just curious about if it is a common thing to marry your first love like your first girlfriend or boyfriend or is it quite a rare thing?
2006-09-02 02:20:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think it is either. Might not be the smartest to marry your first love right away. But doubt it is rare or all that common.
2006-09-02 02:23:29 · answer #1 · answered by CoCo-Puffs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends how old you know your first love. It is unlikely to marry their first love if they fell in love at the age of 16 of course. If the couple fell in love at their mature age why not? There are people who have never met their right one for a very long time. The wise would not jump right into the tomb of marriage just because of peers and social pressure.
2006-09-02 09:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I dated my first love 5 years, got married for 5 years and promptly divorced his butt. It's not a common thing for people to do, there are lots of people out there so I believe young people should play the field a bit and not get roped into a marraige that you are too young for and end up with a messy divorce and children to care for.
2006-09-02 09:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES IT IS COMMON TO MARRY YOUR FIRST LOVE! I DID WE HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 20 YEARS AND WE HAVE 2 BOYS 14 AND 15, BUT BE SURE HE OR SHE IS THE ONE FOR LIFE.
2006-09-02 09:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by MARRIEDWITHCHILDREN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well im not married but im still with my first love (8 years in oct) and so is my friend but i dont think it is that common just b/c it is not common tho does not mean it will not work
2006-09-02 09:23:14 · answer #5 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so much anymore. I would say if you truly feel in your soul that this is the person you're meant to be with for life, then do it. Don't do it just so that you can say you married your 'high school sweetie' and then regret your life being miserable trying to impress all your friends. =)
2006-09-02 09:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by unique2477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. People date alot until they find "the one".
There are some people who date in high school, then the first one they went out with, they marry.
2006-09-02 09:22:41 · answer #7 · answered by UnR3aL 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's towards the rare side
2006-09-02 09:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i see it happen, it isn't as common. and of course they may marry, but who says they won't split 10 years down the line.
2006-09-02 10:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by Karen Elaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. to me is quite rare. Sometimes you find out when is too, too, late.
2006-09-02 09:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Boricua Born 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋