Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2006

2006-09-02 23:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by Reggie 1

2006-09-02 23:43:18 · 12 answers · asked by Chuck Dhue 4

to go out to the bar with his friend and not come hom til the next day? The bar he went to is in another town 25 miles away. I know he is with his friend and not cheating on me, I just talked to both of them and they are staying at his friends house

2006-09-02 23:29:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

there parents might be getting a divorce and im on the phone with them at 3 oclock in teh morning how do i help him? what do i say?

2006-09-02 23:10:47 · 6 answers · asked by Alex 1

My best friend is more like my sister. I have known her since I was 5 and we grew up connected at the hip. We lost touch for about a year and a half and when we reconnected I found out she got married.
This guy has been in jail for a year for dealing drugs and got out in July. He moved up here from New Mexico to "get his life straight". Well instead he went right back to selling drugs and doing them. He got my friend pregnant and shes diabetic (so she already has a 70% chance of miscarrying or having a stillborn). So he doesn't come home for 3 days cuz he is coked out. Than a week later he takes all the rent money from her purse, takes thier car (later wrecks it) and goes back to New Mexico and leaves her stranded with nothing, and pregnant.
She says it's not him it's the drugs and does everything to defend him without putting any blame on him. Last I knew someone had to choose to do drugs. He isn't doing anything to help her or the baby and just hurts her...

2006-09-02 22:19:58 · 32 answers · asked by ashez 4

that is the question that is bugging me at the moment..Just not sure if I wanna live or die in Pakistan..I live in Australia was born here and not a Muslim...but willing to convert b/c I love my guy Also we have an age difference...like Im more than half his age..or thereabouts..Im just worried about reaction with us marrying.His mother is 5 years older than me.This and so many issues..Myabe I'm not asking...just needing reassurance. This is soo hard for me..I really don't know what Im to do. we do intend on marrying too, Please help THANX in advance

2006-09-02 22:13:05 · 18 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 2

2006-09-02 22:04:05 · 1 answers · asked by Steven Raj 1

my husband doesnt think he was doing anything wrong by going to this female friends workplace on his lunch half hour four times to check up on her. she just recently broke up with her boyfriend and i called her in front of my husband to see how she was doing and she said fine then he rushes down to where she was to "check on her" without telling me either times

2006-09-02 22:00:07 · 15 answers · asked by debbie e 1

My husband immigrated here 5 months ago from Korea. We met and married in Korea. I lived in Korea for 3 years. Since he's been here, he's had a rough time. He doesn't speak English and he doesn't have any friends. I have tried everything to keep him busy....english classes, martial arts classes, gym memberships,introducing him to other Koreans. We're still waiting for his work permit, so he hasn't been able to work....although it may be impossible for him to get a job for awhile since he can't speak English. He still hasn't even gone to the supermarket by himself! He's depressed now and has told me he wants to go back. I'm at my witts end....I don't know how to keep him happy. I always try to get him out of the house but he refuses, just wants to stay inside watching T.V.

He can't go back to Korea yet because of his process of waiting for a green card.

I don't want to drop my life here. I'm months away from getting my Master's degree. How do I cheer him up?

2006-09-02 21:27:58 · 10 answers · asked by Ms.Kimchi 1

2006-09-02 21:22:45 · 12 answers · asked by qwerty 2

I had vaginismus for which my husband filed a divorce suit after 9 months of marriage. From the beginning I have been noticing his quarrelsome attitude not only with me but also with others, and most importantly his parents. He treated me very badly...so badly that he would have even killed me. Basically he is a very ill-tempered and impatient person who lacks subtlety. He has kind of a very gross, materialistic outlook. He has toyed a lot of girls before my marriage with him. He does not understand that a relationship of a husband and wife has more to it than only sex. And...another thing - my in-laws have kept all my gold and now denying the fact that they have all of it. This is the result of trusting the in-laws. Anyway...

2006-09-02 21:10:34 · 9 answers · asked by Sweet Lady 1

2006-09-02 20:57:52 · 22 answers · asked by john_0502000 3

God so clearly states in his own words (if you take the time to look it up) that it is not right to commit adultery. Therefore the one who has been wronged has the right to put them away for that reason. No, God's plan never was to have divorce in marriage. But He never intended for there to be adultery in marriage.

2006-09-02 20:53:16 · 7 answers · asked by THE BEST 2

Learn to spell the word "Blasphemy"!!!!!!!!!! Also the Bible was inspired by God and he translated to man what he wanted to have the Bible say to us.

2006-09-02 20:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by THE BEST 2

Yes, if your "united" one cheats on you, you are allowed to divorce...... The Bible says "per sake of infidelity.".....You hit it right on the head!!!!! If you don't know what you're talking about stay out of it!!!!!!There is a GOD.....he gave me a divorce!!!!!

2006-09-02 20:44:10 · 4 answers · asked by THE BEST 2

i think its nasty, but what if my husband wants that on our wedding night

2006-09-02 20:41:38 · 25 answers · asked by #1 mother2006 1

2006-09-02 20:39:46 · 13 answers · asked by john_0502000 3

2006-09-02 20:24:37 · 7 answers · asked by THE BEST 2

It's pretty clear that if you give it away before marriage, not many men are going to marry you. They'll just keep playing you until you are used up. Even if you are engaged, they'll keep postponing the "big day." Then they'll throw you aside along with your bastard children. Then what are you going to do, except cry about the dirtbag? Wise up!

www.societyofbastards.org

www.oneminutemarriage.us

2006-09-02 20:11:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to know what it is like after leaving an abusive(verbally/emotionally) relationship. I have been married 8 years with 2 young children and I can't take this abuse anymore. The hollering in my face, the name calling from fat *****, worthless ************, lazy, free loading deadweight, stupid, etc.Or even the silent treatment that lasts for weeks sometimes. I feel like I am dying when he does this. Even in front of my kids. I just need to go but I need a push because I feel so helpless and worthless.

2006-09-02 20:01:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-02 19:59:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated the wrong guy for a year and a half. But I didn't marry him. I can't imagine what it would be like to marry the wrong guy. What's it like being divorced? Dudes can answer, too.

2006-09-02 19:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4

my husband suffers from depression and panic attacks. he has had one everynight this week. he cries and gets shakey and cant stop. he is on anti-depressants called citalopram, and even using adivent during panic attacks to try to calm down, lately nothing works. i told him to talk to the doctor when he took our 6mth old in for his needle. he didnt tell him, but i found out from my mom who went with him that he was asking the doctors how to fix his balding that has begone. i dont know is it a self esteem issue is that why he cries. i have tried to help but have been not trying as much anymore, i just leave him alone when he has one, now he thinks i dont care. how do i get my husband back, this isnt how he was when we started out, he doesnt work, and sleeps alot i feel he has giving up and thinks he future is crap. he is only 25 what do i do...has anyone had to deal with this b4....HELP ME PLEASE!

please dont give rude answers this is my life i am dealing with...

thank you!

2006-09-02 19:46:11 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2

when it is considered by church goers?

2006-09-02 19:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by THE BEST 2

My boyfriend has been in a bad mood for months now, I've become completely passive to avoid fighting with him.

Literally, anything I say causes him to argue or feel aggresive!
Even mentioning a color paint that looks nice on a car or noticing a tree with a broken branch while driving will cause him to go on and on about his opinions!

He's been acting this way for months! I'm tired of saying I'm sorry and telling him he's right when he's not just to diffuse the anger as soon as it starts!

How long is long enough? It's getting worse every day! I'm sick of it! I don't want to be the one to give up right before it gets better!

HELP1

2006-09-02 19:38:45 · 21 answers · asked by me 4

I bought my house before i was married, into our marriage he brought 2 small children, not a problem I love kid's. I worked, he worked we had a sitter for the children, wellll thing's started to get tight, and I decided to refinance my house. As a thought from him was .... why don't you put me on the application maybe it will be better... (major mistake). soooo I said ok...it was said so it was done. We have a joint checking account, so of course his name will be on the check with mine...BUT he has this account for cashing his check's ONLY. I alway's deposit mine, and write my bill's out, and my house payment is part of it. So since his name is on "our" check's the receipt is made out to him and me. I had thought of getting a checking account in just my name for paying bill's but oh well I didn't. we as a couple are not working out now, so we are divorcing!..I WILL f...ing fight for my house.

2006-09-02 19:35:04 · 4 answers · asked by zip1 1

I guess I didnt think befor putting them name out there. I have NO DESIRE to hurt this girl. I really wish somehow I could get her to believe what scum he is. I don't think it is fair to her. Anybody deserves better. I sincerely hope I have done nothing to jeopardize her safety but I doubt just putting a name out there did. Like I said he probably lied about that too. He IS the one in the wrong everyone is right about that. I didnt say everyone was being rude just those that assuming that I am motivated by spite and assuming that I want to cause harm to this young lady. OK Enough about it, sorry I asked, please forgive me and stop gripping at me. DANG

2006-09-02 19:33:08 · 7 answers · asked by SpecialK 2

It used to be that a person could only get a divorce under the 3 A's: adultry, abuse, and abandonment. Now there is a growing number of reasons to file divorces and it's getting easier to get divorced then to get married!!!! And what is the purpose of saying wedding vows if they aren't enforcable in the court of law?

I think if wedding vows were taking more seriously, especially in the courts, the divorce rate would plummet through the floor.

2006-09-02 19:32:20 · 8 answers · asked by Lonewolf 3

I'm married with 2 kids. My husband is perfect, every woman's dream, I've met someone else and have seen him 2 times, but we talk every day on the phone. I really like being with him, just as much as I like being with my husband. I don't want to be with this guy on a permanent basis. If I break up with my husband I don't want to be with anyone on a permanent basis! Sometimes I don't want to be with either one, I just want to get in my car and drive to Mongolia.

2006-09-02 19:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-02 19:28:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous