Is it ok for My husband to talk to other women?

Question

My husband is a policeman I know he will talk to a lot of people. However is it ok for him to talk to a girl who isn't a co worker and she isn't talking about a police problem. This girl is a friend of his friends girlfriends daughter. I had already asked him to dismiss his self when they came along. He says I'm crazy that he isn't doing anything wrong and that he is in public talking to them. However He and another policeman were at an autoparts store and this girl pulled up and started talking to them. Is this ok or am I just being crazy?

Answer 1

It's normal wife reaction. Don't go overboard, first of all. Be more observant rather than anything else. On the other hand, monitor their behavior. He shouldn't be flirting with her or spending too much time with her. That's a big no-no. But men, as well as women, like to socialize especially with new people. It might bother you because she's another female figure, but try not to let him catch you in a fit of jealousy--that might fuel him more. Just stay cool for now. It doesn't sound like anything might be wrong. If he stays in that store for too long and skips dinner or something, then you can grab his ear XD

Answer 2

This may sound weird, but seeing as how he is a police officer he needs to keep up his image to the younger generations. I work for a doctor and I need to be professional most of the time. Would you rather see an officer of the law turn away from you when you are trying to talk to him or would you rather have him stop and talk to you. I have make an effort to let my children know that the police are out there to protect you. But if they see an officer walking away when someone is trying to talk to them it may be conceived as the officer would not help them. I dont think that there is anything wrong as long as both parties understand that talking is the only thing that will happen.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

No offense, but you're really being entirely too jealous. Talking, especially in public, is OK. You two have to set, agree to, and follow a set of boundaries as to what is OK and what will ignite a feud. Then stick to it. If the agreement is that he'll only talk with other women in public places, then catching him alone in your house with anyone other than you is a problem. (example)

Answer 5

Your instincts are correct; your man is "sniffing" this young girl out and you know it. He may not have done anything yet, but he's walking the line, so to speak, whether he admits it or not. Tell him under no uncertain terms is he to communicate with her any longer. Go find the girl yourself and tell her you're watching them without accusing her of anything. Just let her know you KNOW what she's up to. And tell his co-worker to keep the girl on a leash! Then drop the subject and keep your eyes peeled. Your husband is flattered that this chickie is paying attention to him. Godloveya.

Answer 6

Crazy no your not. A little over protective? Yes. He is a police man and some people think they are a safe person to talk to and be friendly. I would let your husband it bothers you but you need to trust him.

Just keep one eye always open

Answer 7

I would keep my eyes and ears open, if she and she probably will overstep her bounds and call the house or ride by then you need to tell him what she is doing and you are not going to lay down and let her come between you and him and then tell her to stay away from him because he is married to you. Good luck.

Answer 8

you seem a little insecure (i know all the signs cuz i am so going through it right now) insecurity's generally aren't brought on by your own mind or from one previous incident. and really without beating you and him up over possibly nothing you need to just chill, and let life happen, if something is gonna happen it will anyway, so nag and accuse or don't nag and accuse. sounds simple i know. i feel ya girly, good luck

Answer 9

Well this sounds fishy to me. So why is this girl talking to him? What problems is she speaking to him about?

He can be totally innocent in this. Thinking let me help this poor woman. BUT what is she thinking? She maybe thinking hey Police officer? good job? I want him. I would not trust this.

Or if it is so innocent offer to go along so you can add your 2 cents in helping her with what ever issues she is having. Bet he says no.

Have a friend spy on him to see what he and she is really doing.

Answer 10

Yes, it is ok to talk to the girl, but if it persist, I would ask him to bring her home for dinner. If she comes to dinner and talks to you and him, I do not believe their is a problem. Ask to meet her if the dinner invitation does not work, if you meet her, I would not be concerned. The truth is if your husband is not afraid to introduce you to the girl, then the girl is not a threat to your marriage.