i have only been married for a few months but i dont know if our love is strong enough.
2006-09-02 02:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by ebillett 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OK, I have been married for 25 years, there are many days that I have felt like taking a few of my things walking out the door and never ever comming back. I am sure my wife has felt this way occasionally as well. In fact she spent one year trying to piss me off so I would leave.
Fact is we are both to stubborn to do so.
Seriously, there are days, some times weeks or months that things seem to be going down hill in a marriage. It can work though if you both are committed to making it work. Marriage is an investment, the more you put into it, the more you will receive in return.
Just keep it up and you two should be ok...............
2006-09-02 02:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chief 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think love is strong enough, then you shouldn't have gotten married. If you and your spouse married, that's a commitment you made relying on a love you said you had for one another. And love and marriage takes a lot of work, for both partners.
2006-09-02 02:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is ALL sweetie. You wouldn't have married this man had you not loved him, right? The strength of your love for one another comes in time...you can't rush yourself to have the "perfect" relationship at first. You're still REALLY getting to know each others likes/dislikes. BUT, if for any reason, you're (or him) unhappy, get out. Don't stay with someone if you're not happy. You'll only be wasting each others' time. If all is well, just give it some time, things will all come together for you sooner than you know it! Good luck and God bless your relationship.
2006-09-02 02:50:01 · answer #3 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by cassone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, love isn't enough, it's necessaray, but it's not the only thing that keeps a marriage going. You have to LIKE them too. You have to respect and admire your spouse, and if you have all those things, then you have to be willing to work for it, because you know that it's all worth it.
2006-09-02 02:41:31 · answer #5 · answered by smashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is just part of marriage. Marriage is not a picnic. If you think your marriage needs help seek counseling fast before thinking about divorce. Divorce is the easy way out.
2006-09-02 02:43:25 · answer #6 · answered by lady01love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping a marriage going takes a lot of work, not just love. Never! take your spouse for granted, treat them like you did when you were dating.
2006-09-02 02:44:25 · answer #7 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the point of getting married is because you love them...
2006-09-02 02:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, not only one person can make a relationship last, you both have to want it to.
2006-09-02 02:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is stay. It's as simple as that. Also think about getting your tubes tied.
2006-09-02 03:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋