Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2006

Well my handicap is severe language disorder & comphemain learning. It did not help us when he became abruseful toward me & our 3 children.5 years ago we were having major problems in our ordained marriage & my husband { Paul Heinz }wanted out so he took the coward's & quiter way out with a divorce. The fact remains is marriage is what it is UNTIL DEATH.Divorce is so wrong !He jump over the fence & commited adultery with my x- best friend.He could care less for his ordained marriage,his ordained family & God.He has no conscience;if he had one than he would NOT did what he is still doing.Our children has handicaps also so that means he can not deal with them like he is with me.His girlfriend has no handicap so he does not have the pressure.He is two face toward our children & they see that in him My christain counsellor told us that is how he can now live his life being two face.He is not a man,he is still a boy & does not want to have responsibilities& be the leader of his true family

2006-09-02 01:08:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Our wedding is in one week.

2006-09-02 01:05:29 · 30 answers · asked by Chloe 3

If the grooms last name was hyphened (ie:Sawyer-Smith) What name would the new bride take? Would she take the whole name or just the second name (Smith)?

2006-09-02 01:05:10 · 5 answers · asked by ProudArmyWife! 2

she lives on upper fredricktown road mount vernon ohio. it is extemely important that i locate ralph e smith. i have vital information that could help ralph in his upcoming divorce

2006-09-02 00:50:42 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

And please explain your answer.

2006-09-02 00:48:06 · 43 answers · asked by HULK RULES!! 7

2006-09-02 00:42:49 · 37 answers · asked by Stellas_Mom 1

debts that should be settled he insists he needs his own laptop. is he being reasonable or i'm i being too controlling by insisting that we both continue to share the one we currently have and hold off on the laptop for now?

p.s - we are both students and we are supporting our daughter.

2006-09-02 00:32:57 · 9 answers · asked by arewa247 1

I have grown up in a Christian family. I have been in the worship leading ministry playing keyboard and guitar sometimes since I was 10. When we moved to the city, I still got involved with the ministry where i met my first boyfriend. not that there is a second. he is the bass guitarist of the band. i admit we were fools who rushed in. we were both immature and selfish, insecure and really young and it didn't work out. It ended bitterly. He broke up with me. Said all the words that would make any human being feel unworthy of love. But i know that i have my mistakes also. After he broke up with me, he left the church without notice. It was hard to deal with but with God's help I was able to make it through but I still love him and I was unprepared for his coming back after a year (NOW). He came back at church and months later in the worship ministry and slowly had been trying to get back to me.

2006-09-02 00:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife shows no interest in me anymore. She works late more, goes out of town with men co-workers on business trips, hides the fact from me, and says i don't trust her is why she didn't tell me she was with a man. Should I trust her? She dresses off the scale nice for work, but is totally the opposite with me. She don't seem to care where I go, or when I come back, and won't go anywhere with me socially. Outside of this she is good as gold to me. She has admitted to cheating on me but says that was when we were split up and thats the only time. The problem I can't ever get around is i have saw her with my own eyes all over another man and she will never admit it. This tears at my heart but I stay with her anyway. Should I stay? Should I leave? Financially I can't afford to leave. I feel trapped and want to believe in her, but I don't know what to do. She claims she will go to counseling with me, but never makes an effort to do it, I just hurt all over, and don't know what to do?

2006-09-02 00:21:54 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 10 months, and we do not believe in premarital sex. My husband is very well endowed, so sex always hurts, and I cannot enjoy any aspect of it. It makes me really sad, but I don't want to do it at all because of this, and it is really straining our relationship since I never initiate anything. Because I can never hide that I am in pain, it takes him really long to climax. He thinks we should try to do it more often so it won't hurt so much (since now it's infrequent), but the thought of this scares me. I don't want to be scared of my husband whenever he wants me. It is also hard to change mentally to being 'allowed' to have sex when I haven't before. I still kind of feel like it's wrong and dirty. Please help.

2006-09-02 00:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by TDG 1

Did you fight the most in the beginning of your marriage, or after time had passed?
I'm kindof wondering if people with successful marriages often fought a lot in the beginning and resolved things, or never fought at all, or what?

2006-09-02 00:01:52 · 13 answers · asked by KSR 2