 answers · asked by Confused Lover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how is it your business? they are the grownups. it is not your decision.
2006-09-07 14:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Staying together for the kids is never a good idea because kids know when their parents dont get along and it just makes them unhappy too. The problem is, you cant make them get divorced or stay together. Its up to them. All you can do is support whatever they decide ('cause you dont really know what has caused their problems) and try to live a happy life. Sorry I cant help more.
2006-09-07 14:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money motives a great style of divorces. It sounds like they are like a great style of others that offered greater of a house etc. than they could rather manage to pay for. perchance to many autos , and which incorporate that. If dad is already working 8am to 7pm. (kinda unusual hours). Then he's in all probability doing the perfect he can. And mom working 3 jobs, they could desire to be some hours at each and every of them. perchance she could attempt to get an entire time interest someplace. And ask her approximately assembly the fees, do you rather want that great of a house? Fancy autos, etc. if no longer substitute your the thank you to something it incredibly is affordable. Step mothers and dads could be the two good or undesirable. It merely relies upon on the way you get alongside with them. My mothers and dads divorced, and that i think of it became good they did. They grew aside, and have been scuffling with perpetually. i did no longer like that lots. yet while they have been given a divorce issues have been greater appropriate for the two considered one of them, and much less scuffling with.
2016-09-30 11:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents divorced long after they should have divorced-
A married couple who are miserable with each other , but stay together just for the sake of the kids, ar basically teaching the kids its okay to stay in a miserable relationship.
If they are unhappy together, and things cant improve, they should split up- in the end, everyone will be happier..
2006-09-07 14:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by OctopusGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you have no control over. However your parents decide the issue, you should stay noncommital about it and tell them you will respect their decision. Then stay out of it. It isn't your fault, and you are not part of the problem. It is very hard for kids to stand by and watch when things get bad between parents. Sorry you have to watch it happen.
Best wishes to you.
2006-09-07 14:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by Slimsmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay out of that situation and it's unfortunates that you have to see them go through that but it's really not up to you to decided if they want to stay together or not but hope they find a solution very soon and no matter what be there for them as much as u can
2006-09-07 14:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 25 & went through this 10 years ago. You cant do anything pretty much. But they definitely should split. And I feel sorry for you b/c I know first hand how that effects the children. One of them will eventually have enough & leave.
2006-09-07 14:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good for Kids to be in the middle of all that fighting..they need counseling and if that doesn't work then they should try a trial seperation
2006-09-07 14:12:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell them how u feel and not to worry about there kids but they should care but if there not happy togeether then yes they should but they would still need to see each other so the kids would be able to see the other parent.
2006-09-07 14:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by bakergirl313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man & a woman are married it's a bond between the two of them. You have no business offering your opinion unless they asked you.
When a man & a woman are parents...then that's your business.
2006-09-07 14:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they want a divorce they will eventually get one. just back off and stand clear of the fighting i am sorry you are going through this i know it is hard on you as a child of your parents going through this it took my son trying to kill himself for me to get a wake up call and get him out of the mess we were in do not try that though please
2006-09-07 14:15:22 · answer #11 · answered by neesatutt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋