I'm married with 2 kids. My husband is perfect, every woman's dream, I've met someone else and have seen him 2 times, but we talk every day on the phone. I really like being with him, just as much as I like being with my husband. I don't want to be with this guy on a permanent basis. If I break up with my husband I don't want to be with anyone on a permanent basis! Sometimes I don't want to be with either one, I just want to get in my car and drive to Mongolia.
2006-09-02 19:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW, it's not about sex.
It's about intelligent conversation about things that are completely different than my usual life.
2006-09-02 20:33:37 · update #1
i guess that happens alot and u just need a break , or a change in ur life ......
2006-09-02 19:41:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can be in love with two people at the same time. About the guy you see now, i feel that it's just attraction. You're attracted to him as because you've found/experienced new thoughts and things. I am sure you love your husband and kids a lot. About this new guy, I would suggest you to get over it, let it go. You've built a family of your own. And you want to protect it:)
2006-09-03 03:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by Atique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the answer to that is no u cant fall in love with two people becuase how would u feel if someone waz doing this to u a boy fall in love with two girls u and the other u cant keep seeing him around tell him is over if ur husband finds out then u suck he either end up leaving u or u brreak up dont ruing ur relationship over this dude stay with ur husband and be happy that way
2006-09-03 02:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we could be attracted to more than one people at the same time.
But what is the reason behind those attractions? Could it be because we feel appreciated? Respected?
Could it be because we feel that we are attractive ? There is need to flirt or companionship with other men? Bored with our situation at home?
Please do consider how lucky you are to have a husband and 2 kids who love you. I do not want to offend you, but it would be best to cut off your relationship with your other man.
It may takes awhile to forget him, but you will. Believe me, I was in your shoes before. By rekindling your relationship with your family, I hope you will feel better.
Good luck to you and may you have the strength to make the best decision for yourself.
2006-09-03 03:56:16 · answer #4 · answered by gelo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna say, get over yourself, really! This is not fair on your husband and kids, not fair at all. Take a promensil or something to dumm down your hormones, because that is all that is talking here, reason has left the building.
2006-09-03 03:01:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IN Love with two people (or attracted to two people) at the same time??
See, it is easier to assume that one is in love, while actually it is attraction. It is acutally possible to be married and be attracted to persons of opposite sex. No man/woman is perfect, and that is the reason, we may be attracted to people outside marriage. You love your husband ( i know it ) and you are attracted to this guy as it is coming across as a fresh and pleasant change, i would advise you to wake up and control yourself. Marriages are easy to lose, hard to maintain, BUT ARE always worth the effort you put into them. since you describe your Hubby as a very good partner, Stick to him and Be loyal.
god bless u both,
care,
Gill
2006-09-03 02:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by Gill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about just keeping a "friendship" with the other guy you've met? Do better to your husband and children!
2006-09-03 03:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey i think you need a professional help,a marriage counsellor perhaps before you make a terrible and stupid decision.
2006-09-03 02:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by silly colie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you're already married and you love your husband, be devoted to him....cut off contact with the other man.
2006-09-03 02:37:17 · answer #9 · answered by PunkGreen1829 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your life. Let it remain simple!
2006-09-03 02:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋