Marriage & Divorce - 2 September 2006

i have made all the payment's, his name is on the receipt but i made the payment's. he contributed nothing toward's the house payment

2006-09-02 04:12:19 · 9 answers · asked by zip1 1

I found that my wife had an ad on an adult website looking for a discreet relationship. Just what does that mean?

2006-09-02 04:08:33 · 25 answers · asked by bill44u 1

ive been living w/ my (now) ex since 2002 when i got pregnant, anyway he seems odd, sometimes hes into it (the whole family thing) and sometimes hes not, i dont understand it. i sometimes see that he flirts with other girls on his fone but he tells me it was just nothing and he laughs about it, saying he was just playing around w/ her because he knew she likes him. isnt that weird?
im no stranger to cheating/playing, i used to play before but i was a kid, and thats because i couldnt take relationships seriously at an early age(17 -19) but now we have a baby i never even thought about another guy even though lots of girls tell me that there are so many guys out there ..
now i find that hes changed his password, and i saw his myspace account full of girls..:( i feel sad and even though hes broken up w/ me i still feel we should be together because of our baby. hes a good dad, hes just an awful boyfriend..i dont know if he'll ever change. he seems to have an excuse to everything(job,etc)

2006-09-02 04:05:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought my hubbie's ex's sewing machine. I have had it for a week and she requested that I pay her today since she will be in the area. I have spent $50 in supplies, fixed the bobbin that was not functioning and I am in the middle of making my 3 kids halloween costumes.
She emailed me today and told me she is sorry for the inconvenice but she cannot buy a new one now, so she needs this one back, but I can use this one sometimes (like I want to lug that old thing back and forth).
Am I obligated to return it, and if not what do I tell her?

2006-09-02 04:02:57 · 31 answers · asked by Sunny And '74 4

how can i return my ex love he is engaged with someone else but he still loves me

2006-09-02 03:59:33 · 13 answers · asked by sweetrabash 1

My husband is a policeman I know he will talk to a lot of people. However is it ok for him to talk to a girl who isn't a co worker and she isn't talking about a police problem. This girl is a friend of his friends girlfriends daughter. I had already asked him to dismiss his self when they came along. He says I'm crazy that he isn't doing anything wrong and that he is in public talking to them. However He and another policeman were at an autoparts store and this girl pulled up and started talking to them. Is this ok or am I just being crazy?

2006-09-02 03:56:54 · 22 answers · asked by brown eyes 1

if we divorce do i get to keep the house or do i ave to fight for it

2006-09-02 03:54:39 · 11 answers · asked by zip1 1

2006-09-02 03:47:35 · 17 answers · asked by Nyatonga J 1

Basically what I'm asking is how do I get him to stop. He say's it's not abusive to call me a bi@#& and things like this. what gives him the right to do this? He also dose'nt put out any more and say's it's my falt. help me please.

2006-09-02 03:39:28 · 53 answers · asked by tushpush1966 3

What do you do to control your anger when you are about to start a fight with your husband/bf?

I always feel bad after the fight, sometimes it can went on for hours and is very exhausting.

2006-09-02 03:26:50 · 15 answers · asked by angela 2

Is there such a document that is proof of not being married? This is one of the things I was told I would need to obtain in order to immigrate to Hong Kong.

2006-09-02 03:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by jooxjoox j 1

First off, my wife and I have a great sex life. However I'm always interested in ways of making it better. I have brought up the idea of 3 some, and she is not into that. No problem, I'm cool with that. I guess part of it that turns me on is the feeling that she is sexy and that other men would find her desirable. I would like to post pics of her on sites to show her off. I'm not sure if she'll go for it or not though, nothing that would show her face though. Another idea I had was of going to a bar or night club, with me sitting apart from her and watching other guys hit on her. I would like to ask her if she would be willing, just not quite sure how to yet. Does anyone have any other ideas or suggestions? We are very happy and I don't think there is any type of weakness or lack of trust in our relationship. I love her, and I want it to be something she could have fun with also.

2006-09-02 03:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by MGO Blue 2

I met my husband on the net, he lives is the united states while i'm still in nigeria and we talk on the net almost every day and night but its like he is more interested in talking about sex than anyother thing, Is this real love?

2006-09-02 03:20:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Married relationship is tough. Pl. tell me the best place to get advice?
i am now getting desperate.

2006-09-02 03:14:49 · 10 answers · asked by kingoftheworld 2

They say they did it under the influnce of alcohol and both of them swear that it was the first time and both wish to get along with my marrying him.
Even if called it off I don't know what I will say.The truth will be an embarasSment for the two families which are close friends.

2006-09-02 03:05:51 · 57 answers · asked by Melinda 1

She is always getting all kinds of looks when we are out. Should I ask her to tone it down a bit?

2006-09-02 03:00:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

when they grow up, will they be more experienced + therefore more capable of dealing with life's c r a p ?

2006-09-02 02:58:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Love is paitence, honest, sincere, truthful, perseverance, accepting, forgiving, self-sacrifying...but how many lovers actually possess these qualities when they vow their love for each other?! U possess your love or provide your love?! A great difference between to love and to lust...

2006-09-02 02:47:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have only been married for a few months but i dont know if our love is strong enough.

2006-09-02 02:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by ebillett 1

I usually enjoy with oral sex. is it harmful to health?

2006-09-02 02:34:38 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

just curious about if it is a common thing to marry your first love like your first girlfriend or boyfriend or is it quite a rare thing?

2006-09-02 02:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just as disicipline, I feel like maybe if we live in an old fashion type of marriage (such as the 40's and 50's) we'll thrive and be much happier. My husband has always been Head of our Household and he has used other forms of discipline (such as corner time, and writing lines) but never spanking. He has reserved spanking for such things as, lying, endangering myself (speeding), disrespect, foul mouthing and other more unacceptable behavior. I know a lot of women DO NOT agree with this but I care to hear opinions from some men, woman, and women who live this lifestyle. There will be NO other kind of spanking, just punishment type, no erotica, maintainance, or playful. I have not received any yet but am curious as to how this has worked for anyone else and the feelings that they got. Thank you all.

2006-09-02 02:18:48 · 29 answers · asked by tuesday 2

My husband and I have been married for 3 yrs together for 8 years and for about the last year, we don't seem to share anything, he likes to hunt and fish, and I would much rather play with or 3 children ages 14(mine),12(his), & 4(ours).When we stay home he stays busy outside until dark and I watch TV with the kids. If we go out together we don't laugh or touch, we only talk with other people around us, and I always seem to end up wondering why we didn't just stay home. Our sex life is non existant, (like once or twice a year) and I am really not interested.I have tryed to talk with him but he doesn't see a problem, other then the sex. He wants it all the time but I am just board, I want to feel like he loves me for other reasons then sex alone and it's just not there.
I somehow feel like we have become room mates with kids. Is this normal? Or am I expecting too much?
If some one can help me to understand how to get out of this rut I would be forever greatful.

2006-09-02 02:13:31 · 13 answers · asked by kleffmanbrenda 1

2006-09-02 02:03:25 · 1 answers · asked by sahilrastogi84 1

what makes a man after 15 years of marrage start looking at other women.i was small when we got married and now i,m a little big.but the same person.he said that he just wanted to see if he still it with other women.more less to see if they would still look at him.but why should that matter if we,re married.he,ll even go in to adult chat rooms and cams looking at women.but i dont do that stuff to him.have i dont something wrong.i,ve never cheated.has my weight made me ugly.please some tell what to do.

2006-09-02 02:01:57 · 17 answers · asked by bigmomma s 2

i kept from her the fact i owed money on a credit card. i've been drinking heavily behind her back, and i was once so drunk that i came on to her sister via text message. she has since kicked me out of the house and i've hurt her so badly. what can i do to prove my love for her? i don't even fancy her sister

2006-09-02 01:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by slinky 3

And is it fun to do it during the middle of the day?

2006-09-02 01:17:59 · 7 answers · asked by louie m 2

2006-09-02 01:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you consider putting your husband in a modern male chastity device such as the new plastic ones now available?

What about the idea of denying him the ability to have erections/ejaculate do you like the most and what would be the best way to lock it on him?

2006-09-02 01:11:05 · 9 answers · asked by internetoptimiser 3

I live in Nigeria. Am 6ft 2inches tall, light complexined, an Environmental Consultant.

2006-09-02 01:11:02 · 11 answers · asked by Maigida 1