Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2006

what is the real insecure deffinisian when it comes to a married man?

2006-09-02 06:41:55 · 3 answers · asked by ........... 2

or do you think they're too caught up in wanting to be right & hearing "the good stuff" and thinking about their relationships in their own terms?

2006-09-02 06:41:11 · 8 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

We were not married at the time, she called after 3 years and told my husband that she had a baby and that she was seeking paternity, with not only my husband, but her husband and 3 different guys, we are married now, have been since 04, i have 3 kids with him now and love him very much, am i wrong to still have feelings of hatred towards him?

2006-09-02 06:37:51 · 26 answers · asked by dischick06 1

I want a lot of dates.
I want an internet for singles and hetrosexual only, that is the most popular in Southern California, preferable Los Angeles County, Orange County, San Diego County.

I do not want an internet site for meeting 20 or so people with 3 minutes. I did not like it.
I do not want to answer an exhausitve amount of questions about my interest, prefences, or idea.
I do not want asking for my zip code for safety reason.

2006-09-02 06:37:10 · 11 answers · asked by SweetBrunette 5

2006-09-02 06:35:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

in terms of relationship prblems? i feel like i am deeply depressed. my ex couldnt stop cheating on me..i feel like, it has taken a toll on me. it still is.

2006-09-02 06:32:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suspected my spouse cheated and never had the evidence he did. You just get a feeling you know. I'm trying to get past this and move ahead with our marriage. How did you do it?

2006-09-02 06:30:21 · 23 answers · asked by BB 2

if he wants to do anything for his birthday........he said no, so I didn't worry about it because 2 years ago I planned a party for him and he treated me like crap.......he was pissed and he called me names and said that I was just having a party for my benifit.......that really hurt my feelings so the day before the party I cancelled it........I called everyone and said that it was cancelled due to the weather........it really hurt my feelings......he left me and filed for a divorce right after that and we got back together a year later........and here i am again with another one of his birthday.....I just asked him last night if we were doing anything this weekend and he said no,,,,,,,now i just got a phone call from my mother-in-law saying that we are meeting at my brother-in-laws house because she and her daighter are cooking for my husbands birthday and that she invited my husbands uncles........i was so hurt.....should i be?

2006-09-02 06:25:45 · 20 answers · asked by Jen 3

mainly affairs...

2006-09-02 06:25:31 · 35 answers · asked by smily 1

My husband and I have been separated for about 10 years but have not made it legal because of medical coverage, but we'er both nearing retirement and I feel I need to do this now.

2006-09-02 06:21:07 · 8 answers · asked by mscarmen15 1

2006-09-02 05:50:18 · 22 answers · asked by Splash1969 1

I have been divorced for almost 10 years now, but am still very angry. I have to deal with him over kids and not paying. He was doing drugs (cocaine) when we divorced and can't remember things very clearly and see's things completely different about the divorce. He doesn't even remember I had to get a restraining order to protect me and my kids. He says it was only for me, but I have papers. How do I get over this.
I haven't dated and I've never been with another man except for him. We were married 11 years (9 which were really good). I am now very very self conscious and shy because he always called me fat and no good (the last 2 yrs of marriage). I went back to schoold and got my Masters, but am scared to be in another relationship. But how do I get over the anger and move on??

2006-09-02 05:48:10 · 15 answers · asked by melissa_lost 2

Is a person able to file for an anullment in a state different from the one they were married?

2006-09-02 05:44:43 · 2 answers · asked by ishistory 2

My wife still cares for me , but shes lost the feeling in her heart for me after 19 yrs of marriage and wants to leave. We started going together when she was a senior in high school and married a year later, I'm 4 yrs older than she is, and now she feels like shes missed something in life. Our marriage hasn't been perfect by no means and it's 99 % my fault for not communicateing , not shown affection , and our love life as been far from good. So I'm taking the blame totally. But I really do love her more than anything in the world, And I want to go back and start fresh all over again and try to correct the many mistakes in our marriage that I have made. But basically I have to make her fall in love with me all over again.
Is this at all possible

2006-09-02 05:44:00 · 29 answers · asked by t1014 1

2006-09-02 05:42:14 · 20 answers · asked by quiermo_jamel 1

If you were in a place, say work or school, totally independent of any one else who knows you and you met someone whom you thought would be your husband's/wife's soul mate........Would you introduce them?

2006-09-02 05:39:42 · 11 answers · asked by sometimessusie 2

My fiance grandmother wants him and I to get married, but his mom says wait? Who is right?

2006-09-02 05:38:51 · 14 answers · asked by Jessie L 1

I asked my attorney to hold moneys that were owed to my husband and me because was a civil case against my ex. I got my case based upon abuse, drunkardness, and adultry. My attorney did nothing to help me and now i am disabled and applied for disability, but because of her not prepared, I have nothing to live on until my disability passed, and I mean nothing, She even let get by and sponged the back allimoney that he owed to me. I have a house, car, and the reg, phone, electric, and that is all, but I can't even pay that and I think something is going on with her . She even made the comment that she didn't like me

2006-09-02 05:33:18 · 5 answers · asked by ripper 1

overlarge younger 22 yrold girl with stretch marks?and a kid not being bitchy . she was.

2006-09-02 05:29:53 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-02 05:19:08 · 8 answers · asked by hotrdcars9 1

I recently intercepted a txt msg to my hubbys phone from another woman. It said this: "I worry about you and I like you and I hope we get to spend next weekend together." Then i examined my cell phone bill and called my cell carrier and this is what I found out. Between his # and her #, a total of 475 text msgs were exchanged and he called her 30 times, sometimes 3-5 times a day, and all this within a 30 day billing cylce. My gut tells me he's guilty as sin. But one problem, he denies everything, ofcourse, and I spoke with her and she also denies everythng. He realizes it looks very bad and the evidence is overwhelmingly stacked against him, but he swears that it is not what it looks like. All my female friends say he's a pig and to get out now. And deep down, I know that. Its just that I want to beleive him. (i'm running out of room, please wait for additional details)

2006-09-02 05:18:25 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Will yahoo ever give us adults an adult only section,Not for dating or hooking up,,just to be able to ask things and recieve answers we could possibly learn from.

2006-09-02 05:16:38 · 23 answers · asked by scfun_1 2

Do you like or dislike your In-Laws?Do you like your Father In-Law better then your Mother In-Law.Do you Like them the same?Just wondering

2006-09-02 05:08:20 · 22 answers · asked by Pisces 2

We have been married for nine years and have grown apart. I have been told to find someone else.

2006-09-02 05:00:50 · 30 answers · asked by carolinatinpan 5

do you like going up and down or back and forth?

2006-09-02 04:40:33 · 8 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2

I am Christian and I feel very bad when I have to masturbate. My wife has emotional issues and the only way she fills free about sex is when she masturbate. She told me several times that she wants to have sex and I am always ready for that but I also suffer from erectil disorder. I know that I can take medication and when I do so, my problem is gone. What should I do? Masturbate just like her? Wait more than I already did?

2006-09-02 04:38:41 · 20 answers · asked by bme24_7 1

This was something she suggested a while ago and I simply laughed. However, she has returned to the idea. I wondered whether there were too many calories or whatever. She's talking about two jars a day and two bottles of formula. Serious question.

2006-09-02 04:24:44 · 29 answers · asked by infantc 1

2006-09-02 04:24:34 · 22 answers · asked by onehellvawoman 1

I asked a question a couple of days ago about my husband recently wanting to be more independent. I got great answers from everyone but wanted to post a follow up since I've talked with him. He has told me that he loves me and will always love me, but lately feels as though he doesn't know if marriage is what he wants... He feels sometimes that he doesn't want to "have" to call me, or doesn't want to feel obligated to come right home after work. He feels like he wants to come and go as he pleases but come to me when he wants to. Here's a little background- I'm 27; he's 25; we've been married for 3 years. He told me he still wants to work it out; but just wants a little more time being "himself" rather than "the couple". I really don't have a huge problem with this- we are just used to being pretty much joined at the hip. He said he'd like to speak to a therapist to find out if this is just a phase we're going through or if this means we should't be married. What do you all thinK?

2006-09-02 04:15:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

my girlfriend and I are planing to get married. we have had a great relationship in all aspects. we are both are very sexual, and have enjoyed a comitted, satisfying relationship in this respect. She is in The Netherlands now and having trouble with her visa to return to the States. We've been apart 2 months. She told me she needs sex and can not wait until she gets back to the States. She is trying to convince me its only physical it will mean nothing but she has the need to be intimate. I am against it. I know she is going out with some of her male friends there. Her explanation is that she is very social but if she is comfortable with someone she meets she is going to be intimate with them. She also said she will tell me about it in an effort to be honest. She also is constantly asking me to send her money to support her while she is there. Do I tell her to hit the road? Serious replys only- I dont need any jokes at this point.

2006-09-02 04:12:36 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous