I dated the wrong guy for a year and a half. But I didn't marry him. I can't imagine what it would be like to marry the wrong guy. What's it like being divorced? Dudes can answer, too.
2006-09-02 19:49:04 · 16 answers · asked by Brackalicious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
it's cool to finally be free of someone who hasn't made you happy for a long time. once i got over the word divorce it's been gravy,although his punk *ss keeps dodging getting served w/ the divorce papers- i am mentally divorced and prepared for the real deal.it's a year and 8 months since i left that loser,and i feel great,so liberated.he caused me some drama by calling dcfs and lying on me,needless to say i have not allowed him to see our beautiful daughters yet.i now that i was only meant to ever be w/ him to birth tif and zoey into this world.yeah, that's how it's been for me- it may sound shitty but God's giving only what i personally can handle. i do on the other hand hope that you never have to endure anything near to the bull he's put me through including divorce!
2006-09-02 19:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends if its something you wanted then its great especially if you get everything!But if its something you didn't want then it sucks and your miserable till when ever!!And your always asking your self what did i do wrong ,what could i of changed,why didn't i see or listen and god i wish i had another chance!So to me if your not happy and you know without a shadow of a doubt you can go on then go but if you cant then don't just run to a lawyer and yell i want a divorce cause you may be asking for something you just cant really handle!And these days people divorce over the most stupid reasons ,(you looked at me wrong)or(you don't like my cat)just real dumb reasons .To me if you can divorce so easy you never loved that person in the first place.Cause love holds you to someone and you tolerate alot more of there wrongs then you would if you didn't care!!SO my advice 2 is marry first only if you really love someone not just do it for something ot do to say i got married cause that's whats wrong today in this world,people don't take vows serious like in one ear and out the other and that's why most Americans are divorced at least once in there life's i pity my kids when they are my age unless something changes but that i doubt.
2006-09-03 03:35:24 · answer #2 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced for 12 years. It has been great being divorced but it was not easy for me to believe that I made a bad choice to marry the woman I married. I am older now, wiser and much more sure of what I want in a woman. Men and women alike somehow tend to marry he wrong person.
2006-09-03 03:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was married for three years. I got married at the age of 17. I thought he was the perfect guy and I thought he was the one. But after only a year and half I realized that he wasn't and stayed because I thought things would work, but they didn't. Now that I'm not with him anymore I'm much happier. I met somebody else and he treats me like my ex never did.
2006-09-03 03:24:49 · answer #4 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All the same B.S. think about it like levels underground level 1 30 70 etc or go up to 40 then go down the hall take a right, turn around and go back to the elevators.
2006-09-03 02:53:46 · answer #5 · answered by yacheckoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce feels like being released from a cold dark cell into a bright and sunny garden. It takes a little getting used to, but it sure is nice to breathe again!
2006-09-03 02:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't know if this is anything the same, but I'm going through a breakup (of sorts) and right now it's like being numb, angry, confused and alone all at the same time, but you can totally make it through it all, at least, thats the advice I seem to be getting anyway.
Divorced would be mostly the same except you'd have to worry about closing joint accounts, figuring out how assets are split, stuff like that.
2006-09-03 07:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by band_camp_dork 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
marrying a wrong guy is like marrying a bull. then divorce is the best option. after divorce we come to know that it was no bull actully a sage.
2006-09-03 03:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by asshu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't wish a divorce on Osama bin Laden. (But I'd shoot him if I got the chance.) And mine was amicable. You're failing to keep the most serious promise you'll ever make--I can't describe it.
That said, it was the right thing to do. I'm now happily remarried.
2006-09-03 02:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by Pepper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you re the one that gets the boot it sucks for the longest time i wondered where i went wrong, blaming myself for it and feeling empty, then the holidays come birthdays. then you all these people that tell you to move on, let it go. its not that easy you just cant pretend that you dont know that person anymore but it does get better with time
2006-09-03 04:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by maike j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋