I met my husband on the net, he lives is the united states while i'm still in nigeria and we talk on the net almost every day and night but its like he is more interested in talking about sex than anyother thing, Is this real love?
2006-09-02 03:20:21 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
theres nothing wrong in that.at least he is still interstead in you and by that you should feel good.be glade he is doing it to you and not some other women. take care.
2006-09-02 05:05:56 · answer #1 · answered by bigmomma s 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hold the phone here!, He is your husband but he lives in the U.S. and you live in Nigeria, Well there is your answer dear, he hasn't had any, this is not about love now it is about needs, he needs some but your too far away to get it. I don't think we are getting the whole story here. Good luck.
2006-09-02 06:25:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She asked a simple question and almost every one here keep asking how is he her husband instead of answering the simple question, according to her they met on the net wich is possible, get together, feel in love and got married, so what's the big deal here?
2006-09-02 04:02:45 · answer #3 · answered by gemini 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your married and he loves you of course he is going to talk about sex because he misses you and the intimate contact you had. If you are saying that you are married to him but that you havn't yet consummated that marriage, then I would be a bit wary if that is all he wants to talk about. Getting to know you would be more normal, rather than treating you as a sex object.
2006-09-02 03:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because hes not having with you any sex . Why are you apart? That's not good for the both of you. About talking about sex all the time, well I think I would worry when hes not talking about it, because maybe then he has found some one else.
2006-09-02 03:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Twilight 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe its beacuse he is so far from u that he feels he needs u that way. remember men relate sex with love. sex is natural when u love some one. i am just wondering how did u get married? men brains r just wired differntly. see if u can go by him as soon as possible. it is a need and some men cheat on their wives because they need sex and their wives cannot give it to them, look at the bright side its better than him cheating on u. so be patient and pray u r together soon
2006-09-02 03:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well how are you guys married it you live in 2 different countries? If you already seen and been with one another he could just be another starving hrony man, wanting his wife. Or a perv that you didn't know about. You need to give a few more details.
2006-09-02 03:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by whackiejackies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sure he loves you, its just what men feel comfortable talking about. It gets them away from talking about problems, emotions, etc. Have a talk with him about it and let him know how you feel.
2006-09-02 12:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kit Katt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he prob talks about it coz hes not gettin it especially if u live apart ! He needs fulfilment so finds comfort in talkin about it - just as long as he doesnt carry it out with someone else he obviously has needs , i think you need to get together soon as !
2006-09-02 03:23:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
unlikley f u dont even live on the same continet you havent really had the chance to
2006-09-03 00:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by bullatpool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it. Sounds like he's in heat or he has some kind of hang up
2006-09-02 09:15:55 · answer #11 · answered by mclamb63 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋