i think its nasty, but what if my husband wants that on our wedding night
2006-09-02 20:41:38 · 25 answers · asked by #1 mother2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Oh he's going to want it. Just think happy thoughts.
2006-09-02 20:46:07 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it isn't part of marriage.I don't know what u find so nasty about it, its the ultimate pleasure for a man.He pleases you orally does he not u should return the favour its called foreplay u need it in a relationship.Ask him to let u know when he's ready to ejaculate than you'll have time to pull away,i'm sure he'll be fine with that.All the best on your wedding night.
2006-09-03 01:01:46 · answer #2 · answered by john c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'M SURE THAT UR FUTURE HUSBAND RESPECTS U AS MUCH AS HE LOVES YOU. IF SO, HE WON'T MAKE U DO ANYTHING THAT U FIND DISGUSTING, ESPECIALLY IF HE KNOWS YOUR OPINION ON THAT. ENJOY UR FIRST NIGHT AS A MARRIED WOMAN AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT. REMEMBER THAT U JUST GOT MARRIED!! THE BEST IS YET TO COME!!
AND NO, ORAL SEX IS NOT A SIGNIFICANT PART OF MARRIAGE. THINGS THAT U BOTH FIND IMPORTANT AND SIGNIFICANT AND PLEASURABLE FOR BOTH OF U WILL MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE GOOD AND SUCCSSFUL. AND SOMETHING THAT I FIND MOST IMPORTANT IN A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP- COMMUNICATION!!! DISCUSS EVERYTHING THAT BOTHERS U WITH UR HUSBAND. MARRIAGE IS NOT ONLY FOR THE GOOD THINGS IN UR LIFE- UR TOGETHER TO SHARE EVEN THE PROBLEMS. GOOD LUCK IN UR LIFE!
2006-09-02 21:09:19 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly do u find so nasty about it? Try to identify the reasons for disliking it, and find ways to resolve the issue. For example: Is it that it makes your stomach churn w/ thoughts of uncleanliness? If so, ask him to shower.... or give it in the shower, after you have cleaned him yourself. Is it that there is so much hair? If so, ask him to trim. Is it the thought of him losing it in your mouth? If so, draw the line there & say no on that one.
I could go on & on w/ questions & ideas. Bottom line, believe it or not, you just might find it a huge turn on once you get over the barriers of "it's nasty". If you take your time and focus on blowing his mind w/ how great u r at it, you just might find yourself enjoying it!
Lastly, if u don't..... who will?? It's a pleasure hard to give up long term. Short term, sure, but after awhile.... it'll lead to resentment, and possibly the desire to find someone who will. NOT that i'm suggesting you should do anything you are uncomfortable w/, BUT.... you definitely have to try to open your mind to sexual ideas/pleasures. Keep in mind, you are taking vows of forever.
2006-09-02 21:02:31 · answer #4 · answered by P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've heard, after the wedding night, no kind of sex is a part of marriage.
2006-09-02 20:44:08 · answer #5 · answered by Seraphim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had the similar problem with my wife, but she tried different things including flavoring oils, whipped cream, etc and now she just do it without the need of anything else...Just be careful of not trigerring your gag reflex . It would not look.. and don't forget to talk with him about it. A good sex life is always full of communication.
2006-09-03 01:11:55 · answer #6 · answered by SemperLeader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much do you love your husband, how much do you want to please him. Not all women will perform oral sex, but it's very sexy and pleasurable, and I do so like it when a woman will do that for me. Also you want oral you have to give oral.
2006-09-02 20:48:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do what is comfortable for you. If you not comfortable then you don't do it.
Oral sex is not as you think. You just might not understand it. Anyways you didn't say who is doing it. You or him. Goes both ways.
2006-09-02 20:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oral is a must in a marriage. Just remember it is a two way street. you have to give and recieve.
2006-09-02 20:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by amvet06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eating a girl is really gross too, but watching them twist around makes up for it. If you don't like it then make sure he knows it's not your favorite thing to do, but maybe do it on special occasions? It's nice to give your signifigant pleasure, which I think is worth a little grossness. Maybe you'll like it? Maybe you won't do it at all? I dunno I think it's a pretty normal thing- but if you just can't stand it tell him. If he loves you it won't matter- but couldn't you say the same?
2006-09-02 20:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He should respect you not wanting to do it if you really dislike it, but you should not discredit it without trying it or attempting to. If you want to make him happy, it's worth considering doing it just out of love and putting up with doing something you don't like - but it's fine to not want to and he should be okay with that.
2006-09-02 20:45:08 · answer #11 · answered by Mansurus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋