First off, my wife and I have a great sex life. However I'm always interested in ways of making it better. I have brought up the idea of 3 some, and she is not into that. No problem, I'm cool with that. I guess part of it that turns me on is the feeling that she is sexy and that other men would find her desirable. I would like to post pics of her on sites to show her off. I'm not sure if she'll go for it or not though, nothing that would show her face though. Another idea I had was of going to a bar or night club, with me sitting apart from her and watching other guys hit on her. I would like to ask her if she would be willing, just not quite sure how to yet. Does anyone have any other ideas or suggestions? We are very happy and I don't think there is any type of weakness or lack of trust in our relationship. I love her, and I want it to be something she could have fun with also.
2006-09-02 03:21:45 · 16 answers · asked by MGO Blue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are not going to do a 3 some because she doesn't want to. When I was saying about going to a bar of club and watching other guys hit on her, I should have said, only for that, to see them hit on her. It would still only be the 2 of us going home, unless she changed her mind and wanted that.
2006-09-02 03:40:54 · update #1
Please let me reitereate something. WE are very happy and I'm NOT suggesting to do anything that she doesn not want to do, only something that when it is over makes our time togeather something that is that much more exciting. Everything is great now, however I don't believe that means we shouldn't stop with how things are now and not try to make things even more exciting for both of us. We are very much IN love and i'm not trying to jeopardize anything, just add to it.
2006-09-09 05:12:19 · update #2
Your a sicko to want to share your wife....your lost Dude./
2006-09-09 03:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
So am I understanding correctly that you by suggesting a trio are preferring to add another male to the mix...have you told her that you want the third party to be male rather than female? Communication is very important here and there should be no room left for error or misconception. Explain to her that you don't necessarily want to share her but that you'd like to see her in your own Private porn...does she know that you have fantasies about watching her in action...maybe film the two of you having sex while you're wearing a disguise and speaking with an accent...stay in character while making the film...
Good Luck to you... I think a trio is a great idea...
2006-09-09 05:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questions like this one really Pisses Me Off!!! The way that it sounds to me is that you are just wanting to use her as your Play Toy! When a woman is married to the man that she loves & respects, she would like to know that he loves & respects her in return! Not expects her to be his Show & Tell Toy!!!! To Show Off To His Friends!!!!! I'll bet if she wanted you to do that you would get affended and start thinking that she has lost all respect for you as a husband! Oh Excuse Me I For Got, You Type Of Men Like This Kind Of Disgusting ****!!!!!! But Believe Me You Are Not Showing Her Any Type Of Respect!!!!!! It Is Horrible When You Disrespect Her As A Woman, But You Are Not Only Doing That, You Are Also Disrespecting Her As Your Wife!!!!!!!
You Are Dispictable & Disgusting For Even Thinking Of Such A Discriminating & Disrespectful Idea! You say that the two of you are happy together, So why do you need to screw things up with her by Belittling & Disrespecting Her?
You Should Be Ashamed Of Your Self!!!!!!!!
2006-09-09 04:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by bigred 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most powerful sexual organ is the head, not the genitals. A smart and loving mind can fire up an old body. I know a number of elderly folks who have a twinkle in their eye for more than just their grandchildren.
It is important to understand that passion is not merely explosive sexual fireworks. It is also the sexual warmth that is generated by a couple who have learned how to love. Their passion emerges within an atmosphere of understanding, acceptance and respect. The most important way to maintain lifelong sexual satisfaction is to constantly work on improving marital communication. Learning how to listen, to accept and to forgive are essential qualities in maintaining a passionate marriage.
2006-09-08 19:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find some toys or customs to spice up your sex life or maybe even role play but to watch men hit on her sounds like you would enjoy (more the her ) the other man. Good luck in whatever you two chose
2006-09-08 18:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her what SHE wants to do?? These ways of making better seem to be catering to YOUR lust at the expense of your wife's dignity. Even if she goes along with it, she's just be acting like a tramp to get you off!! What's wrong with what you have now?? If its as good as you say it is, don't go messing it up by trying something freaky. She may start to feel inadequate and that could mess up everything, which I'm sure you don't want
2006-09-02 04:21:02 · answer #6 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DID YOU EVER HEAR THE SAYING "Be careful what you wish for"? She may make you happy by agreeing to it and then she falls in love with someone else. Where does that leave you?
You'll be looking FOR some sex life not looking to spruce( or do you mean spice) it up? Sometimes we get what we truly deserve in life and it ain't always good. Think carefully.
2006-09-08 17:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by conetoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey you spice in your life, I am thinking that you just need a mental picture of her doing something that she shouldn't be doing. Ask her to go with you to a Titty bar and give her some money to put in the dancers g-string, have a couple of beers then leave, this should give you the mental picture you are wanting and its not asking her to blow someone. Good luck.
2006-09-02 06:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a problem and, in your mind, you don't have a wife so much as a plaything. When/if she gets her head together, she will/should leave you. You make a mockery of marriage.
How would you explain yourself to your grandmother? What words would you use to tell granny you want to involve your wife in a threesome? Good grief.
2006-09-09 04:38:25 · answer #9 · answered by adamsjrcn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you already discussed a 3some I see no reason why watching other men talking to her should be a problem.
Every couple enjoys different things, maybe she would like to discuss some of her ideas with you as well?
2006-09-09 06:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by ejg411 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not exploit the one you love. If you go out and men approach her or stare at her becasue she is pretty , feel honored to be with her. If you truly love her protect her do not put her into uncomfortable situations for the sake of your strange turn on. Maybe she could do better than you
2006-09-08 07:01:18 · answer #11 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋